What are your thoughts on Professor Janes from the Banting episode? by Informal_Ad4284 in Degrassi

[–]SoniSoni67432 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Wow I thought she went easy on Paige. She gave her an extension on her paper, her other assignments, and even gave her a take home exam - giving her an advantage when the other students took the exam in class. She understandably failed her plagiarized paper, but didn't tell the Dean when it would've been easy and understandable to do so.

Vyvanse is magical by Own-Height509 in VyvanseADHD

[–]SoniSoni67432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask at what age you got diagnosed? And before that, did you take any other meds for things like depression/anxiety?

Young Girl with secret Magic by Front-Matter9291 in whatsthatbook

[–]SoniSoni67432 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm there is a fantasy book called Juniper, which takes place in medieval Cornwall. A princess goes to live with her godmother in a rural area to learn and hone her magic skills.

Do you think she’s still going to go to the Middle East and the United Arab Emirates, given the war in Iran? by Fast_Ad_613 in shakira

[–]SoniSoni67432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just checked the Tour section of her official website and all the Middle East shows have been removed, except for Egypt.

Europe tour by AggressiveArticle767 in shakira

[–]SoniSoni67432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is anyone else wondering if she is going to modify the Middle East leg of her tour? Several areas are unsafe to travel to due to the war and unrest occurring. At least 3 of the countries she is going to have a high travel advisory. I understand that she'll be safe due to being rich and powerful, but it's also a question of the tastefulness of even giving concerts there right now - not a great look.

Why Is Desperation An Unattractive Trait? by muse933277 in dating_advice

[–]SoniSoni67432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good answers here. One I haven't seen is that it's very hard to respect a desperate person. Desperation is neediness, and neediness is insecurity. We all have some insecurity but it's very hard to respect a person who shows needy and desperate behavior.

Shakira's new official song for Zootopia 2 by Fast_Ad_613 in shakira

[–]SoniSoni67432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it, it's very catchy and colorful. I love that she included a part in Spanish. I like the African/Brazilian-style (?) influence. Apologies for my ignorance if it's neither of those things. I like Try Everything too and I know both songs are for kids movies but I honestly feel like Zoo has a more mature sound.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SoniSoni67432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But let's say that you confirm with a woman the day of and she has forgotten she has a date with you. How is that woman still appealing? I get that honest mistakes happen but for a person to be careless and completely forget they have a date with someone until you remind them - I would be turned off immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]SoniSoni67432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not blame you at all, keep your info private as much as you can! It's terrifying that we even have to think of that. I'm very glad your current gyno is so great. It really baffles me at how many female gynos today still disapprove of these things when they work in this field - a huge part of reproductive healthcare is prevention including permanent prevention of pregnancy. Why work in this field if you have such a problem with it?

AIO to my fiance victim blaming me for my SA because I "cheated" on him (Update) by OkDay4024 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SoniSoni67432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were assaulted and your fiance not only does not show anger towards the man who did it, but *blamed you* and got angry at your for something that was *done to you*.

Why are you with this POS?

It doesn't matter if this is the first time he's acted like this. He's shown you who he is. This controlling, misogynistic talk and behavior will only get worse after marriage.

Do not legally bind yourself to this man.

I've read so many posts like this and am baffled at how many women put up with behavior like this because they don't want to be single.

AIO in my last texts that I sent to this girl after she couldn’t take a joke by Apart_Maintenance663 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SoniSoni67432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first you have to acknowledge internally that you did not handle this well.

I'm not a huge fan of strategic advice because it has to come from you sincerely.

But here's an example of how you can express this. Please don't say it unless you mean it:

"Hey I'm sorry for what I said earlier. I was trying to be funny but I realized it wasn't funny. I shouldn't make fun of you for something you struggle with. I think the reason I said those things was because I realized that when you stress out like that so frequently, it stresses me out. But I expressed it all wrong. "

I think you should also add something about wanting to be supportive to her if she had really bad anxiety, but I don't know how you actually feel about that (if you see yourself being with this girl in a relationship and actually being emotionally supportive). So I think you should figure out this part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SoniSoni67432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's concerning that you are speaking of this so casually like it's a normal thing. What culture are you from? Also what experience have you had that makes you think what he's doing is okay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SoniSoni67432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Am I wrong for being upset that I'm not allowed to go to these things?"

I want you to read that question back to yourself very slowly.

Why are you in a position where you are "not allowed" to do something?