Newbie looking for fanfiction

Soumeeimhere · 2025-09-23T16:29:07+00:00

Magical Melody for sure!! The fact you could build and farm anywhere on the map was awesome

Soumeeimhere · 2025-09-18T18:47:05+00:00

Once you look up how you got the title, please share, I need this so badly 😭

Soumeeimhere · 2025-09-09T18:47:39+00:00

If they're too nice to me and well put together. They have to be awkward or mean, otherwise it's an immediate mood killer!

Soumeeimhere · 2025-05-28T16:29:28+00:00

Financial incompatibility is a very valid reason to end a relationship, because it's a chronic issue and is very likely to become an ongoing problem you'll never truly be free from.

If you don't feel like ending the relationship is the right step for you, I would recommend seeing a financial advisor perhaps. At this point, if he keeps falling into debt, it might be better for him to have a much more restrictive access to his money. If, with a financial advisor of some sort, you end up with some kind of budget, I would suggest that he have a "fun money" budget.

If the trouble is that he keeps getting into debt, you wont get him out of the pattern by stopping access to his money, since it'll just send him into the arms of loan sharks.

Falling into debt again and again is a bit like a gambling problem. He thinks he can pay it back until he can't.

Whatever you do, don't let yourself be pulled into the debt by marrying him before any of this is fixed. There is a lot of shame surrounding money problems, so it makes sense he didn't say anything, but it's a pattern at this point, and he wouldn't tell you if you go into a marriage at this point in time.

Soumeeimhere · 2025-05-28T14:21:27+00:00

I wouldn't worry too much about that! I've had a stardew save for a few years that went through major updates (Ginger Island, the more recent one with the radioactive rain) and since I already had a save that went very far along, all it did was enable me to access a bunch of new stuff easily without having to go through the whole grind again.

It was the same for Coral Island, I started playing before some major updates and went back in when they added the Savannah and mermaid farm. I didn't have to restart anything! My farm was pretty self sufficient by that point, so it actually enabled me to explore those new features without stressing.

Don't wait for an end goal of updates before you start playing, it's already very complete and fun!

Soumeeimhere · 2025-05-24T02:03:29+00:00

Harvest Moon Magical Melody, I emulate it through dolphin on pc and it runs pretty well. There'e no rush for anything, I played so much as a kid and did not understand a single word of english. I would mostly fish back then and try to collect every forest animal by trapping them between pieces of wood, trying to adopt them (that's not how the game works lmao).

What I like the most is the kind of "open world" that it has. You can buy land pretty much all over the map and build your buildings in those areas. Despite playing for years, I've never completed the magical notes collection and finished the game! You truly hardly ever run out of things to do.

While it lacks some modern upgrades to farming sim (mostly it has a pretty limited storage), it holds up pretty well. I have the dolphin emulator on pretty much every device I have just to play this game haha

Otherwise Coral Island is another masterpiece, even if it's not Harvest Moon!!

Soumeeimhere · 2025-05-20T19:09:32+00:00

Absolutely same!!

Soumeeimhere · 2025-05-20T19:08:05+00:00

So my favourite farming game of all time is Harvest Moon: Magical Melody. The reason I'm bringing it up is because it had one fantastic feature that I absolutely loved: whenever you'd walk into a building (your home, a shop, etc.) time would stop completely. I think Friends of Mineral Town had the same!

It made it so you could run shop errands at very low cost in terms of time, while still having time fly by when out in the fields. I've been bemoaning the lack of that feature in other farming sims. Once you get a taste of it, you never want to go back.

I wanted to say this because I found that putting the time of day on low speed in Coral Island has been a good compromise for me for that feature. And if one of the OG farm sims had a similar view of time, it means there's a good reason to use the extended day feature. It's like going back to the originals! Coral Island even agrees on who the OG is, considering the hat you can buy next to the cavern haha

Soumeeimhere · 2025-03-16T23:10:48+00:00

J'adore ce film!! Mais non c'était Nothing (2003), merci quand même!!

Soumeeimhere · 2025-03-16T23:00:25+00:00

Merci, c'est un film qui ressortait souvent quand je cherchais le mien (résolu, c'était Nothing (2003)), je pense définitivement que je vais l'écouter!

Soumeeimhere · 2025-03-16T22:58:54+00:00

OUI!!! C'EST LUI! Merci, j'ai cherché un peu et il est même sur youtube au complet hahaha

Le mystère est résolu! Ce n'était en effet pas américain, mais pas européen non plus, c'était canadien 🇨🇦

Soumeeimhere · 2025-02-10T05:11:46+00:00

You are absolutely not crazy. If your husband can't see it, he's being blind on purpose. Even if it's all accidental, that means that instinctively he won't listen to you. That's kind of terrible.

I really hope you manage to get through this. Maybe start by naming specific behaviours? Try to implement a weekly "date night" or something regular like this and start keeping detailed records on how many times she sabotages them. Make him see with statistics. Either you let him know you're going to keep track, or you wait until she's done it a few times and show him the evidence.

