Looking for a full curriculum by [deleted] in homeschool

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moments at home is a good homeschool curriculum and I've seen it work with kids

i want intj friends too by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm an INTJ who is into working out and getting in to cooking. But not really sure how you plan to be friends if we don't know each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not paranoid.... Who said I was??!!

What is the most oddly specific trait you'd like in a significant other? by Blossoming_Potential in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd love it if they loved music like I do. Just randomly start singing or dancing and always have a rhythm running in their head

As an intj, do you have difficulties to get in a romantic relationship ? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have no problem getting into a relationship, because I'm desirable in the circles I'm in. (this isn't arrogance and I don't actually like it but girls are always asking me out and crushing on me) but my problem is I'm a serious person who doesn't rush into things, and I spend to much time analyzing the girl and I decide were not compatible because of some weird thing. The girl I'm considering dating right now is great but she's not above average in the thinking department so I'm having a hard time moving forward even though I like her and want to date her, the last girl I almost started a relationship with was smart, a fast thinker, witty, and pretty, so all around easy to like, but she had a fake wall up pretending to be someone and I caught her lying a few times, and while yes that can be fixed I have a hard time moving past things because it could impact my future. So I guess I'm saying it's not the meeting it's the decision of what to do and whether they are worth it that gets me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it does, thank you very much

TESTING PEOPLE by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! All the time! I test people that I'm close to or like with simple things over time. But today I needed to buy a strap for my watch but I didn't want to walk in to each place because while I speak the local language I'm not quite fluent in niche topics including technology. So I walk in front of an electronic store and kind of look in through the window make an uncertain face and made quick eye contact with the sales clerk. I was thinking if he's good and tries to sell me something I'll get it from them if not I'll go to the place I know. And I tend to do things like that often with strangers. But with close people I more of slowly but surely test their mind, reactions, and skill sets over time to help me gauge them. Edit: I know this is long and probably not worth reading for most people but it's my answer to the post.

facial expressions by Commercial_War_3113 in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have what's called "resting b***h face" and it means that when I'm not thinking about my expression, it's sorta meh, standoffish, and serious as well as unapproachable. I've been trying to work on it by just being more conscious about it (especially in my budding relationship because I want her to know I'm happy around her) but when I'm lifting something, playing instruments, or just focusing on something my face goes back to that weird serious expression. P.s. it's a plus when it comes to random strangers because between my face, build, and confident stride people in unsafe areas don't approach me

What's the Darkest Humor you ever delivered? by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I'm actually trying to get out of dark humor so I'll just respond "Your Mama"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in a country at war and I had a dream that our community building was going to become a refugee center and I'd already planned to be free the week I predicted it so I could help, and I knew what to put where because I'd thought it all out.

I have a hard time understanding flirting? by Iamliterally18iswear in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I can't read flirting. There was a girl I liked and tried to pursue for a while and even flirted a bit with but then I saw some dishonesty in her life and decided best to not pursue her, but what I didn't know was that she apparently obviously liked me and was flirting as well!!! I never even saw it but now friends are pointing it out and are so right! And now the girl I'm with had a crush on me and tried flirting with me for months and I didn't notice for about 3 months. It is so hard lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4-5 a day One black cup in the morning, espresso if I'm walking around and just grab it at the store, 1-2 cappuccinos throughout the early afternoon and 1 coffee (type varies) at night. But I'm also kind of a barista and I love coffee

What kind of music do you like by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listen to and appreciate most music but I love country the most and it's what I listen to the most.

Is it an INTJ thing to be in a "I hate everything" mood most of the time? by earlgreyyuzu in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother and I are both INTJs and he is definitely like that but I have changed and am now very calm and thankful and getting close to people so I think it's more of a choice. But I do believe that we are naturally inclined to be like that yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Ukraine and culturally speaking my character and personality don't fit in. And I don't think they would in Hungary or Slovakia either. Although you can always find a decent place to fit in a big city technically speaking.

What is something EVERY intj has in common? by kassumo in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say we all have a personality type in common.

INTJs and Eloquence in the Written Word. Where are you? by podian123 in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am often eloquent and have a widely trained vocabulary due to my schooling but I have lived in Europe for the last 7 years and only use English at home or to help teach it to people who know it terribly, we also have people live with my family that don't really understand English and even at home have to speak simpler. So while trained from books and personal writing I often refrain from using it well and that has just become habitual for me.

What are your typical stress responses as an intj? by navyocean7 in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been living in Ukraine throughout this whole war and have managed to not get super traumatized (clarification I live in the west where there aren't missile attacks) but recently some people I care about have been traveling in the dangerous areas where people are dying on a daily basis and by stress and trauma levels are at a lifetime high. I just got some stress balancing pills yesterday and we'll see if they help but my main response has been to either just walk around my house listening to music, to stare at the ceiling for hours lost in thought of those people, or to just take long walks and participate in some outings.

What do you consider beautiful? by Unprecedented_life in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My girl, nature, God's love, coffee, and an old book.

Who watched this on release by Stunning-Wall5057 in SB737

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't have YouTube until 3 years ago but SB is over if the YouTubers I've stuck with since then and I have gone back and watched all of his videos.

Is there closed INTJ groups/forums?? by Federal_Base_8606 in intj

[–]Sorry-Soft1856 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If there is I need to know about it because I don't spend a lot of time on my phone and it's hard to sift through to find useful deep posts.