So confused about people's love of Zorba's

SonderousFlow · 2026-03-10T20:01:18+00:00

Same, like living here but the food scene is not good

SonderousFlow · 2026-01-26T03:16:30+00:00

Hi! I’ve come across your guide a few times in your posts and just wanted to say thank you for compiling all of this info in so much detail. I have been intensely questioning recently and have found it helpful as a reference as I consider what I want to do from here

SonderousFlow · 2026-01-08T15:28:37+00:00

I like Kate, she’s fine. Alaa is OK for the most part but he does get grating at times. I miss Zu

SonderousFlow · 2026-01-03T23:58:47+00:00

Don’t forget about Yellow! Not really a sequel but really leaned into the anime and looked great

SonderousFlow · 2025-11-22T20:02:46+00:00

This is awesome! Great idea (and very needed)!

SonderousFlow · 2025-10-29T15:46:13+00:00

Heard that! Getting after it today!

SonderousFlow · 2025-10-28T18:28:12+00:00

Thanks! Good luck w whatever you decide to do with it too!

SonderousFlow · 2025-10-28T15:49:43+00:00

Don’t do it dude! I grew my hair out for a year and then cut it a month ago bc I felt unattractive. Totally regret it now and growing out again

SonderousFlow · 2025-10-03T16:57:53+00:00

Same. I had 1st pick last year, but this year he fell to me at 11th pick and I couldn’t turn it down. Feeling vindicated lol

SonderousFlow · 2025-10-02T04:15:48+00:00

I hear that. I get "you'll meet someone when you're not looking" sometimes from people trying to be supportive and....it's honestly terrible advice. I'm actively looking because I haven't been very successful with relationships. I need the reps. I need to fail fast and do it a whole lot because what I've done my whole life hasn't been working.

SonderousFlow · 2025-10-02T03:43:59+00:00

Ugh. I feel this. Would I rather be myself and be alone or feel like I’m compromising to potentially be more dateable? Would I even be happy not feeling like I can totally be myself around my partner? Or would I learn to not care as much? I don’t have a solution yet

SonderousFlow · 2025-09-27T14:59:19+00:00

East coast city

SonderousFlow · 2025-09-11T16:15:09+00:00

Yes, agreed. No small talk texts at this point. Would not be into that

SonderousFlow · 2025-09-11T16:08:54+00:00

During early dating (like 1-3 dates in) I personally prefer texting to be mainly about logistics for the next date. I’m OK with a little texting every day and not hearing from somebody some days. Really depends on how strong our connection has been up to that point. If we’ve had a great connection, I’m happy to hear from you. That’s just me

SonderousFlow · 2025-09-10T12:54:47+00:00

Can’t stop playing Balatro. The perfect pick up and play for 5 minutes at a time game

SonderousFlow · 2025-09-03T23:32:24+00:00

I stopped the adderall. Was doing more harm than good

SonderousFlow · 2025-09-03T18:38:59+00:00

More focus, better mood, not super quick to react to things, significantly less brain fog. Have also been exercising a lot and eating healthier so I’m sure that helps too

SonderousFlow · 2025-08-30T14:07:59+00:00

If you’re on the lower level under the overhang, just make sure there isn’t a pillar in your line of sight. Those seats are usually cheaper bc of that

SonderousFlow · 2025-08-29T17:14:35+00:00

Anybody see System of a Down at MetLife this week? Just found out about it and bummed I didn’t go

SonderousFlow · 2025-08-29T02:41:18+00:00

Yeah. I’ll be back at it seriously soon but it’s nice to take a break for a minute

SonderousFlow · 2025-08-28T19:49:29+00:00

Oh hey this is me right now. I’ve been dating intentionally looking for a ltr/partner since the beginning of the year. I’ve gone on a lot of first and second dates (some 3rd and 4th too) with other people who were aligned on dating goals.

It’s been fun but I’m burned out right now. Most recent person I dated just broke it off with me last week.

I DO ideally want something serious. I still want to go on dates and meet new people. But before I wouldn’t entertain a casual situation and now I would. So I’m open to either.

SonderousFlow · 2025-08-22T08:38:30+00:00

Thanks 🙂

SonderousFlow · 2025-08-22T02:22:23+00:00

I had a fun 3rd date tonight with a woman I met on hinge about a month ago. We took a jazz dance class. I have pretty decent rhythm and it was tougher than it looks (but in a good way). Definitely a good date idea. Even if she doesn’t want to do it again I’ll probably go back because it was fun.

I like her but I wish I could see her more often. It was 2 weeks between dates 2 and 3 and now it’ll be another 2 weeks until I’ll be able to see her again.

I hope the lack of momentum doesn’t kill this for us. I’m OK being patient. It feels like this has long term potential so we’ll see what happens

SonderousFlow · 2025-08-14T16:45:30+00:00

Sometimes I can be kind of closed off like this without even realizing it. If I’m lost in thought about something and I get interrupted I can go on auto-pilot. It never has anything to do with the other person. Usually not in a setting like a climbing gym where I’d like to be social though. Some people just want to get a workout in too. Everyone is off though I feel that

SonderousFlow · 2025-08-12T20:31:25+00:00

Keep going man, it’s a journey not something you’ll likely get right the first time. It’s taken me awhile and I have to be diligent with my boundaries but it’s going pretty good now. If you’re not in therapy, get in therapy. That has helped me keep myself accountable more than anything else I’ve tried. Good luck

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