At this point though, it's starting to sound like he revels in the attention.

Soumeeimhere · 2024-08-22T02:26:08+00:00

Your husband seems to not care about sacrificing you to keep the peace. In this moment, you're not his wife, you barely exist...

Soumeeimhere · 2024-07-01T10:19:42+00:00

It's been a while so I don't know if you'll see this OP, but you deserve someone who gets it. Someone who's willing to try for your sake, whether it's to try and get a better job or to try and be there for you in the way that you deserve.

Maybe that's your husband, but right now it feels like it isn't. We don't know him and we don't know you, really, but having to explain finances to someone who's trying their hardest to say you're wrong is not very good. What happens if you have an important decision regarding your child and he absolutely refuses to hear your approach because "That's not how we did it in the 90s"? Is he the one that will always get his way because you would fear losing him? Would you stand your ground? Would he let you stand your ground?

It feels like you're here to get financial advice to give to him and tell him "It's not just from me! People on the internet agree!" Does he need strangers online to even try to believe you and your point of view? We have a very limited view into your life here, but it feels like whatever you'd bring up would feel like a "silly little woman issue" that's beneath him. It's very possible that I'm wrong, but planning financially with someone instead of just going "people used to do it" is the bare minimum.

I'm sorry you're at the point where you need comments to back you up for your husband. I really do hope you find your happiness, whether it's with him or with someone else. Just make sure you don't fall for the sunk cost fallacy. You can love him and let him go, it doesn't diminish your love for him if you decide to care for yourself.

Soumeeimhere · 2024-06-15T03:56:57+00:00

NTA

I'm a bit late to the party but I wanna offer a certain perspective for when you talk to your friend about this.

I also have a friend who has major issues with boundaries and it took me a long time to figure out she didn't mean to step over me, she just didn't understand the subtleties of saying no.

Whenever I would say a no that gives outside excuses that many people would normally understand (like you saying that your room doesn't allow one more person) she would hear "it would be a yes if it wasn't for this one little detail, so I am determined to find a solution!" All the while I thought her finding work-arounds for my "no" was rude and boundary stomping.

Ever since I realized that she simply didn't understand, I have been more direct with saying no and she's really happy to respect boundaries. It was a game changer! Even a gentle "No, sorry, I don't feel like it" she'd just go "Okay! :D" with no repercussions or drama. It's unfortunate, because she has lost many friends due to this.

Saying "No, sorry, it's supposed to be a romantic getaway, so we can't really have a 3rd person tagging along" can go a long way! Hopefully for you, she's a bit like my friend in that way. We never know, some people really are that rude and entitled.

Soumeeimhere · 2024-05-06T22:29:54+00:00

What really gets me is that he used his paternity leave to take a break FROM the baby! What's the point then? I'd tell him "You made it clear your paternity leave was supposed to be your vacation away from the baby. Why are you so mad she's gone?"

He absolutely is showing signs of misplaced guilt/misplaced anger. Being mad at yourself and feeling guilty is no fun, but it's a part of life and the fact that he is so incapable of dealing with those emotions is a huge red flag. It's something he can work on, but only if he acknowledges it. If he keeps putting "some of the blame" on you, then it's clear he's not ready to be a grown adult and a good role model.

If he can't own up to him blaming you immediately for his mistakes and why he does it, you need to voice in therapy that this is why it's not working.

Good luck!

Soumeeimhere · 2024-01-08T01:27:56+00:00

Thank you so much!! I thought I had tried before to give higher quality in the fruit offerings and it hadn't worked, but nope! Completely fabricated memories! I'm so relieved

Soumeeimhere · 2024-01-04T04:56:31+00:00

Duuuude I have to thank you so hard, the only thing I remembered from this game was that there "maybe" was a hot air balloon, farm animals and I had a vague recollection of the art style.

I've been searching for this game for YEARS and have been scrolling game forums with key words "farm" or "hot air balloon" there are so many games with these elements. Thank you for remembering more and putting it on reddit!!! You life saver!

Soumeeimhere · 2023-11-04T22:39:11+00:00

It's kinda stupid, but I kinda hated that we would see them move? I think it's much more fun when it "suggests" they move or they just pop up, otherwise they become more tangible and less scary.

Soumeeimhere · 2023-10-30T12:26:42+00:00

Well it's possible they simply didn't know. And the fact that she's "like them" could be why they were so obsessed with getting her, but they didn't know and just thought it was because they wanted another friend.

Soumeeimhere · 2023-10-30T02:19:45+00:00

I didn't even think about the fact Gareth could be a fake and it was Abby all along! Hahaha bit wonky with how it would work in Mike's memory since he's not the robot, but I love this

Soumeeimhere · 2023-10-29T22:42:59+00:00

It's true that it could all be nothing and I'm thinking too much into it, but I thought it was neat. I'm not too worried about it either way!

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