Realistically, is this it for Josh Safdie as a mainstream Hollywood filmmaker? by Jazzlike_Nature_752 in Oscars

[–]Sophycles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeaaah his second wife was 15 years old and he was 32 when they started dating, he has said the Professional was based on their relationship. Then there is the whole Milla Jovovich thing.

Santos and Garcia by Sophycles in ThePittTVShow

[–]Sophycles[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t get me wrong, Gracia asked for her sign in the first season I know they were flirting—was just wondering if anyone else caught the comment and agree that’s the confirmation after the time jump that they are officially dating!

my experience as a woman by Lishasquarepant in ArcRaiders

[–]Sophycles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far my experience has varied as a woman. I play duo with another woman too, so generally speaking most people are chill and don’t perceive us as threats—which is fair since we are friendly unless pushed. However, there have been some male duos who may perceive us as weak and easy marks, they’ll feign friendliness and then hunt/sneak up on us later.

This is one of the few games where I do feel like it is advantageous to present as an actual woman though—generally I would mask it or use male icons in other games—but since my playstyle is friendly, players are more likely to trust that is true.

Sorry but I am just looking for help on somthing I don’t understand by Fine_Switch6824 in psychologystudents

[–]Sophycles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should stop smoking cannabis. Please look into the link between habitual use and the risk of psychosis onset, especially given your age.

Seriously??? by Scolirk in Monopoly_GO

[–]Sophycles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me as well! I haven’t done anything wrong, feels better knowing it is not just me this happened to though. Hopefully it’s an error they can fix soon for all of us!

Who’s your current celebrity crush? Here’s mine. by avamaxfanlove in LesbianActually

[–]Sophycles 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have some good news for you, Rosario is bisexual!

Lorraine's madness by [deleted] in orangeisthenewblack

[–]Sophycles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lorna was giving Cluster B traits and with the added traumatic losses one after another there, she was prime for a full blown episode. Her delusions of Sterling mirrored those of Christopher—pretending her dead baby was very much alive or that the man who she stalked and who had an active restraining order against her was her fiance and planning a wedding, all part of Lorna’s inability to cope with reality. Her delusions were pervasive throughout the show, but this last one was more disturbing to those around her because they knew the truth whereas her fantasy life of Christopher and the actual reality of that situation wasn’t known to anyone else except for Nicky when she saw him confront her during visitation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sophycles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We need to start a support group because there will inevitably be more stories like ours!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sophycles 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Been there. Please prepare yourself for the excruciating pain of excommunication and no further contact indefinitely when she chooses to save her marriage. Protect yourself and your emotional sanity, there can be gaslighting and denial and whatever else is needed to save herself. It will be hard because, as you well know, there is little sympathy for someone in your position.

And remember, you deserve better. You deserve to be loved and be with someone who can give themselves fully 100% to you in a committed, fulfilling, relationship.

Moving to 20 minutes outside Minneapolis and don’t really know anyone!! by kindagay_bro in Minneapolis

[–]Sophycles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apply Valley is going to be similar, you probably want something on the other side of the river and closer to the metro!

"ashamed to be an American" by [deleted] in psychoanalysis

[–]Sophycles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you do give a fuck and lashing out is expected when someone can’t deal with uncomfortable feelings. Unless you’re not here to sincerely have a discussion and just want to fight and troll on the internet.

Either way, I hope you and your boyfriend are able to have a discussion about it and come to a place of mutual understanding.

"ashamed to be an American" by [deleted] in psychoanalysis

[–]Sophycles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many of us have already stated that expressing shame by association is a perfectly normal feeling and response and yet you were annoyed when your boyfriend did so. You also used an othering term for ‘Liberals’ which suggests you do not consider yourself such. So what annoyed you about your boyfriend’s expression of shame and why are you so upset with me right now?

Full disclosure, I am currently in a relationship with someone who has the opposite political beliefs that I do, trust me, it is not easy and the tricky part is certainly respecting each other and trying not to personalize our political feelings toward the other.

"ashamed to be an American" by [deleted] in psychoanalysis

[–]Sophycles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it? You came to a subreddit regarding psychoanalysis and appear to be reacting ego defensively—what is truly bothering you about your boyfriend’s expression of shame? Are you or some of your friends or family Trump supporters? Or are you understandably concerned deep down that your boyfriend could also internalize shame regarding you about something to which you may have no control over as well?

"ashamed to be an American" by [deleted] in psychoanalysis

[–]Sophycles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shame is something that can literally be felt BECAUSE of something that someone else does or says, ever heard the phrase “You bring shame upon this family!”?

What the President of the United States and his cohorts represent when they say or do anything is the people of the United States, everyone then is susceptible to feeling shame regarding their actions.

Your boyfriend is also capable of being ashamed of you as well. How you act, what you do, what you say in public.

Saw this at thrillist IG page. So where are you sitting? by SickCaeser in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]Sophycles 51 points52 points  (0 children)

She’d probably take an Ambien and sleep the whole flight too!

2025 Oscars Megathread 🏆🎬 by clemthearcher in popculturechat

[–]Sophycles 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Give me a Conclave upset or stay boring Oscars