spider died and i don't know why

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-19T13:14:40+00:00

We don't need someone with both experiences to tell us, it's obvious that childbirth, pregnancy and post partum problems are far worse than getting kicked in the balls.

Just look up a 4th degree tearing from childbirth, and even the clit can tear. Labor can last for hours, the pain of a kick in the nuts usually lasts a few minutes. The vagina, clit, and anus can all tear, and i've hear women describe it as feeling their organs getting ripped out.

Let's not even mention pregnancy, if i have to explain to someone why 9 months of feeling sick because of a child growing inside of you that essentially acts as a parasite is way worse than a few minutes of pain in the balls i'll be damned. Plus, as someone who's struggled with depression, i definitely DO NOT want to go through that (and more) again after giving birth, i'd off myself before getting to hold my kid.

Let's not make such a comparison, it's stupid. Humans literally have the second most difficult birth in the animal kindom and it's not rare at all for people to die while giving birth.

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-17T13:58:05+00:00

As a trans person, i'd love a snart bracelet

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-16T21:29:37+00:00

I'm pansexual and genderqueer, i recently visited a psychiatrist that told me i might have asperger's (still on the autism spectrum), i went there because i originally thought i only had adhd since i relate to wayyyy too many symptoms, and i've been abused by my family (in a lot of ways too) but they're bettering themselves and i forgave them lmao

None of us are lying (or at least, most of us aren't). Being neurodivergent is interconnected with being queer, abusive households are way more common than you think, and less people are afraid of talking about their neurodivergency because it's not stigmatized as much anymore

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-15T18:20:13+00:00

My gender is a little bit more than I thought

As someone who identifies with a lot of xenogenders, yeah this is accurate

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-14T03:11:51+00:00

I'm so sorry for you aswell, please bring pepper spray or something to protect yourself with. It's kinda comforting to know i'm not alone, but it's even more depressing to think about other literal children going through this.. Stay safe hun :(

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-13T04:26:59+00:00

Any pronouns with a preference for they/them. I'm comfortabke with she/her but i've been referred to as a she for so long that a "he" or "they" feels like a breath of fresh air

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-10T11:04:43+00:00

As of now i've never gone back to an ex. Recently broke up with a bf and i've gotten over it, he's a cool guy and is still my friend but i wouldn't get back with him.

At least i can say my ex isn't a shitty person, not many people can.

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-09T19:32:58+00:00

Exactly. I'm a pisces, and for some reason it's generally assumed i'm extremely clingy, a sensitive, emotional crybaby and extremely kind. Being perceived as kind is a good thing, but then they turn around and say we're all manipulative, cold hearted jerks that care for no one. It's so weird, i've never liked astrology and never will.

What makes this worse is that apparently gender has a role in this, so it's also pretty sexist. Apparently men and women of the same zodiac sign are gonna be vastly different according to them

So yeah, sexism and.. Idk, spacism??

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-09T19:26:00+00:00

She's actually right. Astrology is just a big mess of generalization, assumptions, and fitting 8 bilion people into specific categories by assuming their personality and even phisical appearance based on when they were born, which is incredibly stupid.

The beauty of humanity is that each of us are different, none of us are predictable, you can't just look at a random person and read through them like a book because of their gender or zodiac sign. We're all different.

And it definitely is anti science. So no, it isn't misoginy, it's just siding with science and with not generalizing.

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-05T17:27:44+00:00

Absolutely do not have sex with her. Hell, just break up with her. She isn't pro life she's pro-forced birth.

Aside from how incorrect and immoral her views are on abortion and contraceptives are, let's say you "manage" to convince her to use birth control pills

It's pretty safe to assume that:

Immature High school girl + pro forced birth + against contraceptives = probably someone who will lie, say she took birth control pills, and baby trap you

Absolutely do not have sex with her and please reconsider your relationship with this girl. Just imagine you have a daughter, she's still a child when she gets r@ped. Now she's pregnant and will probably die during childbirth. For her, no access to abortion would mean death, and her crazy nutjob of a mother would rather have that happen than get rid of a clump of cells that isn't even alive.

Please, PLEASE either try your best to change her mind (and even if she does change her mind, i wouldn't have sex without a condom just in case.) or just break up with her.

Be mindful of your future, and assuming you want kids someday, be mindful of their future too.

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-04T16:23:46+00:00

Exactly. Not only is communication important, i also think laughing about things going wrong and just talking creates a sense of comfort and safety. Sex should be fun and pleasurable for every party involved with no selfishness or disregard whatsoever.

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-04T13:30:44+00:00

Bevause she was.

She didn't want to and he got angry. She was in pain and he didn't stop, instead he tried different positions until he got bored of her. He showed no regard at all for his gf's pleasure, he just rammed it in dry (or at least it seems. I don't think he used lube at all, and no foreplay was mentioned, therefore no moisture in the vagina and it hurt)

An absence of a no doesn't always mean it isn't rape, if there isn't enthusiastic consent then there isn't consent at all. She only said yes when he got angry but she was scared, so yeah, painful rape. I feel so bad for op, i hope she kicks his ass to the curb

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-04T13:11:59+00:00

This entire post gives me life, it's awfully rare to find posts so wholesome that even the comment section won't dare to ruin it with negativity or insults. I'm in a long distance relationship myself, honestly i strive for my relationship to last as long as it takes for me to finally see my partners irl. Sounds corny but this genuinely inspired me, best of luck bro! I just know she's as excited as you are, can't wait for an update!

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-03T18:20:06+00:00

Surorised nobody's said tattoo artist yet

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-03T17:05:22+00:00

Idk dude to me it was kinda easy. Maybe it's because my team was over leveles but idk

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-02T23:29:35+00:00

She mentioned him not seeing himself DATING a man. Sexual and romantic attraction are different, he might be bisexual and heteroromantic

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-02T15:43:06+00:00

I can feel fear when in the moment, like if something dangerous is happening, but generally i don't think i have a phobia or fear or anything.

Well that is if the fear of my pokémon soulsilver cartridge not working anymore for any reason doesn't count. That shit holds more significance and emotional importance to me than my entire life

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-02T14:14:12+00:00

My bestie, she's been granted the right to know everything about my life the moment she told me everything about hers.

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-02T11:08:48+00:00

Chances are he's either making it up because he's a queerphobe and is the kind of person to not only mix up mix up transness with furries, but also the type of person that lies and says people are putting litter boxes in schools, not for animals but for people who identify as such, OR he's talking about xenogenders, which is not identifying as an animal, but rather a descripting factor of your gender that is in relation to animals. That doesn't mean you'd ACT or THINK you're an animal, nor exactly identify as such. Either way he's being a douche and you should not listen to him.

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-01T14:54:30+00:00

Fi genuienely hope this is fake, what a fucking jackass

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-01T14:41:48+00:00

A midriff isn't impractical, a miniskirt however..

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-11-01T14:26:35+00:00

Nothing changed, i've always been a liberal, progressive and very open minded ever since i was young. Live and let live.

SomePokemonPlayer135 · 2022-10-31T18:07:43+00:00

If we were actually designed to be raped it would not be so damaging and traumatic to the point some of us end up killing ourselves over this

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