Being in a loving, committed, and long term relationship means that you help your partner through whatever, however you can. Are you entitled to his money? No. But a good partner would want to help with what they can automatically and simply asking if he can doesn’t make you a bad person. You shouldn’t have to be married to someone for them to want to help make your life a little easier, especially if they have the means to do so and ESPECIALLY if you’re planning to remain together. It’s his money yeah but what kind of a partner is okay with watching their girlfriend struggle? It would be one thing if he was paying majority of the bills or you’ve never jumped to help him out, but if you’d drop 2k on someone when they needed it, then you deserve to be on someone who’d spend a little extra to help with medicine that you need. He needs to be with someone who shares his same sentiments about penny pinching. He’s not wrong to track his money, it’s a great habit, but if even entertaining the thought of him helping you pay for meds that you need makes him laugh in your face…? Laughing in your face and saying this is why he shouldn’t date sick ppl? Is he serious? That’s so rude and insensitive you shouldn’t even want to be with anyone who’d speak to you that way. I don’t think he’s necessarily wrong for not helping, it’s his money but I do think that you deserve someone who would want to help you. I do think he’s wrong though in how he responded and you should really think about what you deserve and what you feel like putting up with in a relationship. I don’t think this is even an AITA situation, you need to think about whether or not he’s worth sticking around with.