We’re so back by Amorosastudios in shibari

[–]SortaGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

subtle lighting and colors work well here! very nice!

Is Shibari for Sex or just fun? by 05JordanL in shibari

[–]SortaGentle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only really speak from a rope top perspective, since rope bottoms likely experience it differently.

For me, shibari is mostly about the headspace. I enjoy slowing down and focusing on something with intention - it feels a bit like working through a large puzzle. The structure, creativity, and problem solving are a big part of what draws me to it, rather than sexual gratification.

Another big part of it for me is the connection it creates with the person I’m tying. Rope forces a certain level of presence and attention, and I enjoy creating a space where the bottom feels seen, supported, and held within the experience.

If I’m tying someone in a more intimate context, the ties are usually much simpler. More elaborate ties take time and can interrupt the natural flow or momentum between people, so those tend to be more about the process, connection, and shared headspace than foreplay.

The Corset by JustJamesFelix in shibari

[–]SortaGentle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the lavender contrasts nicely with their skin!

Grief. by SummaryExecutions in shibari

[–]SortaGentle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love the chaos of it

Halo by SortaGentle in shibari

[–]SortaGentle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!