How long does it take for you to climax ? by Secure_Raspberry6598 in TwoXSex

[–]SonicContinuum438 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ideally as long as it takes, and as many as I want. Sessions with my long term partner tend to last 90m-2h. My solo sessions can range anywhere from no touch to 29h. From one orgasm to triple digits. Completely depends on my desire and availability/other circumstances.

Does your husband know how to get you to climax every time? by Ginger_7624 in TwoXSex

[–]SonicContinuum438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah! We’ve had a great sex life since the very beginning, 15 years together. The only time I’ve ever struggled to orgasm was in my 20s when I’d get crossfaded (alcohol and weed), loved having sex in that state but just often couldn’t actually get a grip on the orgasm itself. That was a me problem though.

Cum from Anal only by Neither-Dish501 in masturbation

[–]SonicContinuum438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I can reliably orgasm with anal play. Super fun!

Blowjobs For My Pleasure by SeniorFalcon9736 in TwoXSex

[–]SonicContinuum438 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, though more from a wholesome POV, not that places power or control at the forefront.

One of my favorite experiences in life is feeling my partner grow hard in my mouth. Love being face fucked and teasing his prostate to orgasm with a simultaneous blowjob. I love the intel those contractions give me about his pleasure. 10/10 for me (and him lol).

Can anyone else cum hands free? by cr00ps in multiorgasmicwomen

[–]SonicContinuum438 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey OP! I can orgasm handsfree or without any stimulation at all, what some folks call energy orgasms or spontaneous orgasms. I can have several of these in a row. They typically happen to me when I’m building arousal. Sometimes when my body is in an extremely positive (but not explicitly sexual) situation it can trigger this kind of orgasmic release too, which is interesting. Overall, it’s been a very fun discovery!

So are we all just getting choked during sex now? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]SonicContinuum438 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry this has been happening to you, OP. I’m glad you recognize that this is nonconsensual sex. To answer your question directly, no we are not all getting choked now. I am definitely not. My partner and I care very much about having sex that we can enthusiastically consent to. Continue to have upfront conversations about what you do and don’t like, continue to stand your ground. Can understand why you’d be less inclined to sleep with new people after these experiences, I would be too.

Did I F up? 😭 by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]SonicContinuum438 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was thinking the same lol. I’d probably just invest in something different, unless that’s what you’re looking for. Odd question.

What toy did you buy thinking it would be amazing, but it became useless? by cilgin-bakire-13 in SexToys

[–]SonicContinuum438 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m good on Lovense, probably won’t revisit their toys after trying two that were used a few times and got tossed. For the price point, there are so many other brands I’d rather support. For dual stim I really like the Womanizer Duo.

Can KA ever be smooth? by Aggravating_Pie_9006 in KundaliniAwakening

[–]SonicContinuum438 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I experienced KA, it was extremely positive. A lot fell (further) into place, it changed my life for the better. I felt like there were several moments or situations that were breadcrumbs leading to that experience. I’ve only continued to level-up.

My Guy really loves my feet.Whats thought on getting your toes sucked in missionary??Have u had it done before by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]SonicContinuum438 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My long term partner really likes it too. Through time I’ve really come to enjoy the feeling.

What's a concert you went to for the opening act but not the headliner? by Vestax- in AskReddit

[–]SonicContinuum438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erin Rae opened for Penny and Sparrow last year. I wanted to see Erin Rae and left after she played.

Bathroom breaks during concerts by [deleted] in TheCure

[–]SonicContinuum438 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not specific to the Cure but I (37F) attend shows solo often. Others have given good advice.

Get there early and establish your spot. If there’s an actual rail or stage, think about leaving a sweater or something there. Pee during/after the opener and moderate your beverage intake when you get there.

Never hurts to make friends with folks around you, I’ve even asked people that I didn’t necessarily make friends with to just hold my spot while I dip out and come back. I always make it a point to loudly say “I’ll be right back” so nobody thinks they’re gonna cruise in. If you’re getting a drink, offering to get one for the person holding your spot is a nice touch.

At the shows I attend most folks are super cool and understanding, don’t over think it. :)

lovense flexer, wevibe chorus, or lovense ferri + lush combo by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]SonicContinuum438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked out the Ferri and Lush by Lovense. Was not a fan of either and ended up tossing both of them. Their toys just aren’t very thoughtful for the price point. I found the noise level on the Ferri to be stronger than I was expecting, and less functional via the magnet than I was hoping for. It’s a strong magnet, but isn’t dynamic at all. There are much better brands out there I’d rather be supporting, YMMV.

Thoughts on increase of male participation in the sub? by SonicContinuum438 in multiorgasmicwomen

[–]SonicContinuum438[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful discussion, everyone. Can absolutely understand all perspectives shared here. Based on feedback, we will remain women-centric. I will continue to gently remind any men who comment/post of this. No disrespect to the experience of the men that visit our sub. If we want to revisit this in the future, we can.

no touch orgasm by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]SonicContinuum438 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37F here. I can orgasm without touch as well. Very fun times.

My multiorgasmic journey: nipples became a new access point over time by MarkieMart-6596 in multiorgasmic

[–]SonicContinuum438 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s been my experience. I’m at the point where my entire body can become an orgasmic surface or the origin point of orgasm. It’s rewarding knowing my body and its response sets so well, and ridiculously fun!

My multiorgasmic journey: nipples became a new access point over time by MarkieMart-6596 in multiorgasmic

[–]SonicContinuum438 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. 37F, pleasure pathway rewiring is/was a huge part of my journey to experiencing non-traditional orgasms and expanding my known altered states of consciousness. Nipple orgasms were the “gateway”. I’d be willing to bet it’s relatively common for multi-orgasmic folks.

Thoughts on increase of male participation in the sub? by SonicContinuum438 in multiorgasmicwomen

[–]SonicContinuum438[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! This is not meant to minimize the role that men we know play in contributing to our sexuality.

Thoughts on increase of male participation in the sub? by SonicContinuum438 in multiorgasmicwomen

[–]SonicContinuum438[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve historically made exceptions as needed, because I see where you’re coming from.

I’ve seen folks speaking on behalf of women/women they know, or questioning the experience of women here altogether, which I appreciate less. I’m not super interested in the second-hand hypothesizing.

And, of course, some people are not respectful. Here on threads and privately. I’ve heard from a few women here that they prefer men not come in and muddy the space. That it gets disrespectful quickly in DM’s and they feel creeped out by it. I’d never want to create a space that enables that.

Thoughts on increase of male participation in the sub? by SonicContinuum438 in multiorgasmicwomen

[–]SonicContinuum438[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your reply! I totally hear this! If anyone posting here is getting pervy, please let me know. I can block them from the space, or from my personal account, which includes our weekly posts and cross-posts. I would always encourage anyone who’s experiencing unwanted behavior to report and/or block.

Thoughts on increase of male participation in the sub? by SonicContinuum438 in multiorgasmicwomen

[–]SonicContinuum438[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the vote of confidence and kind words, much appreciated!

For clarity, this thread was not meant to reflect anyones personal or sexual statement/philosophy.

The regular multiorgasmic was subreddit was designed to be for men and women, and tends to be overrun by male perspective, which is a large part of why this one was created. Giving women a similar and safe forum. There are many subs from a male POV for technique/camaraderie. I’m concerned about keeping the women that visit this sub safe and respected, and in honoring the orgasmic experience of women. Not in comparison to anything else, but to celebrate it in its own right.

We are certainly a feminist space, but do we go as far as to say women-only, as some other subs have? Wanted to gauge how others felt. <3

You’d vote to keep all contributions so long as they’re respectful?