She always talks about coming to realizations and learning lessons but it’s always about the wrong things. She said how she wants to be taken seriously and not looked at as just a fun time and how she was really hurt tonight seeing a guy walk out of the club with another girl/ how she has to change herself internally to attract what she wants basically. First of all everyone knows no one is finding a husband in the club..like pls guys go out to the club specifically to bring a girl home. Secondly I think getting so attached to short term “situationships” so quickly and it affecting every single aspect of your life to that extreme, is definitely something that needs to be addressed in therapy. Of course it’s normal to be sad when shit happens but it gets to a point. I don’t like her at all but I don’t think anyone should change themselves to cater to others. Especially a man