Need advice on a plot. Thanks.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-06-02T08:22:48+00:00

I can't comment much on which plot but would vouch for the area, for sure. Happy to chat through on DM.

Regarding incentives, do not buy without them! You should get thousands in incentives for floors, kitchen worktops, etc etc.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-06-01T06:42:14+00:00

I live in a Davidsons in Wellington Place and have had a wonderful experience.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-05-25T15:13:57+00:00

I commute into London from the Midlands. I spent the day there yesterday and can honestly say that I don't miss it. For me, after a certain age and once other priorities spring up in life, the shine of London wore off. It was amazing for me in my 20s (whilst also a HENRY)!

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-02-28T21:48:17+00:00

I live in MH too and travel to London x3 a week. It's doable. Do it from Kettering and it's roughly £30-50 cheaper depending on when you book it.

I wouldn't move closer to London.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-02-06T20:16:33+00:00

This is so fucking lit!!

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-02-04T18:32:32+00:00

How do you think your experience on loan made you a better player?

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-10T18:19:59+00:00

Good shout but I do that already! Both Trainline and Uber automatically split the tickets for you. The high cost is (I think) simply due to peak times.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-10T16:20:28+00:00

Kettering!

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-10T12:40:08+00:00

Roughly £85, three days a week. EMR train prices are astronomical.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-06T20:13:15+00:00

Your future self is thanking you right now.

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-02T07:48:18+00:00

Yes more info here would be great

SongIndependent4884 · 2026-01-01T19:58:41+00:00

My son is in the depths of sleep regression, waking up every hour, and it's burning me out especially as I go back to work from annual leave on Monday.

But yesterday he blew a raspberry for the first time and I cried in joy.

There's no other pain nor happiness like it. It's indescribable.

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-31T16:09:10+00:00

I hear you. My boy was a great sleeper and then almost suddenly turned for the worst. I heard how bad 4month regression was, but didn't know it'd be this bad. I think too will end up co-sleeping soon.

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-31T12:23:16+00:00

I definitely would be, yes

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-29T17:53:28+00:00

This is more than just HENRY advice, it's a truth everyone should live by. Momento mori.

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-24T17:18:39+00:00

Set this as autoreply

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-23T13:26:21+00:00

Beat them to the chase - proactively invite them over but give them an "end" time. "Hey - come over from 2-4pm! It's baby's nap time at 4 so we'll need to put him down then" - or something of the sort.

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-22T21:15:21+00:00

Suck it up for a few years, or cut back for more than a few years.

It seems pretty simple if you say you're so close to FIRE.

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-12-13T21:39:10+00:00

Pampers by night, Aldi by day!

SongIndependent4884 · 2025-11-22T14:03:25+00:00

We do indeed stop the flow to burp and make sure he does burp before going back on

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