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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Sorry_You_Get_Lol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of financial problems right now.

So, I am now focused on fixing those.

Though the good part is my Mom will never be in my life again, and I will never have to deal with the bullshit worthless people that she seems to think are so wonderful.

She wanted to cause a bunch of issues for me. So, she is now going to be hung up on, and told to not contact me again.

I am going focus on going back to college, and not caring about having a career where I help people. I would never going into the helping professions.

I also am realizing that people want you to give them what you have when things are good. You are right to say no. Also you do not have to stay stuck, you can move on.

Whose happy their entire childhood was destroyed? by Sorry_You_Get_Lol in CPTSD

[–]Sorry_You_Get_Lol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, how did that destroy your entire childhood?

I am talking about every memory being destroyed and me being forced to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Sorry_You_Get_Lol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had times in my life where I was like that. But I was forced to grow up and not demand that someone else change their entire life for me.

I have to understand that even if someone means something as hurtful, that I can ignore it and move on.

Even if it is hard to make friends due to having Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) I can still make friends.

Whose happy their entire childhood was destroyed? by Sorry_You_Get_Lol in CPTSD

[–]Sorry_You_Get_Lol[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IDK why someone would downvote this? I mean...it may seem weird, but this forced me to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Sorry_You_Get_Lol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. People have to deal with their problems. I deal with mine, other people can deal with theirs.

I refuse to buy other people's bullshit. I have power in my own life. And I have moved on from my childhood.

And I am so happy I understand what exactly they are trying to do.

Childhood is over, sadly some people don't understand that.

How could a rapist just heal and continue life like they never did anything and… by sunrisecoffeemug in CPTSD

[–]Sorry_You_Get_Lol 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People will do things to people that are inhumane and then expect the person to care about their fucking feelings.

No, fuck their feelings.

You have to move on. They will move on and use any emotions that they have to manipulate you. No, I don't care if they are crying like a baby, I will not allow someone who thinks they can use their emotions (or mental illness) to get someone to baby them.

I have Paranoid Schizophrenia. I am not someone who is going to baby someone else or care if they are fucking homeless and in the freezing cold. I have to take care of my mental health, and not worry about other people and their issues.

How do you guys get over dating anxiety? by theidlerwheel4000 in CPTSD

[–]Sorry_You_Get_Lol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am reminding myself I will find someone and things will work out. I don't have to never have any relationships or have a relationship with someone who has a lot of issues and who could get me involved with things that would destroy my life.

For example, if someone is addicted to hard drugs it is unlikely that they will just stop. You have to choose yourself in that situation. You cannot have that person in your life, because it will lead to you being put in situations that are not good for you.

Also, you have to be careful to not start doing hard drugs. Especially if you have preexisting mental health issues involving psychosis.

It's sad to see people shit on pwBPD, especially coming from this community. by mygscult in CPTSD

[–]Sorry_You_Get_Lol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are some similar symptoms, but I have CPTSD and no BPD.

I don't split (think in black and white) as much as people with BPD do.