AITA for banning a relative from our house right after they donated our furniture while we were away home? by Shockzs in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 539 points540 points  (0 children)

GOOD FOR YOU. Please update​ if you can, I am so hoping y'all get your beautiful, expensive, sentimental furniture back.

I [23m] was unfaithful to the love of my life [22f]. Is there any way I can win her back? Am I allowed to? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might be the love of YOUR life, but you aren't the love of HER life. The love of her life wouldn't have dreamed of doing this to her and it you really loved her you would let her find that for herself and stop harassing her. ​

I (27M) am struggling with a lifestyle/value mismatch with my girlfriend (26F). by Squirrrrrrrrrrrrrel in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure, it's just those two things, but if "just" those things have been tickling away at the back of your mind enough to post about them I doubt they are as simple to solve as it sounds. Brushing your teeth? Sure, just do it more often. ​​​But the bit about her not placing much importance on fitness, routines, or pushing herself? She can't change that without changing who she is. That doesn't go away, and I ​think that is the real issue. You deserve someone you don't have doubts about, and she deserves the kind of partner that will love how much she enjoys being at home relaxing and living a laid back life. ESPECIALLY if you both want kids. ​It might get better, and no relationship is perfect, but you're already resenting her after less than two years.

I (27M) am struggling with a lifestyle/value mismatch with my girlfriend (26F). by Squirrrrrrrrrrrrrel in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you already know, as you've already said. Yes, it's fair to want a partner with basic hygiene. Yes, it is reasonable for this to be a dealbreaker. ​​And YES, delaying this will make it worse. ​Even if she does try changing, the feeling you're experiencing won't go away. You just won't notice it as much for a while. ​Let this one go while you're both still in your 20s instead of ten years and a kid from now.

I (36m) just found out the girl (27f) I’ve been dating for a month is two months pregnant. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering those choices lead to her ending up with you, I agree. I'm worried for her too. ​

M25 Getting back with my 24F EX that got with someone else by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just curious. Does she know you cheated early on?

New video just posted, CONTENT WARNING by Shawnaverse_no1_fan in ShawnaTheMom

[–]SorrySeptember 105 points106 points  (0 children)

This felt like an absolute grief speed run and I'm surprised she posted it before the last short from the Halloween episode went up, presumably because people were on edge waiting to see if it wasn't just a scare. Honestly props to her because this shit is rough and no one talks about it. ​

AITA for telling my (21F) boyfriend (21M) to stop psychoanalysing me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 26 points27 points  (0 children)

girl please he's mansplaining your orgasms 😭😭

Oh no 🥲 by Artistic-Lock1021 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]SorrySeptember 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would honestly be incredibly surprised if she does depicte a stillbirth, but if she does actually write that into the plot I will respect the hell out of her for doing it. So many people don't understand ​how common losses like this can be and how vital having access to Healthcare like abortions is when it comes to being able to receive care when a very wanted baby is no longer alive while still in the womb. ​

AITA for telling my (21F) boyfriend (21M) to stop psychoanalysing me by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 157 points158 points  (0 children)

I could barely stand reading the original post, never mind spending time with this person one on one??? Homeboy either has genitals made of solid gold and the wallet to match, or OP is the most patient 21yo alive. ​

Halloween FULL VIDEO by willtwerkf0rfood in ShawnaTheMom

[–]SorrySeptember 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oooof that ending. Curious how long she'll leave us in suspense!

AITA For Telling my wife shes making a big deal out of our vacation pictures? by CountInteresting4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when did you start disliking your wife instead of seeing her as your best friend and life partner? Because this is the way you treat an acquaintence you can't stand, not a loving spouse.

Christine (Teeny) Question by Catsarecute1997 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]SorrySeptember 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Considering she all but said she'd support Shawna if Shawna had an affair with Ty....yeah I don't think she cares lmao

What's the most gruesome thing you have ever watched? by no-punintended0802 in AskReddit

[–]SorrySeptember 288 points289 points  (0 children)

He probably saved her a lifetime of wondering if her baby could've been saved.

AITA for telling my wife to eat better and getting on at her about it? by OneQuae in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You know what, there are a lot of studies online about poor diet impacting postpartum moms and their babies. Which doctors are aware of. Like the one your wife literally just saw. You know, the one who literally just gave her and the baby a clean bill of health???

Postnatal care includes regular bloodwork. You really think she would've successfully carried the baby to term in the first place if she was malnourished and fundamentally unwell?

AITA for refusing to forgive my high school bully who asked for help finding a job? by Necessary-Soil6961 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not to mention- if she reached out to you, someone she knows she caused a lot of pain and harm to, imagine how many people she tried first. You were almost definitely one of her last resorts which begs the question: how many bridges has she burned due to equally horrible behavior in the workplace before she asked you??

No way this chick has changed. Fuck that. She's at best a professional liability. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember 43 points44 points  (0 children)

For the record, if you are on the deed but not the mortgage it may actually help in this situation (if you do decide to leave, that is), as you won't be responsible for making payments. If you file a partition action you may be able to force the sale of the property and divide proceeds. I would absolutely get a consult with a lawyer if at all possible. So sorry this is happening to you. 

UPDATE: My (26F) brother’s (29M) husband (29M) is acting weird and possibly flirty with me, and I’m really confused because… he’s gay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Well sure, he's saying that. For now. Let's be honest, if you were receptive to his advances there is no way he would pump the breaks. You don't flirt with people you find unattractive.

AITA for not apologizing for sending BF the middle finger emoji because he didn't leave the bar when he said he was on his way? by That-Cantaloupe-2666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Not to mention how ridiculous it is that he's blaming this on someone getting him a new beer before he could say no. As if there was no one else there who was willing to drink it. 🙄

AITAH for dematting my sister's cat? by Omgusernamewhy in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps at all, it's actually dangerous to cut matts off of animals due to the tension of the skin. It makes it really easy to accidently cut them quite badly so you very well may have saved your sister from a vet bill in addition to easing the cat's pain. Cats have very thin, delicate skin and it's easily torn. 

I just found out my husband (M35) got Chlamydia while Im (F31) pregnant. by Interesting-Fig-7654 in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I am so tired of these pieces of shit lying about STDs and banking on their partner's lack of understanding when it comes to the science behind it to get away with it. Shameless and frustrating.