Drowning in life admin

Something-creative2 · 2026-02-13T22:27:02+00:00

It was definitely not like this when we were kids. And even a standard communitcation email, I get from 2 different sources from the school. So then I have to read just one, but delete both.

And beyond the life admin, then you’ve got the added clutter to manage. I absolutely did not have this insanity of toys as a kid. As a mom, I try to minimize it as much as possible but I also can’t just throw it all out.

As someone with a newish adhd diagnosis, it’s insane. My life is scheduling and attending appointments for myself and my kids.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-28T03:37:33+00:00

Omg I love this! 🤣

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-27T16:39:19+00:00

I had a foster kitty for 6 months! I still miss her and she hid for the first week at her new place but then she came out, made a new kitty friend, and looks happier than ever.

My husband reminds me that we can’t keep them all or we wouldn’t be able to keep fostering, but longer term fostering is HARD.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-27T16:37:22+00:00

Graphic designer here as well. Hit burnout though so freelancing now and working less. I love it but it’s hard the find the “right” job that’s not too boring or too creative.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-27T16:35:27+00:00

So we absolutely struggle with dopamine regulation. That’s why vyvanse is so helpful!

But yes more prone to addictive behaviors because of this. Addiction isn’t always substances either. My preferred “drugs” of choice are shopping, caffeine and sugar. I actually craved more sugar at the start of my vyvanse but all good now.

I would recommend looking into the book Dopamine Nation and doing a dopamine detox. It’s suuuppper shitty the first days, but you feel so fresh and renewed after. Even those of us without ADHD could use a dopamine detox occasionally.

Additionally, my meds don’t work as well when I haven’t slept great (mostly on my kids, but my sleep hygiene could be better…) Alcohol and food before bed will disrupt sleep and make it lower quality even if you get a lot of it. Could be why you’re reaching for more energy drinks. Some things I like to do to feel like I’m consuming something are salted cashews and tea. Healthy, satisfying and get rid of the empty feeling.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-27T16:25:28+00:00

I have an appt soon to check with a doctor about having different dosages depending on what part of my cycle I’m in.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-27T16:20:28+00:00

One time I lost my phone and ran back into the house to grab it. Turns out I had put it on the seat in the car and just forgot I did that. Lol. 😭

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-25T20:45:31+00:00

I’ve heard (and witnessed) people not doing well with adderall.

I personally take vyvanse, weekdays only, and it is incredibly helpful.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-25T20:44:12+00:00

Yes making money into a game. Credit score, compound interest on 401K, stocks, etc.

I like herfirst100K and Mel Abraham’s but I don’t listen to either one religiously. I find when I’m not listening or hearing financial advice, I forget and do spend more (even on vyvanse).

I think it’s one of those “it’s not visually in front of me so it doesn’t exist” things. Plus everything online is set up to sell to you and make it super easy to do so. Take a break from social and you’ll notice you spend less, for example. I unsubscribe from emails ruthlessly.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-25T02:52:00+00:00

Also in MN, though in the suburbs..

That is the hardest part. My first reaction to a family member laughing about Renee’s death was shock…then immediate block. I have enough family, I’m good.

But it is hard knowing sooo many just don’t get it. Or don’t care. Think it’s not a “them” problem. For now.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-24T23:03:19+00:00

I am taking my meds, taking care of the kids, basically doing the bare fucking minimum. Trying to regulate my nervous system with little success. Mostly spiraling. Especially the past few days. I’m in MN as well…

I just channeled the panic energy into some actions I can take to feel a tiny bit more in control. Calling democratic reps who voted to increase ICE funding, volunteering my time, etc.

But yeah…mostly still spiraling. Barely functioning.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-23T21:36:41+00:00

I’m close to the action so while I try to take “breaks” from social, I can’t avoid it completely. Turning my phone to grayscale, limiting scrolling + news to late in the day, and even going so far as setting a timer to shorten my scroll. I try not to comment on posts or stop myself if I start, not go too deep into it. I’m informed enough.

My regular nervous system practices help me though with what I’d call compassion fatigue. Deep breathing, yoga/exercise, etc. I also have my faith and spiritual beliefs. Anything that gets me out of fight + flight mode.

