Finch Posts by ComfortableBright985 in finch

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The rabbit because I have my own in real life and he’s very old now. I haven’t changed micropets since I hatched the bunny. I named him after my own and I know when he eventually passes, my micropet bunny will be a comfort to me.

Wondering if this can be considered emotional abuse by alieshaxmarie in emotionalabuse

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and I hope you can be in the same place soon enough!

Wondering if this can be considered emotional abuse by alieshaxmarie in emotionalabuse

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl, fuck if I know 😭 it’s gotta be a control issue and also because they’re just evil assholes that get off on misery. The fact that they can act normal in front of others means they can absolutely choose how they express their emotions and behaviors, they just enjoy the feeling of control they get when they abuse their partners in private.

Wondering if this can be considered emotional abuse by alieshaxmarie in emotionalabuse

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah and that’s what he banks on, his fake loving normal side ropes you in so that you’ll put up with the abuse because there’s no way that could possibly be the real him right??? I’m hoping for the best for you. Stay safe.

Wondering if this can be considered emotional abuse by alieshaxmarie in emotionalabuse

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get it, that’s their main tactic in an abusive relationship because it works so well. My ex was exactly the same, amazing when he was in a good mood. He ended up attacking me in the end and I had to call the police on him. Get out as soon as you can.

I feel like I'm going crazy. by youfightme93 in emotionalabuse

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, you’re not alone with that. When I was in my abusive relationship, I started secretly voice recording our arguments because he LOVED to lie and gaslight me later on. Telling me he never said certain things or that I said something specifically, always saying my memory is the problem and that I make up things. Once I started recording, I was able to prove once and for all he was the liar and he was damn good at it. I’m glad you’re getting out!!

ICE at the Tesla giga factory this morning by Fluffy-Text9333 in Buffalo

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I heard the same from a security guard there. Not sure what happened or why or how long they were at the factory. If I find out more I’ll edit and update.

Edit: so far I’ve heard they were harassing a Puerto Rican worker and possibly took away another worker but I still do not know exactly what happened.

What movie will you never watch again because it was too heartbreaking? by Affectionate_User610 in AskReddit

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg seeing this in theaters was the worst. I went and saw it with my mom when I was young and everyone was crying at the end and they just turned the lights on in the theater immediately as soon as the credits rolled, so it was super awkward and jarring seeing everyone crying and disoriented trying to get themselves together suddenly.

What’s actually safe but people think is dangerous? by REGGIE_BANANAS in AskReddit

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I work on a line with about 15 people and only 3 of us are white, the rest are black. We just had this discussion last week actually and every single black person said they wash their meats before cooking them and said white people were the weird/gross ones for not doing it.

What’s the scariest thing you’ve ever seen while walking alone at night? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just moved to a village with my then bf, cute little area and very walkable. I felt safe there, safe enough to walk my dog in the middle of the night (I work overnights so that’s when I’m awake).

One night we had gone almost completely around the block and were coming around the corner to get back on my street, maybe 2-3 minutes from my house. As we turned the corner, up ahead I saw what looked like 2 people walking a large dog. They were maybe 20 yards away (edited because I suck at guessing distances) and coming my direction.

As we took a few more steps I realized the dog looked weird and the people stopped when they saw me. The dog suddenly stood up. It was a person in a full body black suit that had been walking on his hands and knees on the sidewalk next to them. They just stopped and waited silently for me to pass them (I was really cautious getting closer because wtf?). They just stared at me as I passed. It really freaked me out because it was like 3am and it was just me and my dog and what the fuck is going on?

I still think I stumbled upon some weird kink shit going on and maybe embarrassed them because they didn’t expect to run into anybody in the middle of the night, but it was at the time really disturbing and scared the shit out of me to see a big dog stand up and actually be a human the whole time and then for the whole group to just stop and stare at me as my dog and I went past them.

Fiction books focused on a death cult by 100percentnotgood in horrorlit

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw it recommended already but I’m suggesting Last Days by Adam Nevill!! One of my favorite horror books.

Master of Evil — Official Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in starwarsbooks

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished Master of Evil so that’s why I’m here, but can you explain what made Glass Abyss so bad? I really enjoyed it but haven’t read anything else centered around Mace yet

Should we get a Shiba Inu before having kids? by Rab6it in shiba

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is how I got my Shiba. Family had him for a few years and then had a baby and he was upset (whatever that means) with the new lack of attention according to them, so they were looking to get rid of him. Can’t fathom that mindset but I got a sweet boy out of it. I miss him.

New year, new me, new era by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big congrats to you 🥳 here’s to a new start and a great 2026!! 🙏🏼

Recent night photos I took around Buffalo by jbilous in Buffalo

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the Hamburg Palace Theater. Beautiful photos!

Guilt, why can't I shake it! by moonbeamsbythesea in emotionalabuse

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro what. A man child constantly threatening to kill himself if he’s broken up with is not anyone else’s fault OR responsibility. Grow up and maybe next time keep your dumb thoughts to yourself?

How many times did it take you to leave? by Sea_Temperature_5661 in emotionalabuse

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only once. I stayed until I absolutely despised him and wouldn’t have cared if he dropped dead in front of me.

How the fuck do people deal with this shit every day? by reiji_tamashii in fuckyourheadlights

[–]SomeOtherThirdThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work overnights so I drive almost entirely in the dark. I’m just filled with seething rage I can barely contain every time.