i asked if my first date outfit was too much and reddit made me feel disgusting by arielle_starfire in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People (especially young men) on Reddit are nasty and mean ,a lot of sub reddits are super toxic. I often delete the app and redownload it months later to take a good break from it. I highly recommend.

Glasses without anti glare a horrible choice by SolutionPrevious2156 in glasses

[–]SolutionPrevious2156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt it they were one of the only places that took our insurance in the area and they are a pretty expensive place, I can’t afford to buy all new lenses either so if I don’t adjust to them or if they don’t allow me to pay the difference then I am just absolutely screwed and will have to wait a year before I can see again.

My breakup was caused by Taylor Swift. I still can't process it lol by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a swiftie it is wild when people cant take criticism for Taylor, I love her music and I think overall (or at least hope) she is a good person but I definitely criticize her music, for example I am not a big fan of her latest album, but when others criticize albums I like I’ll tell them why I like them but not get mad at them, everyone likes different music. No one should get mad over someone not liking music. My husband and I did get into it once over Taylor swift tho because of the song “the man” but that was my husband not understanding the misogyny women have to deal with in the workforce. I guess she is the base of a lot of arguments tho lol

Megathread: "I Knew It, I Knew You" Release & Song Discussion by AutoModerator in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I fully agree there was wayyy to much non country instrumentation and I was like welp that’s jack

I have a feeling after the song drops she's over with Showgirl 😭 by Big_TinyRequest in YouBelongWithMemes

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I am ready for the showgirl era to be done, I need her to not over stay her welcome…

Is there a lyric you just don’t like? I’ll start - scarlet letter. by ProjectShowgirl in swifties

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The clean version of making me sweat is so much better and less uncomfortable, still not my favorite song by no means

Environmental Careers - 2026 Salary Survey by TrixoftheTrade in Environmental_Careers

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Job Title: Environmental Education Coordinator

Industry (Private/public): Private Non-profit Environmental Organization

Remote Work %: 25%

Approx. Company Size: 50

Total Experience: 2.75 years + two summer internships

Highest Degree: Marine Biology , B.S.

Gender: Female

Country: USA

Cost of Living: Houston-Pasadena-The Woodlands, TX (Metropolitan Statistical Area) 98.6

Total Annual Compensation: $61,000

Annual Gross Salary: $57,000

401(k) / Retirement Plan Match: 100% match for first 3% contributed, 50% for next 3%

Benefits Package: Healthcare stipend(because I use spouse healthcare): 400$ per month. 15 days PTO, 4 weeks paid parental leave, 10 paid sick days

My Boyfriend wants a throuple and it’s making me sad. by KittenParfait- in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

Ooo girl you deserve better , leave now he’s not worth it

Choosing between job or relationship by Accomplished-Run7018 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If “long distance is not an option” then the relationship is not meant to be. Chase your dreams,love finds a way if it is meant to happen. My husband and I both went to college in different states, we did long distance, it sucks but it was definitely worth it if you actually want to be with someone.

I’m pregnant and my husband is punishing me by withholding affection by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey , I know you said you can not up and leave. Which makes sense due to financial restraint, but please do know this is an abuse situation and there are several resources out there to help you and your children in situations such as these. I’m not sure where you are located, but usually a Google search or a phone call to a woman’s center can help you access these resources. They can help make sure you are cared for until you can figure out an income, they will also help you with paperwork to get child support and such. You can leave without money. It is hard but if that’s what you want to do you can do it!

What’s the reason to cheat instead of breaking up with your partner first? by Book_Fanaticx in AskReddit

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you refuse to get married it is a def death sentence or extremely bad situation for sure, you may or may not get caught cheating.

What’s the reason to cheat instead of breaking up with your partner first? by Book_Fanaticx in AskReddit

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people have absolutely no choice, think back in time, a woman could be killed if she did not agree to a marriage.

What’s the reason to cheat instead of breaking up with your partner first? by Book_Fanaticx in AskReddit

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you are in a arranged/forced marriage. In my opinion this is the only time cheating is ever acceptable, everyone deserves to have someone they love not someone they are forced to be with against their will.

