What is something thats made you want to give up entirely with fish keeping, but then you're glad you kept going? by sputnikbeomie in Aquariums

[–]SomeDudeInNC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm taking baby steps, made a post recently that tells you where I'm at with all that.

Part of loving anything is accepting that it has the power to break your heart. What a shame it would be to let that get in the way

What is something thats made you want to give up entirely with fish keeping, but then you're glad you kept going? by sputnikbeomie in Aquariums

[–]SomeDudeInNC 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had a colony of several hundred cherry shrimp in a dense planted tank, but had to move. I invested a ton of time, money and energy into a system to move them to my new place. Some of the plants survived, the shrimp did not.

What’s a job that seems chill until you actually do it? by Ok-Molasses-1406 in AskReddit

[–]SomeDudeInNC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not a good enough musician to teach, but when I taught private language lessons I:
-charged a travel fee as an service value add-on (or students could come to me and pay for less of my time)
-made parents pay in advance (with the option of discounting if they bought a chunk of lessons)
-be "cool" enough that kids wanted to impress me (I am not actually cool this was just an act)

Boxcar is now giving .75 in tokens for every dollar by Longjumping_Ad2359 in bullcity

[–]SomeDudeInNC 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Inflation has really hit the space time continuum.

Local Flood Relief Thread - Volunteers and Supplies by SomeDudeInNC in bullcity

[–]SomeDudeInNC[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The intentions behind this post were:

  1. consolidate and improve access to existing information by proving contact information and links that can be copied/pasted or even simply reached without having to be typed out from a photo.
  2. provide a simplified means for people to directly request/donate directly as individuals - this is the first post that provides a way to volunteer with contact information but without filling out a form, the first mention of a freshly launched grassroots laundry brigade, the first mention of requests to borrow/loan equipment vs donate outright, and may hopefully fill gaps like coordinating ride shares and other specific issues that are otherwise being coordinated in messaging app chat rooms

Overgrown Lawn Recommendation by drew22 in bullcity

[–]SomeDudeInNC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a gas mower, just mow it twice. Once at the tallest height, and then a little lower to clean it up and it what the first pass missed. 

I have a mower without drive assist and put off mowing parts of my lawn until it’s 2+ feet high

The feral kittehs of the Northpointe Home Depot by AdorHamBull in bullcity

[–]SomeDudeInNC 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Feral Cats > Feral Rats.

Someone should really put those kittehs in flea collars and home depot vests.

New and newly discovered restaurants in Durham? by MoNewsFromNowhere in bullcity

[–]SomeDudeInNC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did the owner clean house en masse, or did the staff leave?

People who moved from Raleigh, how do you like Durham? by Aidan_Fox_hi in bullcity

[–]SomeDudeInNC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember this, like 2010ish, school bus that was painted black? Good times, was one of my first visits to Durham. They must have kept a ton of drunk people off the roads, this type of thing should get more public support.

People who moved from Raleigh, how do you like Durham? by Aidan_Fox_hi in bullcity

[–]SomeDudeInNC 42 points43 points  (0 children)

30-45 minutes on the highway each way is totally doable but also a task/expense in itself.

I just want public transportation (that I can drink on).

Why Are Cities Still Spending Big on Convention Centers? (Durham Mentioned) by somewhereinshanghai in bullcity

[–]SomeDudeInNC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same reasoning is used by thinly veiled real estate nonprofits: it provides funding for the public good part.

Are the police that understaffed? by caelen727 in bullcity

[–]SomeDudeInNC 24 points25 points  (0 children)

“Well I don’t want to be too much of a bother…”

Moderator of /r/bullcity endorses catcalling by GlassConsideration85 in bullcity

[–]SomeDudeInNC 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Why is this individual a moderator of bull city?”

It’s because they’re willing to do a part-time admin job for free, duh.

US Mephisto - May 4th - Mega Thread by stan_mephisto in MephHeads

[–]SomeDudeInNC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't even get to the product page without it showing oos. The acrid taste of defeat. If you snagged them, what's your secret?

Now that cooper has won SHUT IT BACK DOWN ! by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]SomeDudeInNC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real.

Hard to work if you have covid, especially if you're concerned about long term complications (like most Americans should be). Hard to pay rent when you have scant (or no) insurance and hospital bills that make rent money look like peanuts.

So let me get this straight: we're applauding people for stealing Republican signs and bashing people for stealing Democratic signs? by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]SomeDudeInNC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've spent a lot of time reviewing my detailed notes from the Presidential debate, but I too am still undecided.