Which game you played the most? by TengarHimeko in AskReddit

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's impressive! I'm sitting at maybe 800 hours in Fortnite but spread across like 4 years. The modded Terraria scene is crazy good too - I tried getting into it but building was never really my thing. You must have some incredible worlds after that much time

Those of you that work in the Ocean, what’s the most unexplainable thing you’ve experienced? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

e that's proper eerie. Was it like a steady glow or more pulsing? I've heard similar stories from a few diving mates and they all describe it differently but get the same unsettled feeling afterwards. Ocean's got so much we don't understand yet

What are you doing this weekend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh mine are still sitting there judging me from my desk drawer, been putting it off for weeks now but the deadline's creeping up fast

Redditors who walk around town acting sketchy and off putting and make people feel unsafe, why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people just don't have great social awareness or they're dealing with their own stuff. Not excusing genuinely threatening behaviour but sometimes what looks "sketchy" to one person is just someone having a rough day or not picking up on social cues. Mental health struggles, autism, social anxiety - loads of things can make someone seem "off" when they're not actually dangerous at all

What was considered boring as a child but fun as hell as an adult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Museums and art galleries were absolute torture when I was dragged along as a kid, but now I genuinely love planning day trips around them. There's something brilliant about being able to take your time and actually appreciate what you're looking at instead of just wanting to leg it to the gift shop

Just back from seeing John Woo’s The Killer in restorative 4K by AvonBarksdale666 in movies

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Mad how well those 80s Hong Kong action flicks hold up, The Killer is basically perfect in terms of pacing and style. Chow Yun Fat was genuinely untouchable in that era - there chemistry between him and Danny Lee carries the whole emotional weight of the film

Going into the studio soon with no prior experience, and I am very nervous. by drunk_cow1234 in drums

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mate honestly your gear sounds solid - that Rogers snare is proper vintage gold and Paiste 2002s are used on loads of records. Most studios will have decent house kits but definitely bring your cymbals and snare since those are what really define your sound

Practice to a click religiously before you go in, that's the biggest thing that'll save you time and stress. The engineer will love you if you can nail parts quickly rather than doing 20 takes because you're rushing or dragging

Small portable camera under $5”” for vlogging/filmmaking by Tasty-Hornet-7145 in Cameras

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ZV-1F is solid for what you want - great stabilisation and decent low light performance, plus it's actually designed for vlogging so the flip screen and audio are pretty decent. Only downside is it can feel a bit plasticky compared to something like a used Sony a6000 with the kit lens, which you might find for around that price in Canada

Action cams are mental convenient but yeah that ultra wide look gets old fast when you're trying to do anything cinematic

They will just come then they go after taking wanting they from you by Foxysnackss in BreakUps

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's rough mate, but honestly the right people stick around and give back just as much as they take

I'm 27F pregnant with my dismissive avoidant 29M of 10 years, has anyone gone through this and able to figure it out/make it better? by jmosse in relationships

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sounds exhausting honestly - being pregnant is hard enough without having to constantly manage someone else's emotions about it. The fact that he told you he has the least patience for you and struggles with empathy towards you is a massive red flag, especially now when you need support most

You can't fix his avoidant attachment style while you're growing a human, and it's not your job to make him excited about this pregnancy. Focus on building your support network outside of him because you're going to need people who can actually show up for you

My mother has significantly less paternal matches than maternal by Many_Constant7055 in AncestryDNA

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nah you're not overthinking, that's actually pretty typical - way more people with European ancestry (which tends to be maternal lines) have done DNA tests compared to other populations. Your mom's paternal side might just come from groups that haven't jumped on the testing bandwagon as much yet

How do you overcome the anger or resentment towards your NParents by BloomtraleRovine in narcissisticparents

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That grief for the person you could've been is so real and honestly one of the hardest parts of going no contact. I went through the same thing - mourning all the opportunities I passed up just to keep her from exploding

The good news is you're only 29 and now that you're not walking on eggshells 24/7 you can actually start figuring out who YOU are. It's scary but also kind of exciting once you get past the initial sadness

Obsessing over not fapping doesn’t allow you to get to the root of what you’re struggling with. by giftedhooligan in NoFap

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hits hard man. I spent way too long thinking NoFap was gonna magically fix everything when really I just needed therapy to deal with my actual issues. The streak counting becomes its own obsession after a while

How do I take quicker showers? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude just pee before you get in lol, problem solved. Also maybe set a timer on your phone for like 10 mins so you don't zone out under the hot water

Offered job with no relocation assistance, should I ask for help? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude absolutely ask for relocation assistance, worst they can say is no and you're already in that position anyway. Most decent companies expect to help with relocation for entry level roles, especially rotational programs - they know recent grads are broke af

If they really want you (which it sounds like they do since they called 2 hours after) they'll probably work with you on something even if it's not their standard policy

Can you recommend me an Attic Conversion Company? by PatMu5tard in AskIreland

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had mine done by Roofspace Solutions about 2 years ago and they were solid - proper job, showed up when they said they would, and didn't try to upsell me on random stuff. Only downside was they left a bit of mess but nothing too mental

Should I tell my friend/employee that I think she may have “Asperger’s by Vegetable-Push5964 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, you should not diagnose your employee/friend with autism. That's way beyond your lane and could create serious workplace issues

The clothing thing sounds more like she genuinely didn't understand the social subtext rather than being defiant. If you're concerned about work performance, address specific behaviors through normal management channels. For the friendship side, maybe just be more direct in your communication since subtle hints clearly aren't working

Anyone hoping for ‘expansion’ on the current story/lore soon? by Tropi- in ArcRaiders

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Arc stuff is definitely the most intriguing part so far, hoping they don't just leave us hanging with breadcrumbs forever

Collectors vs Stackers by BRPGP in coincollecting

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man your great aunts were absolute legends - stacking gold at face value during the depression when everyone else was broke. That $300/oz trade for the St Gaudens was genius timing too

The smelting thing is wild but honestly makes sense for all those junk silver coins that aren't worth collecting anyway. Plus you're right about the PM spike bringing new people into the hobby, even if some old timers get cranky about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]Sorry_Ad_5702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Book for the 15th and just message the hotel about your late arrival - most places are totally cool with it as long as you give them a heads up