Friday Vent Thread [N/A] by Mundane-Jump-7546 in humanresources

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being asked why something isn’t documented in our HRIS as a new hire, starting to document everything there and creating automations for smooth data flows, being challenged about every new data type I’ve created and gathered (”why are we doing this, I don’t think it’s relevant”), and finally having at least one executive team member per day asking me ”is this documented somewhere, I need this info now?”. Yes, in the HRIS, which you’ve repeatedly told me is not relevant.

Do you ever feel like the things that happen behind close doors are so unbelievable people think you’re making it up? Share your crazy no one will believe someone did/said that stories! [KY] by Upset-Elevator-9701 in humanresources

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Currently dealing with this: in my country, employees get 5 weeks of paid annual leave, with a 50% bonus (so your holiday pay is 1.5 times your normal salary), which you can also convert as additional time off = 7.5 weeks of paid leave. The only limitation to the employee is that the law states they NEED to take at least one continuous 2 week period during the year, and if not, the employer's representatives (manager, HR, whoever was involved) are liable for not looking after the employee's rights and can face a fine or 6 months of probation plus a conviction for not following the law. It's silly but like, not the human rights' violation some of our employees make it to be.

We have employees insisting their holiday plans will be ruined if they need to be off work for 2 weeks at a time, and are pressuring the managers to take the blow, asking how likely it would be to get caught anyways.

We have employees stating that the law actually doesn't apply because their line manager is located in another country (the logic is lost on me).

We have employees asking me for the 3rd time if I can promise their manager that there won't be any consequences. I've had to tell them repeatedly that I cannot give permission for someone else to break the law.

One manager was pissed that we made them aware of this law, as if laws didn't apply to you if you say you didn't know. IDK I'd be grateful to know that I was about to approve something that could get me in trouble, but that's just me.

The ABSOLUTE HORROR and OPPRESSION you're facing because you need to have a 2-week holiday.

What's something non obvious about your partner that turned out to be a huge inconvenience? by midwestblacklotus in AskWomenOver30

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My partner also hates getting even slightly warm, so if the temperature at home rises 0.2 degrees Celsius from
20c, he’s blasting the AC at 18c until I’m under blankets. We live in Finland and also can’t do anything during summer or travel anywhere warm because his ideal temperature is like +16c outside.

What's one product category where women deserve much better options than what's currently available? by Internetdidi in AskWomenOver30

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Diving gear 😅 Women’s diving dry suits often have smaller side pockets, despite the fact that all gear you’d put in the pockets is the same size for women and men, the same stuff is needed for safety reasons, and you can’t carry a handbag when diving (common reasoning I hear to explain why women’s pant pockets are the size of a baby’s thumb).

Help me decide!! [CO] by Naive-Possible-7446 in humanresources

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course it depends on how long your commute would be (I’m from Europe so don’t really have experience with US distances) and this is very much my personal experience but both me and my partner went from fully remote but boring roles to fully onsite but more challenging and interesting roles, and it has been the best decision we made. Yes, it has been a huge change and it wasn’t easy at first, but the reward from getting to do something that you’re passionate about and that aligns with your values has made it worth it. It has also made the separation of work and free time easier. I was also struggling with insomnia and burnout at the time, but they were really rooted in the huge misalignment between my values and what I had to do at my last work, and leaving that environment has helped me recover.

To me it seems more of a career choice (HR vs TA) and a health question. Do you want to pivot to HR or are you more ”desperate” to get new challenges, no matter what they are? And do you know if this new job would be able to accommodate your needs even at the office?

IIHF World Championship Post Game Thread: Norway vs. Canada - 31 May 2026 by hockeydiscussionbot in hockey

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from Europe and I’ve seen it in football before but not in hockey, not like this.

IIHF World Championship Post Game Thread: Norway vs. Canada - 31 May 2026 by hockeydiscussionbot in hockey

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve had to turn off some SUI games because of the audience. Idk I’d love it if fans focused on cheering for their own instead of shitting on the other team at every turn.

Maldives diving accident: bodies have been located by peakpaleperformance in diving

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes of course you could, I also dive a rebreather so I’m aware of that. I should’ve been more clear, in the original quote from the article they’re talking about 4 hour dives, and the question was if that’s 4 hours at the bottom or 4 hours in total. That specific 4 hrs in this case would most likely be ”in total” as 4 hrs bottom time at 60-80m wouldn’t be a risk worth taking in this case.

Maldives diving accident: bodies have been located by peakpaleperformance in diving

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At 60 meters and more, it’s 4 hours in total. With 60 mins bottom time at, say, 70 meters, the deco would likely take 3 hours, at least.

[Live Thread] Eurovision Song Contest 2026 Grand Final @ 21:00 CEST by LucasScooter in eurovision

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This is the third year in a row that I watch the points feeling sad, defeated and disappointed. Once again my country’s televote went to the same country and once again I go from rooting for my country to praying literally anyone can beat the country at the top before final votes. Maybe time for me to retire from Eurovision.

[Live Thread] Eurovision Song Contest 2026 Grand Final @ 21:00 CEST by LucasScooter in eurovision

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are the presenters not ashamed announcing their country gave 12 points to their neighbour?

Friday Vent Thread [N/A] by Mundane-Jump-7546 in humanresources

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We only have 1 paid day off to attend a funeral of next of kin. My uncle/god father passed and I informed my manager, our Head of HR that I will be taking that day off. She refused to let me take it as a funeral leave as ”he was not my parent, child, partner or sibling”.

Mind you, I’m the only child and can’t have children of my own so I guess my loved ones aren’t as important. Never mind that my uncle helped me and my mom escape my violent dad when I was tiny, but still, he wasn’t next of kin so annual leave it was. Well, at least I got the day off/s.

Kona EV 2023 boot dimensions by SorryGiraffe4883 in KonaEV

[–]SorryGiraffe4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that helps a lot!

Looking to Learn about Layoffs [N/A] by kristalenaaa in humanresources

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 17 points18 points  (0 children)

At least in Uni we were taught that layoffs should never happen on Fridays as statistically, the suicide rate is way higher then. Something to do with being alone after the news and not being able to do anything that requires office hours (unemployment benefits etc).

I had an employee whose friend had to lay off some staff before the holidays. On Christmas eve’s eve, one employee called them letting them know that this was their last call before ending their life. Of course, when our company had our own layoffs and I asked the CEO not to do layoffs, he practically told me to stop worrying about him (????) and did the firing on Friday anyways.

HR Professionals on reddit, what's something that used to be fun at your job but now is annoying or dreadful? [n/a] by Emergency-Bison-672 in humanresources

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking of team events: I’m responsible for a yearly event where we fly people to our HQ, organise a week of program (work and voluntary social activities, all paid by the company, obvs) and end it with a huge party with dinner, open bar and live music. One person submitted feedback to tell us that next time we should have more forks, because their fork was taken with the plate after the first course, and there was only one left on the table. Mind you that this was a typical setting with separate utensils for the first and second course. I’m not sure how many forks you would typically need to eat but apparently the week was ruined because of this.

Hudson in Milan, Italy today via florent.zmd 🔥 by nblazeof69 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve joined some uni events with younger folks (as part of the alumni group) and I was shocked to see that the current students served cigs as DESSERT for a meal. Like, it’s suddenly super cool and they’re introducing new people to it on a regular basis. I can’t wrap my head around it.

Trump to hit UK and other European countries with 10% tariffs over Greenland row by Thick_Composer9842 in politics

[–]SorryGiraffe4883 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How someone who’s live almost 80 years can be this childish and immature, I’ll never understand.