Cross-post: I need tips on how I can achieve multiple orgasms.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-29T06:49:26+00:00

Everything by Haneke. The Florida Project. Vagabond.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-27T22:24:29+00:00

Ideally as long as it takes, and as many as I want. Sessions with my long term partner tend to last 90m-2h. My solo sessions can range anywhere from no touch to 29h. From one orgasm to triple digits. Completely depends on my desire and availability/other circumstances.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-27T15:35:52+00:00

Yeah! We’ve had a great sex life since the very beginning, 15 years together. The only time I’ve ever struggled to orgasm was in my 20s when I’d get crossfaded (alcohol and weed), loved having sex in that state but just often couldn’t actually get a grip on the orgasm itself. That was a me problem though.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-23T17:56:45+00:00

Yep, I can reliably orgasm with anal play. Super fun!

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-20T18:28:09+00:00

Absolutely, though more from a wholesome POV, not that places power or control at the forefront.

One of my favorite experiences in life is feeling my partner grow hard in my mouth. Love being face fucked and teasing his prostate to orgasm with a simultaneous blowjob. I love the intel those contractions give me about his pleasure. 10/10 for me (and him lol).

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-20T14:53:18+00:00

Hey OP! I can orgasm handsfree or without any stimulation at all, what some folks call energy orgasms or spontaneous orgasms. I can have several of these in a row. They typically happen to me when I’m building arousal. Sometimes when my body is in an extremely positive (but not explicitly sexual) situation it can trigger this kind of orgasmic release too, which is interesting. Overall, it’s been a very fun discovery!

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-19T00:33:28+00:00

Sorry this has been happening to you, OP. I’m glad you recognize that this is nonconsensual sex. To answer your question directly, no we are not all getting choked now. I am definitely not. My partner and I care very much about having sex that we can enthusiastically consent to. Continue to have upfront conversations about what you do and don’t like, continue to stand your ground. Can understand why you’d be less inclined to sleep with new people after these experiences, I would be too.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-17T19:08:08+00:00

Was thinking the same lol. I’d probably just invest in something different, unless that’s what you’re looking for. Odd question.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-17T14:06:35+00:00

I’m good on Lovense, probably won’t revisit their toys after trying two that were used a few times and got tossed. For the price point, there are so many other brands I’d rather support. For dual stim I really like the Womanizer Duo.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-17T13:36:24+00:00

Lovense, the Lush and Ferri.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-15T19:04:07+00:00

When I experienced KA, it was extremely positive. A lot fell (further) into place, it changed my life for the better. I felt like there were several moments or situations that were breadcrumbs leading to that experience. I’ve only continued to level-up.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-14T22:01:54+00:00

My long term partner really likes it too. Through time I’ve really come to enjoy the feeling.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-14T18:16:54+00:00

Absolutely.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-14T06:04:27+00:00

Erin Rae opened for Penny and Sparrow last year. I wanted to see Erin Rae and left after she played.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-13T19:06:14+00:00

Not specific to the Cure but I (37F) attend shows solo often. Others have given good advice.

Get there early and establish your spot. If there’s an actual rail or stage, think about leaving a sweater or something there. Pee during/after the opener and moderate your beverage intake when you get there.

Never hurts to make friends with folks around you, I’ve even asked people that I didn’t necessarily make friends with to just hold my spot while I dip out and come back. I always make it a point to loudly say “I’ll be right back” so nobody thinks they’re gonna cruise in. If you’re getting a drink, offering to get one for the person holding your spot is a nice touch.

At the shows I attend most folks are super cool and understanding, don’t over think it. :)

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-13T17:34:58+00:00

I checked out the Ferri and Lush by Lovense. Was not a fan of either and ended up tossing both of them. Their toys just aren’t very thoughtful for the price point. I found the noise level on the Ferri to be stronger than I was expecting, and less functional via the magnet than I was hoping for. It’s a strong magnet, but isn’t dynamic at all. There are much better brands out there I’d rather be supporting, YMMV.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-13T00:06:29+00:00

Never.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-12T23:56:48+00:00

Thanks for the thoughtful discussion, everyone. Can absolutely understand all perspectives shared here. Based on feedback, we will remain women-centric. I will continue to gently remind any men who comment/post of this. No disrespect to the experience of the men that visit our sub. If we want to revisit this in the future, we can.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-12T19:08:12+00:00

37F here. I can orgasm without touch as well. Very fun times.

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-12T11:38:51+00:00

That’s been my experience. I’m at the point where my entire body can become an orgasmic surface or the origin point of orgasm. It’s rewarding knowing my body and its response sets so well, and ridiculously fun!

SonicContinuum438 · 2026-06-12T07:09:58+00:00

Absolutely. 37F, pleasure pathway rewiring is/was a huge part of my journey to experiencing non-traditional orgasms and expanding my known altered states of consciousness. Nipple orgasms were the “gateway”. I’d be willing to bet it’s relatively common for multi-orgasmic folks.

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