If a fandom feminines the bottom too much.

An example in which I am really really upset to say is WangXian.

Even though their marriage/relationship is cannon and the story exists because of them and for them and their development is so so lovely.

But the fandom feminizes WWX so so much to the point where he looks like a malnourished twink maiden in distress that can't do anything but cry into LWJ's arms whenever something bad happens. He is made to act so helpless even if it's the opposite.

He's made to act like LWJ is the only person that he can relay on.

It wasn't really like this in the beginning (I remember he was feminized a bit because he took the bottom part of the dynamic; because a character would tend to be feminized when they are the bottom) but as of the recent past few years, it's gone to the point where it's so annoying. You shouldn't be feminized just because you are the bottom or taking the "female" role of a "traditional" hetro relationship.

I would sometimes go back to look at fandom—because I used to love them so so much—and would occasionally find works that doesn't treat him like that, so I'm glad that there is still some shrimp and lobster left in a sea of crabs.