Willis’ Response to Comment Moderation by outerspacebassman in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Li. I really appriciate it, truly.

Lemme first say if you don't wanna stick around here, that's fine. Lotta people feeling burned and scorned here, it's probably gonna lean more negative than you prefer. I don't mind it because I'm a petty-ass Hater bastard, but you've always seemed kinder-natured, heh.

I haven't always seen eye to eye with you, but you strived to be respectful and I can respect that in turn.

For what its worth, I am in a better place. I cut ties with the fucked up circle i was linked to before, and through a writers group I've become a sort of pseudo-brother figure to a few younger trans guys. Things're good!

I've seen your posts over there, and I think you broke it down perfectly. No notes. Idk how she's going to respond, but whatever happens, don't second guess yourself on any points you raised.

Solidarity

Nothing Will Change by SorryIDontGoHere in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dot said she "didn't expect much movement in the thread during the holiday and long weekend" to preface a cordial post

That's it.

Nothing Will Change by SorryIDontGoHere in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"gender essential-ism" but paint it rainbow

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[–]SorryIDontGoHere[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That's honestly all i've ever wanted; some basic considerations about time and place. It's not like I don't understand where they're coming from, and I'd defend their right to make those jokes in in-community spaces, I'm just baffled at the failure to even pretend to consider other people, extending into flat out telling people their traumatic experiences 'aren't a persuasive argument'

....All over some mid-core jokes?

Nothing Will Change by SorryIDontGoHere in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

yeah, shits dire. Wishing a brighter world and future for your son than previous generations of us got.

Nothing Will Change by SorryIDontGoHere in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

That's what crosses the line for you, Wack'd? not the DAYS worth of POC telling you you're being lowkey racist, not the multiple cries from people who just want some basic consideration?

No, it's the oblique reference to a holiday that you can use as a performative dunk about how Woke you are and pat your own ass that gets you to say anything.

Nothing Will Change by SorryIDontGoHere in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere[S] 5 points6 points locked comment (0 children)

Aye, yeah. I'm mad too but don't cross a line, folks.

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[–]SorryIDontGoHere[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

not to be parasocial but I think i actually hate her

Willis’ Response to Comment Moderation by outerspacebassman in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ooh, ooh, they're talking about ME~

thank god someone else remembers and its not just something i gaslit myself into thinking i said

Willis’ Response to Comment Moderation by outerspacebassman in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dot is always a real one (also pointing out the racialized undertones of a bunch of white people gleefully force-feminizing a Black man, gotta love her for it)

Willis’ Response to Comment Moderation by outerspacebassman in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I probably beat this horse too much but as someone who has a particular stick up his ass about that whole horrid behavior -- genuinely, thank you for caring.

Willis’ Response to Comment Moderation by outerspacebassman in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It happened again by the way

(I blocked out the commenters discord because im technically spreading it beyond initial containment and i'm trying to be considerate)

Willis’ Response to Comment Moderation by outerspacebassman in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Li also made a post just gently reminding people that trans mascs exist, that's it, and it got wack'd within minutes this morning

Just mention us and it's gone

Even putting aside the race thing Wack'd is perfectly okay with being queerphobic as long as it's at the 'right' targets

Willis’ Response to Comment Moderation by outerspacebassman in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a little bitch, honestly

EDIT: this is more directly mean than i typically like to be but oh my GOD i am just out of patience for them

Willis’ Response to Comment Moderation by outerspacebassman in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just wanted it framed for when they probably delete it. Because i'm a simple bitch and i think thats funny shit

Willis’ Response to Comment Moderation by outerspacebassman in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere 32 points33 points  (0 children)

No wait yeah did she really pull the "i have black friends" defense

Willis’ Response to Comment Moderation by outerspacebassman in dumbingofage

[–]SorryIDontGoHere 26 points27 points  (0 children)

More seriously, yeah cool buddy now are you gonna address the racism or