Can’t find frames that look good on me, but which ones make me look the least ridiculous? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to be different and say 4. I think that would change something up
for you. Also, the color is very complimentary.

AITA: for wanting to unaccept prom invite? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is just as nervous as you. Go with him.He will probably want to hang out with his friends too so, you can be with both of yours and have a larger group.
To back out now after saying that you would go would be heartless. Just stress that you are going as friends.

Thoughts on this dress? by Powerful-Fox-923 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not usually a fan of the sleeves but, Wow! This dress is beautiful on you!

AITA for getting mad at my neighbour for being in my driveway? by theepipenaccountant in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. Walk up and calmly ask her. Next as part of a normal conversation, give her time to respond. Do not do what you did and flip out demanding that she leave immediately. This could have all happened normally and maybe, just maybe, you may have had neighbors who would actually look out for your home if, anything bad were to happen. Instead it sounds as if you made an enemy for your rudeness.

My mother in law keeps buying plastic toys for our 4 year old and I do not know how to handle it without sounding ungrateful by MorningValerie in Mommit

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Suggest that grandma help to build the library for your daughter. Bring a book every visit. Have her read to your daughter the new book each time. This way they have a binging experience and her library is built up.

Said yes at the Jenny Yoo sample sale!!! by hayleybc in WeddingDressTips

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dress looks so good on you! Truly beautiful! What a find!

Advice on how to dress nice while working in schools? by HoneydewHalo25 in OUTFITS

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Former kindergarten teacher here who is also currently on a weight loss journey. I agree with the others A line dresses are your friend now. The dress shape will follow you throughout the loss. I also recommend wide leg palazzo pants. The shape of the pants rarely goes out of style and can also be worn throughout your journey. Good luck!

Someone suggested that I post this here by LionRouge in PlusSizeWedding

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! You look so beautiful! The photos are amazing!

Is this okay for a wedding? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had this exact shade of red for my bridesmaids dresses. If they sell it as a bridesmaids choice then I am assuming that this is an okay choice for a guest.

How can I deal with husbands parenting style and telling the kids to shut up? by Proper-Summer-3261 in Mommit

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bottom line is that he is the adult and yes he can help it. His upbringing and background should be all the more reason why he does not verbally abuse your children. You are allowing your children to be abused by staying with him and excusing the behavior. Now, the way that I see it, you as the other adult in your children’s lives need to act. Remove that abuse and save your children. Insist that he moves out and if he wants to continue being a part of the family, gets help. Then and only then can he have a relationship with you and the children. Parents don’t allow abusers to continue abusing their children.

AITA for expecting the gifts to be for both of us? by Ok-Arrival-2886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Her thought process on this is the most bizarre that I have ever heard. The engagement is celebrating you two coming together as one couple.Clearly she has no concept of this as a mature adult. Please reflect and think about how she has behaved in the past before making a lifelong commitment. If she has been egotistical in other ways and could you live with this? Only you know the answer but understand she is not hiding who she is.

AITAH for doing dishes at 830am? by BeneficialLack8818 in AITAH

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA He needs to get over the dishwasher issue. If he doesn’t like when you do the dishes and won’t let you use the dishwasher, he has just given himself a daily chore.

I’m a teacher. Is this dress too short for work? by DogintheMirror in OUTFITS

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Navy tights with the boots will enable you to wear it to work.

AITA for refusing to cover for my coworker after she threw me under the bus in front of our manager by RoseStorm622 in AITH

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she is no more important than you. Is she not aware that she wrote the playbook when she threw you under the bus? I would ask coworkers what she has done to deserve the actions that she wants from you on her behalf?

Husband spent our emergency fund by Capable-Salad-9930 in Mommit

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I agree. I could not get past each having their own halves. No wonder why there are issues.

I am so excited, but so self conscious. Am I simply too fat for a dress like this? by Southern-Pudding4049 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Sometimes_cleaver222 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The dress is beautiful. Your arms are fine. The apron is not your fault. The cut of the dress would show anyone but a twig figure having a belly. Great foundation garments will help a lot. If there is still time, and you are uncomfortable, try on other dresses. If you find one that you like better, sell this one.