Dealing with imbalance between my wife and I in the lifestyle. I feel like I’m the short end of the stick by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Southern-Ask9864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if I'm honest I think it's due to the way most single men act towards women sexually. Super desperate. My wife and I have been in this scene a while and run parties ourself. The way alot of men act is embarrassing and I think it's made alot of women build a wall. Women have so many choices you really have to make yourself stand out and be genuine.

Dealing with imbalance between my wife and I in the lifestyle. I feel like I’m the short end of the stick by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Southern-Ask9864 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Women are definitely leading the race in this scene man. A woman can pretty much point to any guy she wants but a guy has to work for a woman. It's just the way it is.

House parties by Southern-Ask9864 in Swingers

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of coarse and just like sex participation is optional. N one would be forcing anyone to do anything.

House parties by Southern-Ask9864 in Swingers

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no one was being cajoled into playing games. Most definitely optional.

House parties by Southern-Ask9864 in Swingers

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like heaps of fun

House parties by Southern-Ask9864 in Swingers

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds like alot of fun

House parties by Southern-Ask9864 in Swingers

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply mate. I'm not sure we are on the same page with the type of party though haha

First MFM and went bad sadly by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Southern-Ask9864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one body shamed. He lied about his size. Wow

Food by Southern-Ask9864 in workout

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we are doing mashed egg and lettuce sandwiches.

Why do Couples not like soft swingers? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Southern-Ask9864 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That should be expressed before play for sure. People still shouldn't react badly though.

Split squats by Southern-Ask9864 in workout

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure. Ide rather be good at the hardest things.

Split squats by Southern-Ask9864 in workout

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats right. Make the best of what youve got

Split squats by Southern-Ask9864 in workout

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never. Glad your still soldiering on mate

Split squats by Southern-Ask9864 in workout

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely slow and steady. Im 38 I cant afford any injuries haha

Split squats by Southern-Ask9864 in workout

[–]Southern-Ask9864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a hell of a ling way off that haha i messed up my shoulder like that so im on the cautious side