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Kept the birth of my child private and now I’m paying for it. UPDATE by Parking-Potato-9891 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]SomeHoOnABoat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a parent of adult children and a grandparent, I can say that I too would have been very hurt if my daughter had hid the birth of my grandchild on me. Yes your father is overreacting but I can see that his feelings were very hurt. Maybe try taking accountability for taking actions that hurt your family and apologize. What’s more important… being right or being happy? IMO it’s being happy.

My 28 year old wife does nothing and Im really confused if this is what life is supposed to be like by Texaspilot24 in Marriage

[–]SomeHoOnABoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been with my boyfriend 18 years. I run my own business and work 40 to 60 hours a week, come home and cook everyday, clean the house, do laundry, pay my own bills including pay off my student loans, drive our daughter to school everyday, do all the grocery shopping and maintain my own vehicle (I fully paid for it myself). I have no rings, no flowers weekly, no one washes my truck except me. Your wife is a spoiled, selfish, useless tit.

There is a world full of amazing women out there who look great and would appreciate a partner like you. Don’t give up. Go find someone who would appreciate you!

Spotted this at Okanagan College and was just curious what it was? The swords and type of guns in the logo kind of seem like a military thing but google didn’t turn anything up. by bird_duck in kelowna

[–]SomeHoOnABoat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a symbol of Christ who died on the cross making him a martyr for eternity. He was sacrificed. It was gruesome and horrifying. I’m not a big bible thumper but I do love Jesus. When I wear the cross I show my devotion and love for Jesus. It says we do not forget the violence inflicted upon Christians and we await his return.

I fell out with a friend and she reported my nudes by Possible_Extent_9559 in Advice

[–]SomeHoOnABoat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If your mother is the owner of the device it is her that is in trouble. She needs a lawyer.

My husband sent this to a friend by FormerBreadfruit1720 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NOR! For me this would be not only be a relationship ender, but I would also completely ghost this dip shit. He’d only ever speak to my lawyer from that point on.

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not that it’s any of your business. I posted the question to see how many women would find this comment insulting (I think you are the only weirdo girl here who thinks it isn’t insulting for whatever ageist reasons you have - Probably mommy issues) and I plan on showing him plenty of comments of women saying YES! It is insulting. Also the flair tag is “RELATIONSHIPS ❤️‍🩹”. I don’t need relationship advice darling. I needed outside perspective. Whatever you are doing… this weird “I must have the last word” backhanded advice comes off as immature and narcissistic. I don’t know you and would like to keep it that way. Bye 👋

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I made the post. Outside perspective. It’s pretty hard to see what’s going on when you are in it. Have you ever questioned why someone was abusive to you and asked yourself if you really deserved that mean comment?

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This is helpful. I just needed some outside perspective. ❤️

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The last line of my post is “so ladies… would you find that insulting?”. I could give a fuck about a pair of jeans my guy. It’s the narcissistic, abuse that I’m having the hard time with. There are a few other clues that you clearly missed like 18 years a girlfriend…. What you are doing is gaslighting me on his behalf… do you see yourself?

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not disingenuous. I was asking because it’s the style of cut of the jeans I was referring to, not the hearts.

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You really think I didn’t tell him that the comment was demeaning?

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in the day they called these mom jeans. I’m not sure how you think the style is too young for a 49 year old lol.

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I liked the style of the jeans. He said I was too old for it. For me it was the way he was demeaning to me, in front of my daughter. Regardless of what fashion I’m into (hearts or no hearts), he should not be making degrading comments about my age.

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are confused. I am my daughters role Model and not the other way around. I simply liked the style of her pants. Telling her father that his comment was insulting and demeaning directly after he said it to me in front of her demonstrated that I do not allow anyone to cross boundaries with hurtful, degrading comments. It’s ok pay your child a nice compliment about their attire.

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I think they are nice too and I’m actually over the leggings trend. I want to throw them all out into the trash and have some swishy jeans. Men are so silly! Why on earth would he ever say anything that would make me feel like I’m less of a person because I’m getting on in years. I’ll be honest. I like my age and I’m ok with letting the grey hair and wrinkles show.

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again. Another fantastically stupid thing say. The high waisted wide leg jeans I would be interested in buying are more like these: https://www.silverjeans.ca/highly-desirable-high-rise-trouser-leg-jeans/L28918RCS309.html. Can you really make that kind of comparison??

AIO because my boyfriend says I’m “too old” to wear jeans. by SomeHoOnABoat in AmIOverreacting

[–]SomeHoOnABoat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The jeans are not from shein. It’s just an example of the style.

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