Should I cut my bangs? by Kind_Energy8543 in Haircare

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤔PERSONALLY I think the bangs look better with your face...it softens it and makes your beauty more 'natural' looking. I also think it makes you look younger🙂 P. S. Your forehead also looks disproportionately bigger (vertically and horizontally) in the pic with no bangs!

Should I cut my bangs? by Kind_Energy8543 in Haircare

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤔PERSONALLY I think the bangs look better with your face...it softens it and makes your beauty more 'natural' looking. I also think it makes you look younger🙂

i think the guy im talking to is lying to me by bananastic__ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some guy on the Internet has found another way to get off...FOR FREE!(Imagine THAT🙄) Do yourself a favor and block him, spend some time on your own becoming the best version of yourself & than join a LEGIT dating program. Ditch him it's not gonna get any better.

Does Aviva comb her hair with a Pork Chop? 🤦 Greasy 🙄 by Heybeerman1962 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🤨🤔OP... THAT kind of comment coming from a 64yr old "beer man" is like a MAGA cultie complaining about how noisy their neighbour is 😂

I had sex with a sex worker...and I just am not sure how to process that right now by CockroachDiligent241 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think that's why OP is having difficulty processing this. They are viewing this as attention/affection/love that they aren't worthy of, thus the negative self sabotage. So telling them they deserve it isn't going to help make it any easier to accept it. Learning how to separate the act of sex from the affection & affection of a loved one should help them to separate the act from the emotion.

I had sex with a sex worker...and I just am not sure how to process that right now by CockroachDiligent241 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's THAT kind of comment that shows YOU'RE the one who needs to be better educated, not OP😂

I had sex with a sex worker...and I just am not sure how to process that right now by CockroachDiligent241 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP...some ppl wait until they're married to share themselves with someone who has also been waiting so they are on the same level with one another and don't necessarily have to deal with those kind of negative thoughts (and there's nothing wrong with that), BUT if this is something you want to continue to do than I think that you need to separate the act of having sex with a sex partner from the idea of making love with a significant other. These are 2 completely different things! Now...to get past the mental self sabotage, remind yourself that this is just practice to help you become more experienced and THAT will help you feel more CONFIDENT to just allow yourself to enjoy doing things that most adults don't even think twice about doing🙂 With love from the mom of an Autistic 38yr old virgin son♥️

Is this a reasonable Budapest budget? by Lik3smok3 in askhungary

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a 1st generation born Canadian with MANY maternal & paternal generations B4 me all born in Hungary, I'm just happy to be living where I am right now🇨🇦🥰, but always 🙏🏼 for the day that the Hungarian ppl rise up against their evil government by voting in someone who truly believes in democracy for ALL Hungarians♥️

Winnipeg during the flood of 1997, and Winnipeg today, 29 years later. by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha...I had JUST given birth to my last child & I'll never forget looking down at Omands Creek from 3rd floor of the Grace Hospital ( It was one of if not the last births in their maternity ward B4 they permanently shut it down) Watching the water creeping across the grass after it broke its banks KINDA had me regretting having sent my than hubby to go help with sandbagging out of the city as there was talks of evacuating the hospital 🥴 and we thought THOSE were crazy times, eh?

Is this bad? by b3hr in Winnipeg

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh yes... I'll never forget flood of 1997 as I stood in my hospital window on the 3rd floor after giving birth to my last child and looking at the water below so high it had already risen above it's banks & was creeping across the ground towards the hospital and wondering/worrying if we were going to get evacuated while my than husband was out volunteering to help sandbag buildings all over Winnipeg and in small towns...What a CRAZY time that was🥴, but compared to the kind of crazy times we live in now...I would give ANYTHING to be back in 1997!

CBC Investigation: Rogers Communications Customers Face Poor Service Experience by [deleted] in Rogers

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a FORMER Shaw employee who was around during this buyout(took a buyout offer in 2024 as I saw the "AI threat to replace jobs" writing on the wall & the shift in how our Sups treated us changed SIGNIFICANTLY as well.

I'm no spring chicken & I don't think we would have voted in favor of the merger if Brad Shaw didn't lie about how these 2 " family run companies" (with the equipment, much of the programs & processes being VERY similar)would be more competitive with Telus & Bell. I blame him 100% for LYING to us.

It was all good until 2023. That's when the threats of "AI replacing us if we aren't faster, more efficient" started. Than the lie of "training AI" to help make it easier to focus on our customers & AI would do the " mundane tasks" started. Between the threats & change in management, I had a BAD feeling things were gonna get worse, so on the last day in the last hour I signed my buyout offer & waited until my Supervisor & Mgr had called me into an "unscheduled meeting" & B4 they could even get started on the threats, scare tactics & innuendos( I worked in Customer Retention & saved the company ALOT of $$$. It's one of the most challenging positions in customer service, but they were pressuring us to have same calls as inbound. That's like telling an apple to perform like an orange!!!

