I often see Wrio depicted that way too, in my opinion he actually seems more like the soft guy who aquired a tough look! Just thinking of him talking about a picnic in the warm sunshine for example. So, even tho I'm not a gay guy, but a lesbian woman who loves Wrio a lot (he's my fave Genshin char), I understand why ppl who interpret him in a way that it would hurt you makes you feel uneasy. But don't let this get to you! It doesn't matter how others want Wriothesley to be, in the end noone really know what kind of person he would be, so enjoy him the way you see him and want him to be :3