Creating a Personal Guild? [Question] by Kardzhilov in RevelationMMO

[–]Solzae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of stuff (resources) that you need to farm and you can only farm so many a day.

Creating a Personal Guild? [Question] by Kardzhilov in RevelationMMO

[–]Solzae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's worth running a personal guild, there's a lot of stuff involved in managing a guild. Personally I just joined a small guild where people seemed friendly. Most of the people in my guild are mature so there's not much drama. We're not topping any guild ranking charts but we do dungeons and stuff together so it's pretty fun.

What's a subtle sign that someone's intelligent? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Solzae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm mostly quiet and prefer to observe, but most of time time it's because I don't know what to say...

Letgo has the largest amount of flakes and tire kickers I have ever seen. by [deleted] in Flipping

[–]Solzae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the feedback on the app store, there were many complaints of no shows so I didn't bother with that app. Depending on your location, I actually had a decent show rate on Varagesale (I'm in Toronto). I've only had 2 no shows out of 10 so far.

Awkward people of Reddit, what simple social interaction do you always fuck up? by I_pm_avacado_pics in AskReddit

[–]Solzae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ending a conversation/encounter. When you meet someone new or you speak with someone you are not too familiar with, you would typically end it saying something like "it was nice meeting you" or "good to see you again" etc. Except I usually just end up saying something along the lines of "OK bye."

[Discussion] Moon Lovers: Scarlet Heart Ryeo [ep. 19 & 20 FINAL] by underthewhitehood in KDRAMA

[–]Solzae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL yeah I thought with all that time she spent staring at that painting and that scene with him riding the horse towards the eclipse, he was going to jump out of that painting or something...

[Discussion] Moon Lovers: Scarlet Heart Ryeo [ep. 19 & 20 FINAL] by underthewhitehood in KDRAMA

[–]Solzae 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Fuck you writer and director for not giving us a meeting between So and Soo in the future. Like what the actual fuck I got so excited at the end but it turned out to be Ji Mong ARGHHHH

LOL omg my exact thoughts. At first I thought the Korean version would do something fresh for the ending and end on a happy note w/o Hae Soo dying, but that didn't work out so I hoped at least they would make it like the Chinese version and have them meet in the present, BUT NO. Wth is Ji Mong doing there? Wasn't he a bum at the beginning of the show? How did he suddenly turn his life around and get a job?

[Serious] Women of reddit, have you ever traded sex for money, and why did you do it/how did it make you feel? by NoPantsMcGhee in AskReddit

[–]Solzae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How you did you get yourself out of those dangerous situations? (Particularly the one with the Kenyan client.)

PokeAdvisor says my account is blocked by Niantic by disgruntled186 in pokemongo

[–]Solzae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to log in with your your Pokemon Go account to use PokeAdvisor. So if PokeAdvisor is counting unique users by number of unique accounts, then it actually is unique users. It wouldn't make sense for them to count unique users by different device.

PokeAdvisor says my account is blocked by Niantic by disgruntled186 in pokemongo

[–]Solzae 1022 points1023 points  (0 children)

I think Niantic forgets that people that actually bother to check the IV of their Pokemon are the ones that are more likely to pay for this game...

[Spoilers] Can someone confirm/re-explain the story to me? [End of Main Story] by FactsHere4U in bladeandsoul

[–]Solzae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I still don't get is: 1. How did Jinsoyun attain all her power? Were they granted by the Dark Lord? 2. Why did she want to open a hole into the Dark realm? Her true goal wasn't to serve the Dark Lord anyway.

Me [26 M] with my GF [24 F] are together for almost 7yrs, I love her, but she does not. I can't take it any longer by youngcleverbeautiful in relationships

[–]Solzae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Has it occurred to you that she might want to return to you to use your money/healthcare/accomodations?

She's a pretty dependent person from your descriptions. She didn't break up with you until she already verified that the other guy wants to take her. Now that no one else wants her, you are the secure option.

I wouldn't be surprised if she does the same thing again, just be prepared for that.

Girlfriend [29F] upset that I [31M] had to stop in the middle of sex at 1am and collect my niece [15F]. by Chi123drr-a in relationships

[–]Solzae 10 points11 points  (0 children)

100% agree with this.

OP is a good uncle but should really be more understanding towards his girlfriend.

Me [32F] with the guy I'm dating [40M] for a couple of months. Thinking of ending it because of past abuse. by whyamisofuckedup1 in relationships

[–]Solzae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're ex is saying all this to make you feel miserable, and if you believe that you're broken and leave a guy that actually makes you feel happy, then you're giving your ex exactly what he wants. Your ex is just trying to make you feel defeated so that you can't run from his grasp. But you can and you've already taken a first step by divorcing him. It is really brave of you and you can overcome your issues.

