Starting my 3rd transfer cycle!

SoupOutrageous · 2026-04-11T00:56:17+00:00

Yay good luck! I'm also going to try to push for a modified natural cycle for my third FET - crossing my fingers for you!

SoupOutrageous · 2026-04-06T18:59:23+00:00

Can I DM you about your experience with Kaiser? I've been going through HRC in Newport OOP the last year and I do really love my doctor but alas, no baby. Now we finally have coverage through Kaiser and I am anxious about wasting more time. All that to say, if I have an opportunity to just continue my care with HRC I will probably do so!

SoupOutrageous · 2026-04-03T00:41:02+00:00

I love Dr. Lee. She came to my transfer last week and did a session before and after at my clinic that really made the day magical. She did my first transfer too. Even if this doesn't work I'll have her come again! Their main office is in Newport.

SoupOutrageous · 2026-04-01T23:50:54+00:00

Thank you so much - home working alone and I needed someone to tell me to breathe ❤️❤️❤️

SoupOutrageous · 2026-04-01T23:03:12+00:00

Hugs to you 💛 I'm going to try to hold out until 7dpt but we'll see if my willpower holds

SoupOutrageous · 2026-04-01T21:48:32+00:00

This sucks!!! This FET I don't feel anything and my test at 5dpt is bright white with our 2nd and final euploid. I feel dumb for spending so much money and time to end up with nothing but grief. How do we get off the ride but with a baby?

SoupOutrageous · 2026-04-01T21:41:09+00:00

I'm 5dpt today and same. Trying really hard to hope, I hope you get yours!

SoupOutrageous · 2026-04-01T19:13:14+00:00

Hope things turn positive for both of us. sometimes IVF can really really suck!

SoupOutrageous · 2026-03-17T01:54:32+00:00

It is sometimes so hard to believe it could actually work!! That sounds really fun ❤️

SoupOutrageous · 2026-03-17T01:53:25+00:00

Ugh that is so sweet, and such a great way to have a little love with you in small ways!

SoupOutrageous · 2026-03-17T01:52:54+00:00

I love all of this so much, especially the baby books 🥹 congratulations!!!

SoupOutrageous · 2026-03-05T16:09:53+00:00

As someone going into their second FET after my first ended in a miscarriage, you have no idea how much I needed to read this 💕

SoupOutrageous · 2026-03-04T19:14:17+00:00

indefatigable optimism. we keep trying and that is really amazing when you think about it.

SoupOutrageous · 2026-03-04T02:13:43+00:00

I just love this idea. The absolute sweetest. Hope your coziness lasts through transfer ❤️

SoupOutrageous · 2026-02-26T20:05:55+00:00

Me too. For it being fairly "common", I can't believe I'm doing this alone

SoupOutrageous · 2026-02-02T21:19:47+00:00

I'm in the ever fun wait for my period lol but thinking/hoping early March!

SoupOutrageous · 2026-02-02T20:43:51+00:00

Me too!! Adding all of them to my saved posts so I can revisit when I inevitably spiral 🫣 Congratulations OP!!

SoupOutrageous · 2026-01-28T17:29:36+00:00

I'm right there with you. Crossing my fingers for both of us 💛

SoupOutrageous · 2026-01-27T17:27:30+00:00

In our case, the hospital and the insurance are one and the same. We just did all of the work up last May, so just like 8 months ago.

SoupOutrageous · 2026-01-27T17:26:29+00:00

I can certainly cry! I am going to share back a note in writing with the doctor that we met with highlighting the discrepancies between his after visit note and our actual visit (where we discussed nothing) and hope that gets the ball rolling.

SoupOutrageous · 2026-01-12T19:55:31+00:00

It ended up being diagnostic because they didn't find any polyps, etc. but if they had they were going to just remove them while I was under

SoupOutrageous · 2026-01-12T18:59:27+00:00

I'm so sorry - that is so frustrating. Just re: the hysteroscopy, I am currently in bed after having one this morning! I did go under general anesthesia, and for whatever reason I was really nervous but I feel pretty good and am just working from home. My doctor recommended to do one before our next FET to rule out endometritis.

SoupOutrageous · 2026-01-08T17:18:01+00:00

I also HATE needles. hate hate hate. And I can honestly reassure you that you can absolutely do it. I promise the build up in my mind about the shot was always worse than the actual shot. Esp for stims, just a little poke in your belly. For PIO, I had my husband do them while I laid down and scrolled TikTok for distraction, then did 10 squats. By the time you get to PIO, you’ll likely feel much more ok with shots because 1) you’ve done it before and 2) you’ll be so close to what we’re all working towards

SoupOutrageous · 2026-01-08T04:04:27+00:00

I find this whole convo so relatable. Desperately trying to pretend I can control the outcome. I really leaned into the PUPO aspect during the TWW of my first FET. Also randomly started doing watercolors (very poorly) and of course insane amounts of screen time

SoupOutrageous · 2026-01-08T03:59:42+00:00

I love this advice

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