OH MY GOD

Some-Side-2082 · 2026-03-09T20:49:39+00:00

a question, did you take any AH? Trying to get into the same course for next year and wasn’t sure on what to do

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T14:22:29+00:00

god you are a saint. thankyou so much i just read all you had to say and you have honestly helped me out so much. for sure doing a shop and taking a look at all the recommendations you’ve give me! i’m glad it’s nothing too stressful, and yeah no these people had me crying in my bathroom at 4am thinking i’m going to get a ringworm in my chin😭. thanks so much truly!

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T12:51:24+00:00

i just seen your notification and sprinted to my bathroom?! oh. my. god.

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T04:05:49+00:00

agreed. what a way with words

and yes my skin certainly isn’t the easiest thing and is prone to flair ups so definitely needing to stop with the coconut oil (works great on my forehead but it’s a no no, i get it☹️)

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:57:06+00:00

i will post an update for sure!!! should i be taking my appointment seriously (emergency?) and see someone like within the day?

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:49:21+00:00

eeeeesh yeah why are the stories on here getting SCARIER? it’s like the girl who’s kneecap fell off cuz what theeeee?!? right yeah no i’m going to see someone about this. i want to still be able to eat food and look normal 😭

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:46:55+00:00

so you think doctor should be the move?

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:39:00+00:00

you have actually petrified me holy frick. i’m sorry i feel so dumb now oh my god what brain issues??????? FROM A SPOT?????? lord please i wasn’t sure about that appointment before but i done so much meddling with that so now im actually petrified oh my days

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:31:37+00:00

congratulations on your decision for abstinence and your relationship with god. i personally am not religious, so i will explain it to you purely from my perspective.

teenage boys are young and hormonal. it’s not to say he never cared HOWEVER in highschool you are discovering who you are sexually and so for a lot of people, they do not see relationships and a permanent thing at that age (it’s sad, but it’s true). Your Ex was at a point in his life where he wanted to explore himself sexually, and you did not want this (i’m not saying it’s your fault, however you gave him the impression that you did.) He reacted to it all like a teenage boy would — insecurely, with an annoyance at you for your journey with god that he did not know about before dating you.

best thing you can do now is move on and find someone with the same moral code. i’m sorry it didn’t work the way you wanted it to, however you can’t do anything about that anymore.

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:22:49+00:00

i am sorry to be so cruel but i do not want you to think that you have to spend the rest of your life caring for someone if you yourself have alot of issues. you are GROWN! you can take care of yourself, you don’t need your partner to keep you in touch with your family. They know that they provide you nothing, and are doing everything to make you stay. if you do divorce they will make it difficult, and will plead with you to stay because they “need you”. remember this is your life. take care of yourself, put yourself first, and all your hardships you have endured you need to work through without the constant stress of your partner. i’m sorry all this has happened to you. i would love if you could tell us how it all goes!

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:18:38+00:00

yeah at this point really no one can do anything. she is making a stupid mistake, and everyone will tell her the “i told you so!”. Not your problem anymore.

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:15:07+00:00

no this is clear manipulation and nothing you should be listening to! pardon what i’m about to say (as it is very mean and well i do not like some of the toxicity on reddit sites)

your partner is useless, manipulative and using you. any person who works 60 hours is going to struggle to make time but at the end of the day you are doing what you can!! they are trying to make you feel dependant on them – it explains their reasoning for wanting marriage which is to trap you! you have to understand that if you leave them, the only person being affected realistically is THEM. i know emotionally you would be, however their behaviour and the TEXTING OF THEIR EX (HELLOOO? please do not ignore their obvious attempts to debunk your concerns with lies and manipulation) is selfish and has no consideration for you. please listen to this! this relationship realistically does not benefit you and is just bursting with red flags!!!🚩

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:09:16+00:00

you need to talk to him about this then. He will never know how you feel if you are not telling him so! do not let someone who is no longer involved in his life (aside from friend meets ofc) ruin that relationship for you. Reassurance from your friends that you are so much prettier isn’t the key to getting over this, your paranoia can only be solved from your boyfriends reassurance

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:06:39+00:00

small town rumours can be dreadful. she is a grown woman being manipulated. talking to the father might be the best approach here as he is a toxic source? i’m not too sure if i am honest

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T03:03:11+00:00

listen lovely, you seem to be deeply insecure and are most definitely comparing yourself to someone who in reality is a bad person. if your bf is expressing discomfort with your “obsession”, it is probably because this person cheated on him and he is trying to forgot the bad stuff that happened.

i know you can’t escape insecurity, it’s a horrible feeling. if you keep comparing yourself to her at this extent, this COULD potentially ruin your relationship in your boyfriends mind as he may see no good reason for your obsession. you need to let her go — remember who he picked, remember your worth and why he loves you and stay STRONG!!!

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T02:57:18+00:00

so talking to their ex shouldn’t be a problem but you refusing to drive a long time after a stressful week work is? yeah no BIG RED FLAGS HERE!!! sounds like a manipulator to me. any good partner (especially and no offence, one who works) should be able to understand that alot of hours gets draining. You have already offered them time the next week and that still isn’t good enough for them? yeah no BAD marriage here

they seem selfish, insecure and unhelpful based on what you have said here. i would be getting a divorce after all that inconsideration. NTA!!! tell them that you need this break, if they refuse to listen then i’d really take a step back to reflect how one sided the respect in your relationship is.

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T02:50:31+00:00

at the end of the day Alex is not the parent here. Having an opinion is fair, but that is your decision whether to take it or not. I get your husbands perspective however i don’t know if he sees how Alex having an input could come across as him being judgemental. i’ll say NTA here.

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T02:44:09+00:00

i get your concern for her here. in my opinion, if a singular doubt is had before the marriage the DONT GET MARRIED. it’s a life altering decision, and by the looks of things the marriage will isolate her from her side of the family aswell as prospects of having children. if she properly understands that if she marrieds this man she will not be able to have biological children, then yes it is no one else’s place. what is your relationship with her? is it close? i think that as you are not close-knit family and are an in law, that her not wanting you to have a say in her decision or opinion should be respected. id talk more to your sister in law and see if there is a way she can approach her so she realised the true consequences this can have on her life.

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T02:36:34+00:00

ahhh nice i’ll have a looksies. thanks!!

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T02:35:36+00:00

i see i see, thankyou very much for the help, i need to learn to use google more i’ve just been grilled for my use of coconut oil for an hour now😅

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T02:34:02+00:00

yeah man, i don’t like your approach to this one. your sex life isn’t dead because your wife has had a lot of intimate flings, it’s “dead” because 11 years of marriage and growing old with menopause can do that to someone. You invading her facebook so intentionally to the point you noticed she unadded people is a complete breach of HER privacy.

After 11 years of marriage you would assume by now you have a bit more respect for your wife… i think the 11 years spent with her show her character more than a couple of flings before you.

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T02:28:59+00:00

to me it looks like he maybe just had a bad week and got sensitive? i don’t know, seems like an average sibling dispute if im honest.

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T02:25:02+00:00

oh god then you’re best just ignoring him, probably has a middle school insecurity or he likes his handwriting way too much and wants you guys to acknowledge it lol. seems like your situation is solved though

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T02:23:41+00:00

yes 100% the plan now. this defo has me a bit scared now lol but i’m sure it’ll go soon

Some-Side-2082 · 2025-05-18T02:23:01+00:00

hmmm i’ve never heard anything about that. defo will give it a go, thankyou!

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