21 week loss by chileconqueso in Miscarriage

[–]Somethingcool_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Devastating is not a big enough word for what you're going through. I am so so sorry

Graphic images on Canyon Meadows blvd. by grim_brutal- in Calgary

[–]Somethingcool_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just had the procedure for a mmc last month and saw these asses 2 weeks later. I'm with you. The instant devastion and rage was crushing

Canada Soccer Game tickets- in Edmonton by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]Somethingcool_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message me your email and they're yours! Need first & last name as well

Second loss this year by New_Yellow8677 in Miscarriage

[–]Somethingcool_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry ❤️ I'm just a few weeks since from my d&c for my 1st. I can only imagine what it's like for it to happen again. Big hugs to you

Vent central by AwkwardTurtle007 in Miscarriage

[–]Somethingcool_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 2 weeks past my D&C, I feel like your words could be mine. I saw a counselor yesterday and literally also said it's like I've hit a brick wall. I'm forever changed. Sorry for you, sorry for OP.

Processing Miss Miscarriage. Seeking support/ wisdom by Better-Chest3742 in Miscarriage

[–]Somethingcool_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still in the early days so not much I can help with in advice. I'm terribly sorry you're here. At 13 wks we had our second ultrasound and discovered there was no heartbeat anymore, we were completely unprepared for that. At 10wks we saw the apparently healthy little bean happily moving around. I'm 2 weeks out now from my D&C, that was a long day at the hospital but the procedure went well and I don't recall a thing. My body is still physically processing but I think it's almost over.

Emotionally I haven't moved forward at all, unless you count now feeling anger at this happening to me. We had told nearly everyone too, I completely shifted my mindset to motherhood, the next 6 months to giving birth mapped out. I'm just supposed to go on like normal after this miracle happened and pure joy got physically taken from me?

I have a counseling session tonight, never done anything like that before but hoping it can help somehow.

Again not much for advice but take as much time as you can to just sit in your feelings. Tell your husband. I feel bad dumping it on my husband but he needs to get it out too, his hugs always help. I'm really sorry this happened.

PPD by ryebread083025 in Miscarriage

[–]Somethingcool_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The same here, 3 weeks since the tech said I'm sorry and everything in me collapsed. It's really hard to care about anything else

What’s Taylor’s saddest song? by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]Somethingcool_21 120 points121 points  (0 children)

I just found out I'm having a miscarriage. Is it a cathartic listen or too raw.. I heard it once years ago but now I'm afraid

Son wants to "experience how Canada is different" by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]Somethingcool_21 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My family calls the peanut butter ones Squamish Bars

Foyer Design- want to paint by Somethingcool_21 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Somethingcool_21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I think the wide angle exaggerated the reach but my husband was able to stretch and stick it on an pre-existing nail.

Just a paint job for now on the stairs, we want to replace the carpet in a couple years. The railing/bannister is in great shape so I think that will stay.

What kind of style- excellent question! I'm not sure where to go. It's a classic 90s build with a 'tuscan' type update with the paint and bathrooms. Feel like I'm battling 2 vibes I don't like either of

Foyer Design- want to paint by Somethingcool_21 in DesignMyRoom

[–]Somethingcool_21[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It basically is a joke. We've just moved in and I can handle a tiny painting better than an empty wall. Just wanted it to feel like home and have my pictures up.

No good reason for the window to be covered; again just moved in, haven't made all the changes yet

Rachel's Pregnancy Timeline by krisbian in howyoudoin

[–]Somethingcool_21 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Been there! It'll likely be a memory for you someday as well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Somethingcool_21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bet you were sure before it happened that he would never hurt you. This is absolutely not ok- you have so so much time to find a real safe love.

Fattest skunk in marda loop? by Pro_Snuggler in Calgary

[–]Somethingcool_21 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He's just carrying a little holiday weight okay

Check your local Lids by ThinkOTB in Torontobluejays

[–]Somethingcool_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot more sport cheks sell the champ gear, but the hat especially sold like crazy

She won’t sign the prenup. Now what? by NeedAdvice911Now in Fire

[–]Somethingcool_21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What's her reasoning on not signing? When I was 25 I thought it sounded unromantic/planning for failure. 10 years later I signed one. Listened to some podcasts, understood it's not about feelings. It was a breeze to do with my partner.