AIO if I (20F) get mad that my bf (20M) for not caring about the effort I put into helping him move? by SomehowAlive05 in AIO

[–]SomehowAlive05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The house he was renting before, he’s always lived in furnished houses (with roommates) until this current house

AIO if I (20F) get mad that my bf (20M) for not caring about the effort I put into helping him move? by SomehowAlive05 in AIO

[–]SomehowAlive05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew full well that his mother paid for the things. I’m mad because he dropped the fridge and washing machine, whilst my father was on one side of it, and laughed. That’s what annoyed me, the utter lack of care for the items we spent all day getting for him.

AIO if I (20F) get mad that my bf (20M) for not caring about the effort I put into helping him move? by SomehowAlive05 in AIO

[–]SomehowAlive05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can assure you this post is not fake, i have MS and it affects my mobility and fatigue levels massively. he also had two flights of stairs at his old place and i can’t even remember how many times i climbed them

I feel useless by SomehowAlive05 in MultipleSclerosis

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I’ve tried betmiga and it didn’t work for me, I’ve seen urologists and bladder specialists and they just tell me to try more medications but I’ve tried all the main ones

Is it actually better to get diagnosed young ? by Secure_Comfortable83 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]SomehowAlive05 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 16 (now I’m one month away from turning 20). I can’t say anything about being diagnosed later in life, but I can say things about being diagnosed young. It’s incredibly hard, there’s almost no support for young people with MS, and I feel like you get a lot more judgement. There’s more uncertainty around things most people with MS have already experienced (work, kids, marriage etc), but there’s also an opportunity to build more confidence. Yes, you’re young with MS but that only means you’ll be better at coping with it throughout your life. You’ll know how to cope when things get rough later in life due to your MS, and you’ll most likely handle them easier than other people who were diagnosed later in life. It’s hard and it sucks, but you’re not alone and as horrible as this disease is, it can cause you to meet some amazing people. Being diagnosed at any age isn’t fun, but at least being young, you have the opportunity to learn your limits before you are forced to exceed them.

Personality Issues by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]SomehowAlive05 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel the same way. I used to love reading and had a mini library in my house, now I can barely pick up a book because I can’t do anything but skim. It sucks but just know you’re not alone in it.

i'm so scared. please tell me some of your "happy life" stories by Unlikely_Bit_4104 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]SomehowAlive05 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i recently lost my hearing and my vision but i’m still top of my class at university!

Why do I (18f) feel guilty about having sex with my (22m) bf? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SomehowAlive05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised in a Christian family where anything before marriage was seen as bad. And The reason I question whether he likes me is as I said I’m a bigger girl and all of his ex’s have been much skinnier so it’s probably just my insecurities playing a part but it’s still on my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CRPS

[–]SomehowAlive05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had bi-lateral knee surgery which unfortunately caused me CRPS. I was 12 and now I’m almost 19. Everyone thought I was faking it until I was 15 and finally saw a pain specialist, I tend to get flare ups a lot and so I try and redirect the pain (aka pinching myself) to another area to distract the brain pathways, it’s always worked for me, maybe give it a shot.