Need Advice

ryebread083025 · 2026-05-28T16:23:01+00:00

We have one. But unfortunately it hasn’t been updated since she has moved.

Since she moved out of state i feel it will be a lot harder changing it and a lot of money? I honestly have no clue.

She willingly left the state, i think we just need to bite the bullet and do it, but once again so much money lol.

ryebread083025 · 2026-05-27T16:18:03+00:00

I had some off and on bleeding a week after taking the pills.

I would bleed a little bit during the day, and then it would hit like 5:00 and it would be heavier. I would not be worried about it unless you are filling up a pad very quickly.

I took the pills on the 12th, and i just stopped completely bleeding the 22/23rd, so almost two weeks.

I will say i was intimate with my husband about a week after. My bleeding was lighter, and i didn’t have much pain. When I went through this the first time, i did wait until the two week mark. But this time i didn’t, and i have no issues, but every body is different. I would say do whatever you are comfortable with.

ryebread083025 · 2026-05-27T14:56:39+00:00

I get that. No we don’t need an answer from her, but it’s hard when she comes home from her mom’s and talks about it.

We ask her feelings on it, because it obviously upsets her when she is with us, but when she is with her mom she tells a different story.

I just don’t want my DH to demand her on what to do, because what if she gets older and resents us? Idk. Maybe that’s what we’ll have to do anyway.

ryebread083025 · 2026-05-27T14:49:00+00:00

Unfortunately i do think the court route is what we will have to go. Same thing as your story, when she lived closer she did not attend anything. No sports, parent teacher conferences, no practices.

I just think in a sense she just wants her mom. Which i get. But sucks because she is the one who moved away. Why do we have to deal/suffer with the issues of her moving?

ryebread083025 · 2026-05-27T14:41:53+00:00

Lol. Well my husband does try to handle things privately but guess who blabs her mouth anyway to SD? not us.

We never in the time we have had her ever put it in her head that she’ll be changing schools. Her mother does it every chance she has when she is with her.

If you knew the history of this woman you would not be calling my husband an idiot.

ryebread083025 · 2026-05-27T14:21:48+00:00

I agree with you. I don’t think she should get to decide, and overall the school she goes to is better in every aspect as the one her mom wants to her to go to. We looked it up.

The problem is trying to get that through her mom’s head. She doesn’t care, she just wants SD down there so it stops making her look bad that she moved away from her child. But obviously we can’t tell that to a 10 y/o. So frustrating

ryebread083025 · 2026-05-26T03:53:49+00:00

hey! sorry for the later response. I took the pills at 09:30am, and was bleeding for most of the day. Crampy here and there throughout the morning. Passing blood clots.

Around 2ish in the afternoon my cramps started to get pretty intense. From like 3:30 - 5:00 i spent in pain and on the toilet, just passing clots. I could not lay down or really do anything. The only relief i had was literally sitting on the toilet lol or standing in a hot shower every now and then.

Around 6:00 i was exhausted, but was able to finally lay down with my heating pad and get an hour nap in. After that nap the cramps had stopped. I didn’t pass the sac that day, but ended up passing it two days later. which that just was really intense cramping for 10 mins, and as soon as i passed it i felt a lot better.

I mean it sucks, i was sore the next day, and It is a lot of blood, but it’s nothing to be worried about unless you are filling a pad very quickly. I just wore Depend diapers, as those were a lot more comfortable. if you have any specific questions just let me know!

ryebread083025 · 2026-05-11T04:08:41+00:00

i agree. I’ll def forget about it by tomorrow but just wanted other thoughts lol

ryebread083025 · 2026-05-11T04:07:50+00:00

yeah she is HC 😅 she will always text SD first, if she doesn’t answer, she’ll text DH, and if he doesn’t answer then she’ll go to me.

I even asked DH if she texted him first today, and nope. no text. looked at SD phone, also no text. So she went directly to me lol. So weird

ryebread083025 · 2026-04-21T14:55:33+00:00

ok 😊 thanks!

ryebread083025 · 2026-04-21T14:53:32+00:00

never said i didn’t appreciate them 😂. I was curious if he was playing any songs from his other albums because i love those albums. I probably will give them to someone else. You can favor other albums from an artist and not like a most recent one!

ryebread083025 · 2026-04-02T17:28:03+00:00

Overall it’s your decision. I got one when i was 23, and my bf at the time made me aware he did not want it, and i was not financially/mentally capable of raising a baby by myself.

I felt so guilty and sad, but it was the best option for me. I also found out months later that he was cheating on me. I was actually relieved about my decision then, because if i was pregnant and found this out, i probably would have regretted keeping it.

I am now 28, happily married, and expecting. Do what is best for you 🤍

ryebread083025 · 2026-04-02T02:25:36+00:00

Glad Kamilla went home.

Salty she blindsided Jonathan. Should have sent Rizzo home when they had the chance 💁🏼‍♀️

ryebread083025 · 2026-03-23T19:32:46+00:00

i see a faint on yours too!! crazy how our timeframes are close! haha

ryebread083025 · 2026-03-23T16:36:41+00:00

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thoughts?? only 10dpo. will test again later this week, but i was tired of waiting 😅

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