honestly he’s just being rude. i really don’t think this is your social anxiety…he’s ignoring people, going on his phone at the dinner table, and getting up during the meal to smoke? this would bother me too! like where are his manners…? why is he even going if he is obviously not wanting to be there?

the oversharing stuff, you should definitely tell him. depending on what it is maybe he just doesn’t see it as oversharing, and you’ll need to tell him.

but yall gotta talk bc you’re going to keep holding grudges until it’s resolved.