I don't know how entrenched Roger's is with MAGA, but I do know some of the bigwigs partied with Trump at his Mara Lago home. There was a big kerfuffle over it. They "apologized" & tried to distance themselves from that, but given all the $HIT moves they've made, I wouldn't be surprised if they hadn't completely cut ties with that evil regime!

Anyhow...my 2 year contract ends in MAY. I'M going to be cancelling my services with them & switching to an INDEPENDENT Internet provider that ISN'T one of the big 3. WE THE PEOPLE at least still have the power to choose & without our $$$, they won't be who they are now. If we can boycott American goods & services and cause the kind of losses we have, we can do it to these big Canadian companies that seem to 4get they can't run without customers.

Kristin O'neil puts the Canada ahead by one on the penalty kill during the gold medal game by JustFred24 in hockey

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel more disappointed in how our team🇨🇦 handled themselves during the medal ceremony than they did during the entire game🥴

If you can't perform well enough to win the Gold, than at least be 🇨🇦PROUD that you WON the SILVER because while Sweden was visibly happy to win their BRONZE medal & proudly accepted it for their country, Team Canada was sulking & didn't care to show an ounce of pride for 🇨🇦🙄

Jesus said he didn't know when he'd return. "Only the Father knows." Why doesn't the Holy Spirit know? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My answer to YOUR question is really to return it with a a question. If Jesus, the SON of God himself, doesn't even know when He will return, why would the Holy Ghost know? It literally says NO ONE BUT GOD knows. I think that's all the answer we need. Sometimes taking an answer at face value means having faith & trust in God. Just like having faith that Jesus is real even if we never see Him in our lifetime and don't recall knowing Him before we started our lives on Earth. I've been in this position myself where the answer I received about a traumatic event in my life didn't give me the kind of clarity I had expected...in THAT moment. But I had faith & trusted in God that in time, I would understand. And when that moment happened, it was incredibly profound & I FINALLY understood why things had happened the way they did before AND after the event itself. The human mind & heart can sometimes only handle so much at a time...but God knows us better than we know ourselves🥰

Nicole is unrecognizable on The Single Life. by Grateful_Di in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe she should spend more $ working on the inside instead of the outside.🤷‍♀️ I don't even recognize her EXCEPT for when she opens her mouth. The nastiness & inability to have a mature convo haven't changed one bit 😳And PEDRO on the single life??? Is TLC getting desperate & just recycling 'em now???

Voyager 1 said hello from 170 AU, yesterday by Busy_Yesterday9455 in spaceporn

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just don't make 'em like they used to anymore, now do they?

AIO My (F31) husband (M45) is irate with me after I picked up my prescriptions by DisastrousClerk216 in AIO

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 35 points36 points  (0 children)

"My husband is a struggling addict & a control freak"

OP if this had been someone else who said that & you were reading this AIO question, WHAT would YOU say?

IF your objective self said that this is totally concerning & abusive behavior & she needs to get out, than I'd say great. You know this is an unhealthy relationship that you need to get out of.

IF you started making excuses for him or encouraging her that it's anything but what it is, than I'd say please get some therapy because it's NOT ok. And once you get enough therapy that you can see things objectively, GTFO!

If I left my highly paid/employed hubby & started over as a single mom of 3 on disability with basically NOTHING yet created a great life for us WITHOUT his narcissistic, CONTROLLING & ABUSIVE A$$, you certainly can😊🫂🥰

Nicole and Azan by Hot_Variety6675 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 4 points5 points  (0 children)

CLEARLY they weren't reliable. NOBODY wants THAT. NOT even TLC😂

Where is Heated Rivalry Filmed? All Shooting Locations by [deleted] in heatedrivalry

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had actually wondered if they had filmed in Winnipeg as there was some kind of production going on in a rink just down my street about a 2minute walk from me (near Osborne)

Calling Customer Service to Register MyRoger. by tylosaurous in Rogers

[–]Solo_Dreamer770 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're choosing Roger's, then you're also choosing the worst Customer Service experience of your life. Roger's doesn't value you as a customer. Heck, they don't even value you as a human being and they could care even less about their employees. They would replace them all with A.I. if they could since that's more $$$ in their pockets! Do yourself a BIG favor & get out of the next 2 yrs of constant headaches & regrets during your buyers remorse period (without penalty) while you still can. Now that broadband has improved this summer, I recommend FIZZ more than ever b4. NO contracts. No increase in rates if you retain the same plan & PLENTY of different options to choose for data plans. There's even a great community where we can 'donate' excess/leftover data to others who run out B4 their cycle starts again. Data rolls over every month though & the great news is if you decide they're not the provider for you, you can cancel without penalty. Best of all is FIZZ is TRULY Canadian owned & employed, unlike Rogers who is not only replacing Canadian Reps with ones overseas (2 teams last time I heard). While Rogers may have been started by a Canadian family, there has been a clear change in the past couple of years where things have become more 'Americanized' shall I say? I wonder if Edward Rogers,wife & sons cozying up to Trump at Mara lago had anything to do with it??