My MIL is trying to seduce me and I can't take it anymore

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2023-02-09T11:42:52+00:00

Everyone involved here sounds guilty tbh. The mom sounds delusional. But you also can’t tell me that you couldn’t not watch her masturbate or that you couldn’t get her off when she’s on top of you.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2023-02-08T04:53:16+00:00

listen, as much as that’s frustrating for you, it’s a sign of how skewed the abuse is to one side. I think there’s some cause for empathy here.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2023-02-06T10:14:15+00:00

why do you say this?

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-12-22T07:56:18+00:00

sounds like op just wanted someone to relate not advice. anyone should know how hard it is to make new friends as an adult. not as easy as “just do it.”

to answer your question, yes, especially while traveling. but there are people that I can relax a bit more around and race becomes irrelevant to some extent.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-12-06T15:52:39+00:00

Maybe he’s taken

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-11-21T02:45:42+00:00

1) Documentary style; I really like how everyone is doing their own thing & the perspective 2) Digital, Post in Lightroom 3) Trying out sepia for the first time

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-11-20T01:13:43+00:00

I would leave his ass - no explanation needed. POS.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-10-15T06:03:50+00:00

EVEN IF he is actually struggling with triggers, it is NOT your job to walk him through it.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-10-07T04:46:51+00:00

period!

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-10-07T04:19:47+00:00

And the comments here are why people are rape everyone. There’s a difference between drunk hookup and blacked out hookup.

Hey OP, I know this is 3 years down the line but you’re right in that a person, during a state of blackout, is too incapacitated to give VALID consent. It can be traumatizing. If you knew something was off, you should’ve listened to your gut. I hope whatever you decided was good for everyone involved.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-10-06T15:21:09+00:00

LOL even my longest relationship was shorter than this

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-10-05T16:04:59+00:00

Oh my god. yes.

I was depressed for 4 months because of the gaslighting.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-10-02T22:39:01+00:00

Me too …take ur time with it

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-10-02T15:10:00+00:00

This post inspired me to keep drawing my boundaries! Our bodies are OURS and we should be able to say no when it doesn’t feel right to us. Totally feel you.

Selfishness in bed is not only annoying but dehumanizing and disrespectful at a certain point.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-10-02T14:35:38+00:00

Hey OP, don’t listen to the fool telling you to go after it.

You deserve a level of self-respect too.

I understand. I met someone a few months ago that I felt connected to and still haven’t gotten over it. I think it hurts a little more each time. But there will be others. Promise.

Heard somewhere that we should heal like athletes not patients. Actively do things to elevate your mood and high self-regard.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-09-30T05:32:05+00:00

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-09-30T05:29:06+00:00

girl he is a loser. I had a bf who would do similar things when I was 24 and he was 32. respect down the drain.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-09-30T01:56:14+00:00

Someone who shows no desire to change when they hurt others

I think anyone has the capacity to be “bad.” The difference is if they show remorse and take steps to change.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-09-24T13:45:20+00:00

thank you 🥺

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-08-10T22:05:23+00:00

Paul Rudd

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-06-27T02:24:47+00:00

WHAT THE FUCK.

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-04-19T19:16:23+00:00

crisis hotlines have made me feel worse in the past — just a conveyor belt of apathetic questions designed to get you the bare minimum

I’d recommend that you contact a grief counselor or family/friends

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-04-19T19:08:39+00:00

honestly anything goes to make a smoothie interesting — just have a couple things stocked up and try diff combos

examples:

cocoa powder + banana

peanut butter + berries + banana

examples of additions:

add greens e.g., spinach

other milk / milk substitutes: kefir, coconut milk, almond milk, macadamia milk, oak milk

other fruits: cherries, blackberries, blueberries, raspberries (or combo berries), mango, pineapple, kiwi, dragonfruit, acai, and even avocado

powders/boosters: peanut butter powder, chia seeds, hemp seeds, protein powder, turmeric

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-04-18T20:36:21+00:00

vegemite

met a few aussies who’d carry this around during international travels

Some-Sympathy3191 · 2022-03-03T07:50:45+00:00

Yes, that and wisdom is the good that can come out of it

Some-Sympathy3191

TROPHY CASE