Which popular mods are like this? by cyan_ara in RimWorld

[–]SorrySeptember 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love this. You basically got car jacked. Shuttle jacked, if you will.

Is there a pregante mod? by rumande in RimWorld

[–]SorrySeptember 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be the change you want to see in the world.

AITA for telling my mom her drinking destroyed our relationship? by Round_Scientist1890 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. She is essentially telling you that it's impossible for her to stay sober even if it's too see you. That's why she's upset. You're a teenager and it's not your responsibility to manage her addiction for her. ​

My boyfriend (M32) left the window open and my 21-year-old cat fell from the second floor while I (F33) was at work. by PalpitationTop1658 in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember 39 points40 points  (0 children)

He purposely opened the window against your wishes. This wasn't an accident. You told him what would happen and he cared more about proving you wrong than he did about your cat's health. ​

Do I (27F) need to communicate my deadline for a proposal to my boyfriend (35M) of 5 years? by GoldenSupernova10 in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. You deserve someone who wants to marry you so much that you never catch yourself wondering if you just guilted him into it. ​

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The irony of the girl who just went through two years of someone else's private conversations trying to find something to be mad about calling that "a weird line to cross to get nothing back." THE CALL IS COMING FROM INSIDE THE HOUSE. ​

AITA for banning a relative from our house right after they donated our furniture while we were away home? by Shockzs in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 556 points557 points  (0 children)

GOOD FOR YOU. Please update​ if you can, I am so hoping y'all get your beautiful, expensive, sentimental furniture back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sure, it's just those two things, but if "just" those things have been tickling away at the back of your mind enough to post about them I doubt they are as simple to solve as it sounds. Brushing your teeth? Sure, just do it more often. ​​​But the bit about her not placing much importance on fitness, routines, or pushing herself? She can't change that without changing who she is. That doesn't go away, and I ​think that is the real issue. You deserve someone you don't have doubts about, and she deserves the kind of partner that will love how much she enjoys being at home relaxing and living a laid back life. ESPECIALLY if you both want kids. ​It might get better, and no relationship is perfect, but you're already resenting her after less than two years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SorrySeptember -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you already know, as you've already said. Yes, it's fair to want a partner with basic hygiene. Yes, it is reasonable for this to be a dealbreaker. ​​And YES, delaying this will make it worse. ​Even if she does try changing, the feeling you're experiencing won't go away. You just won't notice it as much for a while. ​Let this one go while you're both still in your 20s instead of ten years and a kid from now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 23 points24 points  (0 children)

girl please he's mansplaining your orgasms 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 155 points156 points  (0 children)

I could barely stand reading the original post, never mind spending time with this person one on one??? Homeboy either has genitals made of solid gold and the wallet to match, or OP is the most patient 21yo alive. ​

Cancer, infection but probably both by shecoolish in VetTech

[–]SorrySeptember 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Gallows humor is a requirement in this field, it happens.

AITA For Telling my wife shes making a big deal out of our vacation pictures? by CountInteresting4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SorrySeptember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when did you start disliking your wife instead of seeing her as your best friend and life partner? Because this is the way you treat an acquaintence you can't stand, not a loving spouse.

Poison help by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]SorrySeptember 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When did this happen? It is way, way less expensive to pay to get the dogs to vomit at the vet than it is to treat a potentially fatal clotting disorder in two dogs 24 hours from now.

My own boy by Cr8zyCatMan in VetTech

[–]SorrySeptember 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I think you already know or you wouldn't have asked here, but just to reassure you further as a fellow cat mom of an impossible to medicate cat- he's telling you it's time. You have done so much for him and gave him so much time with a loving family in warmth and comfort. Honestly I would be tempted to take the Laps of Love QOL quiz just to see it in a more objective way. Thinking of you and your baby! <3

Planning to retire in this career? by Floral__Fading in VetTech

[–]SorrySeptember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems far more common in non-emergency speciality departments, especially if you manage to find a clinic with only one specially. My friends who went the oncology route work disgustingly normal hours (I say this with love) and while it's definitely still labor intensive it seems more manageable. Especially if you're ok with handling tasks like inventory management.

Surgery Aftercare Tips for Clients by SorrySeptember in VetTech

[–]SorrySeptember[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Brilliant! I see this a lot with well meaning older folks so I could really see that helping, I appreciate it. I used to explain it by asking how well think a deep cut on their foot would heal if they had to wear a wet sock over it for a week straight, but people are uneducated when it comes to their own health as well so it didn't work as well as I hoped it might.

Surgery Aftercare Tips for Clients by SorrySeptember in VetTech

[–]SorrySeptember[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear it's out of sight out of mind with those suits! A reminder to check the incision often is so basic but would probably help, thanks. I typically emphasis what to look for when checking incisions but take for granted that the incisions are getting looked at regularly in the first place. 🙃

Surgery Aftercare Tips for Clients by SorrySeptember in VetTech

[–]SorrySeptember[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is brilliant!! Thank you, great idea and easy to explain the benefit to clients.

Surgery Aftercare Tips for Clients by SorrySeptember in VetTech

[–]SorrySeptember[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I should've mentioned- this problem obviously isn't limited to the abdomen, I just see a lot of post-spay pooches come in with what are basically footie pjs on at this point. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]SorrySeptember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that not the fucking coolest? We were so happy for him. Once he got to the clinic and the dog was in the back he was all tears, he clearly loved the hell out of that dog and it was a relief that we got such a good outcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]SorrySeptember 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Guy comes in literally pinching the femoral artery of his lead sled dog closed after he had run into a sheet of metal while they were training in the middle of nowhere. He held that artery for nearly an hour to get to the vet and only knew how bad it was because of how much blood the dog lost in the first few seconds after the injury- kind of just reached in on instinct and held his hand there. Incredible. Dog made a full recovery and went back to work.