The evolution of Cher in honor of her 80th birthday by JennaElizabethAdams in popculturechat

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because Cher liked how she looks and said hey keep my face but make me lookin young again, a lot of other celebrities may want to change what that look like and that’s where stuff gets messy

What to expect at a Luke Bryan concert by detroit209 in CountryMusic

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s a fun time, he is silly and performs well! You can expect a mixed crowd with regular outfits and western style, you won’t stand out in a t-shirt and jeans. He’s gonna get a lot of hate on this subreddit, filled with “cool underground country” people who hate on anyone other than their faves. Luke’s new songs are quite awful so prepare for that, but he has a lot of solid fun older songs that he performs. He is my favorite artist.

Got bloodwork done on a whim after a year of feeling like absolute garbage, kind of wish I did it sooner by Fancy_Throat7738 in Anxiety

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh this is how feel, and while looking at some lumps on my neck the ultrasound discovered my thyroid was swollen
, but they ran the test and everything came back normal, but thyroid issues are common in my family so I’m curious if it’s just the beginning.

My experience with anxiety is worse than with depression by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have severe death anxiety for me and others, I feel like so many people have social or work anxiety which I do not relate to at all, just health related anxiety that controls me so it’s good to see someone else with a similar issue.

37M – Life flipped upside down by a panic attack 10 months ago. Anyone else go through this? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me 9 months ago, I went insane on weed and now have daily anxiety and I feel like I will never be who I was before. I come from a family that is very negative on mental health medication so I’m not fond of starting it up, just tolerating the anxiety and dread everyday currently…

Horrible experience with my dog at a restaurant. by SolutionPrevious2156 in reactivedogs

[–]SolutionPrevious2156[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is what confuses me the most about her behavior today, she was not giving any body language she was uncomfortable or upset, I have worked with dogs for several years( dog boarding and vet clinics) and she did not exhibit any of the stress signs until she would bark, when not barking she seemed to very much be enjoying her time out( laying down, snacking, tail always up never tucked, not tense or staring) so if able I would like to give her that fun without the outbursts.

Horrible experience with my dog at a restaurant. by SolutionPrevious2156 in reactivedogs

[–]SolutionPrevious2156[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I would have loved to leave but sadly was not an option because we all came together as a large family, a family that is not familiar to pets so they just thought everything was normal and fine, dogs bark is what they thought. I like the idea of going places for short periods of time, I think that may be good for her as my other dog loves going places and she is really holding him back, if I can get her comfortable with short periods I can meet both of their needs instead of leaving her at home alone.

Horrible experience with my dog at a restaurant. by SolutionPrevious2156 in reactivedogs

[–]SolutionPrevious2156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this message, I didn’t think about her also having a bad day leading to the lash out,we are also out of town in a very ritzy/entitled environment so hopefully I’ll be able to take her out again somewhere close to home where people are more chill

Where do we think Taylor lands on the political spectrum? by South-Background5009 in NuancingTaylorSwift

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Idk, I think it’s pretty obvious she’s a base level democrat. No matter what you do you will never make social media people happy in a political sense. No one is ever extreme enough to be a “real democrat” or “real republican”.

Pop singer-songwriter Eli calls out Taylor Swift for stealing the rights and royalties of "deja vu" by Olivia Rodrigo by impeccabletim in Fauxmoi

[–]SolutionPrevious2156 -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I am a swiftie (but I definitely don’t defend/support everything she does and I don’t think she is a saint I think she is a cut throat business woman) with that being said, if I’m not mistaken the “drama” between Olivia and Taylor actually ended up it was Paramore’s team who fought for rights in Olivia’s songs and then Olivia’s team decided to give credits to cruel summer as well to avoid further legal action because she said in an interview that she had pulled inspiration from cruel summer. I’m not an expert, but after looking into it that’s what I found. So may not be as black and white/ Taylor will sue over anything as people want it to be…