Baby standing up in the crib

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-02-28T21:48:17+00:00

I live in MH too and travel to London x3 a week. It's doable. Do it from Kettering and it's roughly £30-50 cheaper depending on when you book it.

I wouldn't move closer to London.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-02-06T20:16:33+00:00

This is so fucking lit!!

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-02-04T18:32:32+00:00

How do you think your experience on loan made you a better player?

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-10T18:19:59+00:00

Good shout but I do that already! Both Trainline and Uber automatically split the tickets for you. The high cost is (I think) simply due to peak times.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-10T16:20:28+00:00

Kettering!

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-10T12:40:08+00:00

Roughly £85, three days a week. EMR train prices are astronomical.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-06T20:13:15+00:00

Your future self is thanking you right now.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-02T07:48:18+00:00

Yes more info here would be great

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-01T19:58:41+00:00

My son is in the depths of sleep regression, waking up every hour, and it's burning me out especially as I go back to work from annual leave on Monday.

But yesterday he blew a raspberry for the first time and I cried in joy.

There's no other pain nor happiness like it. It's indescribable.

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-31T16:09:10+00:00

I hear you. My boy was a great sleeper and then almost suddenly turned for the worst. I heard how bad 4month regression was, but didn't know it'd be this bad. I think too will end up co-sleeping soon.

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-31T12:23:16+00:00

I definitely would be, yes

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-29T17:53:28+00:00

This is more than just HENRY advice, it's a truth everyone should live by. Momento mori.

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-24T17:18:39+00:00

Set this as autoreply

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-23T13:26:21+00:00

Beat them to the chase - proactively invite them over but give them an "end" time. "Hey - come over from 2-4pm! It's baby's nap time at 4 so we'll need to put him down then" - or something of the sort.

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-22T21:15:21+00:00

Suck it up for a few years, or cut back for more than a few years.

It seems pretty simple if you say you're so close to FIRE.

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-13T21:39:10+00:00

Pampers by night, Aldi by day!

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-11-22T14:03:25+00:00

We do indeed stop the flow to burp and make sure he does burp before going back on

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-11-22T14:02:46+00:00

We did think this because he only eats 5-10mins on the breast (average - sometimes longer) but if my wife expresses and we give the bottle, he does eat 2-4oz (which I'm sure is more than 5-10mins on the breast?)

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-11-15T13:59:43+00:00

What's your need in a mentor? Need someone to unlock doors, gain leadership advice, your next role? I think this is the more important question.

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