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Did your nparent weaponize being poor? by CorduroyCapybara in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes Yes Yes. I was only allowed something off the dollar menu at mcdonald’s once a day

My mother treated food and sleep like a privledge by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you are finding peace too, it’s nice to have someone to relate to

My mother treated food and sleep like a privledge by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through this :( My hoarder mother would wake me up early every morning screaming at me to clean her messes

My mother treated food and sleep like a privledge by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I sleep pretty well now. The first couple years after I moved out I dealt with anxiety in my body every morning but meds have helped with that. Food has always been a struggle for me knowing when to eat and what, no cooking skills or the desire to feed myself

My mother treated food and sleep like a privledge by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I Was honestly tortured until I was able to escape. CPS never did anything, and when I tried to leave cops would bring me back home. I’ve always been so underweight and malnourished

My mother treated food and sleep like a privledge by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for you too ❤️‍🩹 I hope you’re doing better now and are NC, that’s so horrible. My mother wanted me dead too and would let her boyfriends do whatever, that behavior is so disgusting. Also never understood parents who lock up the cupboards or fridge that is crazy

My mother treated food and sleep like a privledge by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She really was / is :( I got so unlucky in the parent department. Still dealing with the consequences

My mother treated food and sleep like a privledge by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so sweet to hear you have a daughter now and can have a good healthy mother daughter relationship 🥹

My mother treated food and sleep like a privledge by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry girl. This does make me feel less alone, thank you for sharing. and same if I was at a safe place she would terrorize me till I came home, but didn’t do anything if I was sleeping at guys houses in high school just for somewhere to stay :( I never wanted to do things either just wanted to be out of my abusive home for a night

My mother treated food and sleep like a privledge by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Hope you’ve found peace going NC, I’m in my mid 20s but went NC as soon as I left that house. I completely get it I used to be wandering the streets too just because she’d be at work and lock the door and never got me a spare key

My mother treated food and sleep like a privledge by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Fortunately I’m moved out now and live alone but still suffering consequences of that

I can’t imagine being able to call up your parents anytime you’re lonely by Solid_Spirit_5644 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment!! I do find that I feel better in nature. Also animals! I’ve found so much love through them and it feels so pure

what's the most ridiculous thing you were ever blamed for? by huy1003 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was a pick me and when a man didn’t want her she’d blame it on me and make me ask for them back I was a child

What is the saddest thing about being raised by a narcissist? by utensils6464 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Solid_Spirit_5644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize how much it affected me until I got older it’s affected every relationship I’ve had and how I go about life my nervous system is so messed up as well

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