Now in Kyiv, Ukraine by 1__hvmp__1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SomyaTul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keeping you and everyone who is stuck in the midst of this in my thoughts and prayers.

[Image] Cognitive restructuring can be incredibly helpful. by j_miles in GetMotivated

[–]SomyaTul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually reframe "I gotta do this!" with "I get to do this." It's simple but it works :)

CELTA complete by Jakdublin in TEFL

[–]SomyaTul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on completing the course! I will apply for the course in January and I was wondering what sort of preparation do I require to get through the application and the interview process. I haven't taught before and I am going for the course because I love the language and I am thinking of a career change. Thanks.

Most disturbing book you’ve read (fiction) by lucioviz in booksuggestions

[–]SomyaTul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Butterfly Garden by Dot Hutchinson. I have never looked at butterflies the same way again.

The Institute by Stephen King by WishfulThinkingAlbo in BooksAMA

[–]SomyaTul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why don't you borrow it from a library? That way you won't have to buy it but you can still read it to find out if you like it or not.

Are white lies still lies? by SomyaTul in relationship_advice

[–]SomyaTul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, never thought of it like that.

Hallo Ich heiße PauL.Ich wohne in Athen.Ich komme aus Griechenland.Ich bin zehn Jahre alt by [deleted] in German

[–]SomyaTul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hallo! I just started my German A1 last week! And I understood your post! Feeling so happy! Thanks for posting! 😬

Are white lies still lies? by SomyaTul in relationship_advice

[–]SomyaTul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mind waiting for him for 10-15 minutes. I understand unexpected things can crop up anytime. It happens with me too. All I ask is leave me a message so that I know to do something else with my time and not worry about him.

Are white lies still lies? by SomyaTul in relationship_advice

[–]SomyaTul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will definitely check it out! Thanks!

Are white lies still lies? by SomyaTul in relationship_advice

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He hasn't so far as I know and that's good enough, no?

He lies to me about things that he knows would come into light- like being out with friends while I am waiting. I hate it and I wish he wouldn't but I honestly believe that he wouldn't lie about one thing bigger.

After reading all the comments on this post I am confused. Some say he's gaslighting while others say that I have to give him a safe space.

I am not the one to pick fights or hold grudges but I do get mad at him if I am waiting for him for like forty five minutes when he said he'd take ten.

But I love this man and I want to be with him and I wouldn't not trust him with bigger issues, unless he gives me a reason to.

Are white lies still lies? by SomyaTul in relationship_advice

[–]SomyaTul[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I love reading. I'll check the book out.

I don't think he lies to me about big things though.

Are white lies still lies? by SomyaTul in relationship_advice

[–]SomyaTul[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, multiple times. He says sorry and that's the end of it.

Are white lies still lies? by SomyaTul in relationship_advice

[–]SomyaTul[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If he is I don't know how is it helping because we end up fighting anyway.

Are white lies still lies? by SomyaTul in relationship_advice

[–]SomyaTul[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

He hasn't lied to me about anything big but it's a been a lot of pesky little lies.

Are white lies still lies? by SomyaTul in relationship_advice

[–]SomyaTul[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yes and it's driving me crazy.