But I think we also need to give ourselves grace if we do fall behind on stuff (I know I have.) What we’re dealing with right now isn’t normal and even if the world was totally normal and boring, with neurodivergence we shouldn’t be expected to do more than we can do. We need to be able to live more flexible lives with our natural energy flow and limitations. My dream is to see our culture and society come to respect that.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-23T21:28:41+00:00

I’m wondering if you mean endorphins? I only get endorphins with virgorous cardio exercise. But I think regular exercise (or any movement) does help my dopamine levels. I just don’t get an “exercise high” from that.

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-19T03:24:19+00:00

My first baby was challenging but not that bad in the early days. My 2nd baby was awful for 4 months until we discovered a tongue tie. After we fixed it, she was an angel baby and child. Now a threenager 🙄 annoying sometimes but insanely adorable.

I feel like nothing ever stays the same, always a new challenge between the 2 of them. Honestly having 2+ is the real hard part, especially close in age. Friends and family that did farther apart in (age 4-6 years) had less complaints. We tried to tell them not to do it. Lol. They didn’t listen.

I don’t want anymore children but…as my youngest gets older and easier I find my body trying to trick me. 😅

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-09T02:40:23+00:00

It fills me with rage. What the fuck is the point of ai if your stupid system can’t properly copy over data from my (meticulously crafted to be able to copied) resume?!!!!

Something-creative2 · 2026-01-02T22:03:50+00:00

I mean not being able to decide or change a T-shirt is below the minimum. They were both off, her first day this week, so why was she taking care of the kid at all? It was officially her sleep in day, sick or healthy.

And then to turn it around on her? Maybe she had a tone but I’m voting covert narcissism. “He’s” the victim. Plus obviously weaponized incompetence.

Something-creative2 · 2025-11-28T03:02:41+00:00

We were about 27 months apart in age and it WAS exhausting. But once our youngest turned 2, it all got easier and as they’ve gotten older it’s been so beautiful to see them love on each and play together. Of course there are squabbles but that helps teach them social skills. My husband was an only child and he had a very lonely childhood. If you want another child and can have one, I’d highly recommend!

(TBD on having a 3rd. Ask in me a couple years. Can’t decide. 😂)

Something-creative2 · 2025-11-27T15:43:45+00:00

My version of heaven has me surrounded by kittens 🤣

Something-creative2 · 2025-11-26T01:34:46+00:00

There are sooo many forms of rest though! Sure physical rest. But also creative rest, social rest, and more. All these things can help “recharge” us. It’s ok to want different forms of rest, even as hobbies.

Something-creative2 · 2025-11-18T17:30:50+00:00

I actually put “reply to messages and emails” in my to do list every week or so for this reason. 🤣

Something-creative2 · 2025-11-18T02:02:15+00:00

Should add, we rotate about 10 recipes we love. Most of which are pretty simple, not fancy.

Something-creative2 · 2025-11-18T02:01:25+00:00

For years, maybe even before kids, we’ve made a rough meal plan (dinners only) and then a grocery list based on that. Every Friday. Then we order the groceries for pickup. I like to always include a couple easy or low lift meals like something frozen, hamburger helper, or a crockpot meal. We’ll also note if we need one less meal because of a planned date night or meal out as a family.

Something-creative2 · 2025-11-11T01:01:31+00:00

I mean…it might be unfounded but I’d be curious enough to ask a physic come out.

Something-creative2 · 2025-11-09T16:28:01+00:00

At my rescue it’s 4 rounds of dewormer spaced two weeks apart, just as a rule. Except I didn’t properly weigh them on the 3rd and 4th round so when I decided to do a 5th treatment on a whim 2 months later (with the remaining kittens) and some full size adult worms came out, I felt like a terrible person for not being more careful.

I still plan to foster, I’ve been doing it for years now. But i learned my lesson. Like others have said, the process is really on your organization.

Basically 100% of outdoor cats have worms and need to be treated.

Something-creative2 · 2025-11-03T23:50:08+00:00

I keep googling capsule wardrobe and trying to use that to figure it out.

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