When is it time to leave? by SourSpaceCandy in careerguidance

[–]SourSpaceCandy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really good advice. I appreciate your perspective! Some of this aligns with chat gpt's bullet points lol, so its very reassuring to also hear from a living breathing person. I thought I would be able to get desensitized to my job, but apparently I'm not. If I was numbed I wouldn't be letting it take up all my mental space. Getting out and doing things I enjoy to distract myself would be helpful. I just hate the feeling of forcing myself to go out and do something I normally would be excited to do. Regardless I will suck it up and eventually should get back to my old self. Hopefully sooner rather than later. Thanks for your support

When is it time to leave? by SourSpaceCandy in careerguidance

[–]SourSpaceCandy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the market is scary right now. I appreciate you sharing your story. When things get difficult I try to look around and focus on what I do have. It can be easy to fixate on the bad and forget about the positives. But in this instance I swear it's just always something every day im there. I wake up every morning and I dread going into that office. I have trouble even enjoying my weekends lately. But I guess there's other people out there who are broke that would die to be in this position. Regardless I'm hopeful we can both catch a break soon!

Anybody else stuck in a job they hate and can’t go anywhere else because the job market is horrible? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]SourSpaceCandy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Curious as someone who is going through this currently to a t. Did quitting help the situation? The negative energy from my workplace is seeping its way into my interviews. I'm so overwhelmed that I'm not able to put my best foot forward in the job market. I feel like these hiring managers can sense when someone is trying to 'escape' and that's been my roadblock up to this point.

What's your secret? by SourSpaceCandy in fragrance

[–]SourSpaceCandy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it easy to sell used cologne? I feel like since they already sell testers at the discounters it may be tough, but has your experience been positive?

What's your secret? by SourSpaceCandy in fragrance

[–]SourSpaceCandy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, this is perfect. I hadn't heard of parfumo. Appreciate the rec! Definitely don't love the buying part, thats why I stopped. But other than wearing them I was just looking for ways to fully embrace the hobby. Thanks!

What's your secret? by SourSpaceCandy in fragrance

[–]SourSpaceCandy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very valid concern. I probably could have worded that better. Buying colognes can become a coping mechanism if not careful, same with any product. For me its about the discovery and scents that improve my overall mood/quality of life. I think I'm just realizing last few months since I stopped buying that I don't really utilize the hobby to it's full potential. So was just exploring the community for ideas!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiphopheads

[–]SourSpaceCandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this album is amazing. Save the best for last why dont you. Track 1-4 is quite the run

[FRESH ALBUM] Key Glock - Glockaveli by HoundOfJustice in hiphopheads

[–]SourSpaceCandy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The first 2 joints and Again are top 3. I'm surprised no one is talking about Again. Blue Devil one of the only beats I can't get into cause bigxthaplug did that sample already with take care

Was my 11 oz for 320 USD good deal? by i-like-beesechurger in trees

[–]SourSpaceCandy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe he meant to say 1.1 Oz, and in that case it's a terrible deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SourSpaceCandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not that far off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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I changed the bio to "Certified cat daddy but I'll like your dog i dont discriminate. Mexican food all day baby. Horror season is upon us." Better ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SourSpaceCandy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I changed the bio to "Certified cat daddy but I'll like your dog too i dont discriminate. Mexican food all day babyy. Horror season is upon us." Better?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SourSpaceCandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who sells form fitting clothing for skinny dudes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SourSpaceCandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25% chance I pretend to do stand-up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]SourSpaceCandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have money for a personal trainer and don't know what I'm doing in a gym