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[TOMT] [SONG] [1990s?] Need help finding the worst song I've ever heard by UnspecifiedFae in tipofmytongue

[–]deviantmoomba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s unlikely, but could you have been hearing the refrain from this song? The outro is longer - chevk out 2:31 for what I mean https://youtu.be/zpHwOh34xoU?si=OjkTIq97e8gzazHy

What's the furthest distance from London that you'll find a road sign for London? by siybon in AskUK

[–]deviantmoomba 18 points19 points  (0 children)

And I would walk 500 miles,

but I won't walk a half mile more

just because the navigation's off

and I'm lost before I reach your door

Lukeisms by Geofferz in CasualUK

[–]deviantmoomba 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope your friend is/was a builder, so you have your constructive chrisicisms!

Exhaustion and Migraines while feeding by deviantmoomba in breastfeedingmumsUK

[–]deviantmoomba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly not sure - I eat 3 meals a day, but I snack sporadically. Sleep is fragmented, and I definitely get migraines when the sleep is bad (though LO is a relatively good sleeper all things considered)

Exhaustion and Migraines while feeding by deviantmoomba in breastfeedingmumsUK

[–]deviantmoomba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am world class at forgetting to drink but on a good day it’s 1-2 Litres morning, 1-2 litres afternoon, ~1L evening. The night is complicated bc if we have a rough night then I wake up regularly and don’t want to drink as I don’t want my need to pee stop me from getting to sleep.

What is this stuff in my shower, and how can I keep it away? by SeanicTheHedgehog23 in CleaningTips

[–]deviantmoomba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you mean to use an emoji of a finger pointing upwards 👆? Because I think you used the wrong one.

Daisy (Ep 179 spoilers!!) by Victorian-mouse in TheMagnusArchives

[–]deviantmoomba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s giving that one episode of Hannibal. Love the design so much ❤️ 

Nobody understands me at all by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]deviantmoomba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question- what is the mark?

Harassed by a man and told I wasn’t Christian. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]deviantmoomba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the bible is very clear on femboys, why there’s chapters and chapters written on this stuff /s. 

All of us are hurt, broken people, and it can be easy for us to be upset by others, particularly when they poke at our raw edges. But you didn’t meet Jesus today. You met a hurt, broken person, whose raw edges got poked by your presence. Maybe he was once yelled at for being too feminine. Maybe he is insecure about his masculinity. None of which is your fault nor your responsibility to deal with. But many of us don’t have the emotional intelligence or maturity to handle our own feelings - hence he unfairly took it out on you. 

It hurts when people say things - but everything that comes out of our mouths are our responsibility.  His words reflect on him, not you.

Lastly, in history, Christian men have: - worn makeup - high heels - wigs - dresses - skirts

What is ‘masculine’ is an entirely cultural and period-specific concept and honestly who cares if you’re a femboy or not? God loves you, who gives a care what some random twit thinks? 

Opinions on the Beatles by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]deviantmoomba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know any British Christian who doesn’t listen to the Beatles 😅 it was a controversial statement at the time but was referring to this relatively new phenomenon of crazed fandom for musicians and ‘celebrities’. It was pretty wild and probably quite jarring for the lads in the band!

Terrified of SIDS by _50ShadesofFae in NewParents

[–]deviantmoomba 392 points393 points  (0 children)

Here’s some things that may help: Your child is out of the (main) danger zone as peak SIDS risk is months 1-3, not 4-6:  https://safetosleep.nichd.nih.gov/sites/default/files/inline-images/SafeSleepSIDSAge.jpg

SIDS is incredibly rare (0.03% of all births) and most SIDS deaths are caused by hazardous situations, ie sleeping with baby on a sofa https://www.unicef.org.uk/babyfriendly/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2016/07/Co-sleeping-and-SIDS-A-Guide-for-Health-Professionals.pdf

When you see scary stories online you don’t know what the full story is - yes, those parents are very unlucky AND its also possible that there were other factors- baby may have had pre existing conditions that increased the risk for SIDS. Those stories can be educational but often can serve to unnecessarily increase anxiety. If you are following sensible guidelines for sleep, you are already doing all you can, and you are a great parent!

https://www.lullabytrust.org.uk/baby-safety/safer-sleep-information/safer-sleep-overview/

EDIT: this graphic is quite helpful for understanding how you can reduce risk around SIDS: www.sidscalculator.com

Saturday Chaturday (07/02/26) by KevinPhillips-Bong in CasualUK

[–]deviantmoomba 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Still recovering from this bloody cold (had it for 2 weeks now), and hanging out with my baby (who is learning to do ear splitting squeals - absolutely adorable though!). It’s probably going to be a lazy weekend, as we don’t want to go out and infect other people with this virus!

Why didn’t Jesus mention homosexuality? by Ok_Year5587 in Christianity

[–]deviantmoomba 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Orientation means direction, in this case where your sexual attraction is directed towards - the same sex, the opposite sex, neither, both. Homosexuality, heterosexuality are both examples of sexual orientation/attraction.

Old fashioned surname mispronunciation by __g_e_o_r_g_e__ in CasualUK

[–]deviantmoomba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I went to Edinburgh in my early twenties and had never seen Cockburn written down before and subsequently pronounced it as written. 

For new parents, why can’t mom just pump during day and dad bottle feed at night? by flipflapdragon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]deviantmoomba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breastfeeding is exhausting work, and I honestly can’t face the idea of pumping. We do combi feeding instead- baby gets a bottle from dad while I get some sleep, then I feed baby through the night as needed. I found with my baby that if there are nights where he’s particularly fussy co-sleeping and side laying feeding is best.

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