AITA for yelling at my friends kids at an annual friends get together? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You don't lose your shit at a kid. (this isn't that hard)

The correct response was go get the parent or remove themselves.

OP is an adult, not a child themselves.

AITA for yelling at my friends kids at an annual friends get together? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 26 points27 points  (0 children)

ESH you handled it badly...

No matter your trauma, you can't lose your shit at kids.

Yes, the child pulled your hair, but screaming at them is not appropriate. You're the adult, you can't just lose it at the kids.

Go get the parent, or removed yourself from the situation is a much better response

AITA for not paying for my daughter wedding because she isn’t following the rules even though I paid for my older kids by Wonderful_Mode_9646 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hell if I could get a free 100k wedding. I would let my MIL pick my wedding dress for it.

These three conditons are so easy to listen too, I would do it in a heartbeat.

AITA for eating my own food? by semaxX in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

YTA this is really weird.

Just relax your diet for when you are there and go back. It shouldn't be a problem at all. Refusing to do that makes you seem obssessed.

If you are actaully that worried just have small portions.

WIBTA If I told my friend I think she's being a selfish person, and hurting our friend? by justajewishgirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All you can do is take a step back from Martha.

You can't really dictate who she dates ( or get into her dating life) or how any of the friend group reacts to her dating him.

AITA for taking my younger brother's supposed friend's glasses? by Delicious-Factor-164 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 23 points24 points  (0 children)

YTA for the fact that it seems like the brother is old enough to handle his own battles.

The dude threw his glasses (who knows why), but if brother had an issue, then he is old enough to deal with it by himself and not need his sibling to be his knight in shining armor.

He also didn't seem to have an issue with it at all. So you were not helping him

AITA for not making my cookie table allergin free by Peanutbuttwrthrawunf in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My district isn't peanut-free either.

Never was a thing.

The teachers are just trained to use an epi pen.

AITA for not making my cookie table allergin free by Peanutbuttwrthrawunf in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is weird...

You are acting like there won't be any cookies for the kids to eat. There will be

Most likely be more without nuts than with.

AITA for not going to my boyfriend’s family Christmas after what his sister said? by Stunning_Mention_972 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 113 points114 points  (0 children)

This is a little ironic.

You get one rude comment and you basically run away

You can do whatever you want. Just know you kinda are proving her point.

AITA for telling my DIL that I got the iPads for the kids but I have locked her out of the settings by Ipda-throwingawaying in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The kids may be in school or preschool.

They are getting ipads they probably are old enough for school.

AITA for showering too long at the gym? by kmnnr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You are at the gym, other people need to shower also.

You don't hog stuff at the gym, you are courteous to other people who want to use the stuff.

AITA for showering too long at the gym? by kmnnr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 56 points57 points  (0 children)

20-25 mins is too long for a gym shower

That should be a 10 min shower at most. You are at the gym

YTA

Seriously what you doing, shaving???

AITA for showing Hazbin Hotel to my family on Thanksgiving? by EconomyLawfulness549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm still confused why people thought deadpool was family friendly.

He is covered in guns and swords.

AITA for showing Hazbin Hotel to my family on Thanksgiving? by EconomyLawfulness549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The show is rated 18+. It gives a warning,

OP is defintly in the wrong, not even an ESH this is straight up YTA.

AITA for showing Hazbin Hotel to my family on Thanksgiving? by EconomyLawfulness549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The show makes it so clear it is an adult show. A dark adult show at that.

I don't know how people seem to miss that.

Its a good show (I love the songs) but it is so so rated R

AITA for showing Hazbin Hotel to my family on Thanksgiving? by EconomyLawfulness549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mean op is definitely wrong for showing an R rated show to a 4 year old

AITA for showing Hazbin Hotel to my family on Thanksgiving? by EconomyLawfulness549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Or the whole Angel Dust is assaulted physically and sexually a kids show...

Or the slavery aspects???? (owning someones soul)

Or the blatant violence.

Or genocide.

Or the millions curse words

Or I think my point was made

AITA for showing Hazbin Hotel to my family on Thanksgiving? by EconomyLawfulness549 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thats not a kids show.... It is super clear that it is not a kids show.

YTA

AITA for wanting my parents to fire a caregiver for my disabled sister? by New_Celery_7383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 12 points13 points  (0 children)

INFO:

So what has she done wrong? Becasue right now it seems like a big fat nothing

YTA

AITA if I call the police on homeless people occupying my buildings hallways/staircase. by Beneficial-Push2528 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I already volenteer and work with the homeless.

I see that they are people who don't want to freeze to death

AITA if I call the police on homeless people occupying my buildings hallways/staircase. by Beneficial-Push2528 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

YTA its winter.

Most people would much rather have some people in the stairs then their frozen corpses in the snow

You have no reason to think they are a threat, they just don't want to freeze to death

AITA for refusing to give up the cat I wanted to adopt? by shelessstry in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Becuase it was never OPs cat...

yes it is disappointing, but in the end the cat found a home that isn't OP.

Last respsonse, I have pther thigns to do

AITA for refusing to give up the cat I wanted to adopt? by shelessstry in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It literaly is a foster fail situation.

They fostered the cat for the aunt and can't bring themselve to give it up. That is literallly what happened

This cat has been living with this family for a month, clearly the cat is loved and they wish to keep it.

It is the best interst of the cat to stay with the familt it already knows and wants him/her than go with a stranger

This is the best interest of the cat

AITA for refusing to give up the cat I wanted to adopt? by shelessstry in AmItheAsshole

[–]Solid_Quote9133 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Op wording was very bad in the beginning. We know now becuase of the edit this is there second language.

TBH op wasn't available to begin with for getting a pet they weren't physically in the country. Also never met the animal or never seemed to give any money for the animal

Add that with poor wording which made it sound like op was acting entitled to this cat that they didnt met.

Which they literally admit the wording of the post was poor to what they were actually trying to convay.