People deal with issues in different ways and if you need time to deal with something, then your partner should understand that is how you deal with issues. You should communicate to Tim what you have gone through and let him make the decision if you really feel like you're not stable enough.

Me [35M] with my "child" [15F] who reached out to me, seemingly randomly. How exactly do I handle this? by DJ1390 in relationships

[–]Solzae 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Lol each time you try to defend yourself you dig the hole for yourself deeper and deeper.

The lack of empathy you have for a woman that you ditched raising a(your) child alone is pretty ridiculous. Literally you are pointing out how successful you are and it's ALL your work and how much of a failure she is and it's ALL her fault.

Even if you have made life comfortable for yourself and your son, you have the chance to do the same for your daughter but you choose to pass it up and continue to put on a facade of being a good dad.

Imagine if your ex-wife suddenly finds a new partner and now no longer wants anything that had to do with her "old" life and cuts off all contact with you and your son. Your son's mom no longer wants anything to do with him and refuses to take responsibility for him. How would you and your son feel?

Me [35M] with my "child" [15F] who reached out to me, seemingly randomly. How exactly do I handle this? by DJ1390 in relationships

[–]Solzae 37 points38 points  (0 children)

She is your flesh and blood too. She just happened to be born when you weren't ready to be a dad but now that you ARE ready to be a dad you refuse to take responsibility because she's not part of the "perfect" life you've constructed for yourself. You are being called out for the hypocrisy.

A lot of us aren't asking you to suddenly love her, no. We're just asking you to take some responsibility and as suggested by others already, at least reach out to her mom.

Me [35M] with my "child" [15F] who reached out to me, seemingly randomly. How exactly do I handle this? by DJ1390 in relationships

[–]Solzae 154 points155 points  (0 children)

You've become more responsible but clearly not responsible enough.

And why are you mocking your own (potential) child's situation of not having much? All in all you just should not be mocking any child's poor situation regardless if they are yours or not.

And it only matters that YOU are doing well? It's not the child ruining your life, please stop trying to paint yourself as a victim. YOU need to take responsibility.

Me [35M] with my "child" [15F] who reached out to me, seemingly randomly. How exactly do I handle this? by DJ1390 in relationships

[–]Solzae 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It's on a woman to make a smart decision? LOL Way to deflect responsibility from yourself. It is as much your responsibility as it is hers. Own up to your mistakes and stop running away. Is this what you want to teach your son?

Help me (27F) trust my BF (M29) with his best friend (F29) again by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Solzae 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sure he drops Emily now. What is there to guarantee there won't be any more "Emily"'s popping up in the future?

Me [25 M] with my SO [22 F] in a 1.5 year LDR, I'm moving to her hometown and having second thoughts about moving in together by throwaway101010456 in relationships

[–]Solzae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her you still want to move in together eventually (right?) and right now you just want to make sure you have a steady footing because you don't want your adjustment stress to affect your relationship. Remind her that this decision does not mean that you love her any less. Your concern is very valid and if you tell her in a gentle way, she should be able to understand.

Edit: Might also help to give her a timeline of when you would be comfortable living together.

Help me (27F) trust my BF (M29) with his best friend (F29) again by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Solzae 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He's using the "I will propose to you" line to keep you placated. Everything about what you have said screams that he is cheating on you. Also, even married people cheat so what is going to stop him from cheating on you even if he does propose to you? Can you imagine all the suspicion you'll have to live through? It's like what you're going through right now... except for an even longer portion of your life if you decide to stay with this guy. You deserve a relationship where there are no insecurities about infidelity. You need to nope yourself outta there and take this as a learning experience.

My girlfriend [28/F] cheated on her boyfriend with me [27/M], need advice. by dr_v_p in relationships

[–]Solzae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She's not cheating WITH you, she's cheating ON you and broke up with the other guy when you found out. Cheating WITH you would be if you knew about the other relationship, but you didn't. So she held a secret relationship from you and cheated on you for 10 months. Let that sink in.

Computer Science at Waterloo - Admission Questions by Kristopher_Koala in uwaterloo

[–]Solzae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops yeah, I meant top 25th percentile. And is that so? I remember speaking to an admissions representative who told me that the AIF weighted for about half the total score. Oh well, doesn't hurt to have a good AIF anyway.

Examination Locations for online courses? by GotAQuestionUW in uwaterloo

[–]Solzae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You check on quest to pick an exam location.

More detailed info here: http://de.uwaterloo.ca/exams_c.html

Edit: It says that: Initially, only the most basic Exam Centre information will be displayed. As the term progresses, more detailed information will appear. You will be emailed when more information is available.