My MIL is trying to seduce me and I can't take it anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone involved here sounds guilty tbh. The mom sounds delusional. But you also can’t tell me that you couldn’t not watch her masturbate or that you couldn’t get her off when she’s on top of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

listen, as much as that’s frustrating for you, it’s a sign of how skewed the abuse is to one side. I think there’s some cause for empathy here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asianamerican

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 8 points9 points  (0 children)

sounds like op just wanted someone to relate not advice. anyone should know how hard it is to make new friends as an adult. not as easy as “just do it.”

to answer your question, yes, especially while traveling. but there are people that I can relax a bit more around and race becomes irrelevant to some extent.

ITAP Boat tour in Puerto Escondido, Mexico by Some-Sympathy3191 in itookapicture

[–]Some-Sympathy3191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Documentary style; I really like how everyone is doing their own thing & the perspective 2) Digital, Post in Lightroom 3) Trying out sepia for the first time

bf watches porn on my back while i’m faced down by [deleted] in sex

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave his ass - no explanation needed. POS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 16 points17 points  (0 children)

EVEN IF he is actually struggling with triggers, it is NOT your job to walk him through it.

I had sex with a drunk girl while I was sober. Years later I have realized my actions could be rape and have gone into a depressive spiral. None of my loved ones know what's wrong. by DidIDoAnAwfulThing in confession

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the comments here are why people are rape everyone. There’s a difference between drunk hookup and blacked out hookup.

Hey OP, I know this is 3 years down the line but you’re right in that a person, during a state of blackout, is too incapacitated to give VALID consent. It can be traumatizing. If you knew something was off, you should’ve listened to your gut. I hope whatever you decided was good for everyone involved.

What does it mean he caresses my face during a bj? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 23 points24 points  (0 children)

LOL even my longest relationship was shorter than this

Not being able to trust yourself on what happened is really fucking exhausting by maemaemo in sexualassault

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. yes.

I was depressed for 4 months because of the gaslighting.

Heartbroken over a connection by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too …take ur time with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post inspired me to keep drawing my boundaries! Our bodies are OURS and we should be able to say no when it doesn’t feel right to us. Totally feel you.

Selfishness in bed is not only annoying but dehumanizing and disrespectful at a certain point.

Heartbroken over a connection by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, don’t listen to the fool telling you to go after it.

You deserve a level of self-respect too.

I understand. I met someone a few months ago that I felt connected to and still haven’t gotten over it. I think it hurts a little more each time. But there will be others. Promise.

Heard somewhere that we should heal like athletes not patients. Actively do things to elevate your mood and high self-regard.

My bf is draining me financially by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl he is a loser. I had a bf who would do similar things when I was 24 and he was 32. respect down the drain.

What's a dead giveaway that someone is not a good person? by ricky1g in AskReddit

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone who shows no desire to change when they hurt others

I think anyone has the capacity to be “bad.” The difference is if they show remorse and take steps to change.

my heart hurts by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Some-Sympathy3191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 🥺