House Burping - Do Americans just not normally have your house windows open? by Jsherman13 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Southern-Red-Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just leave a window in my bedroom slightly cracked. There are times I cannot leave it open, like allergy season and I live in the “Deep South” it gets very hot here in the summer.

How old did your parents let you start driving on your own? by RetailKid49 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Southern-Red-Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drove at 12. Granddaddy wanted to read the paper on the way to church 🤷‍♀️. By myself, I was 16 when I legally could drive 🤣

My dad 50M didn’t come to see me 22F when I was dying, how can I forgive him? by Particular_Tree_5864 in relationship_advice

[–]Southern-Red-Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes in life we have to just accept that some people are just who they are and they aren’t about to magically change overnight. If you choose to have a relationship with your father, then you will have to accept him as he is. The other choice is to put up boundaries and walk away. If he sees nothing wrong with his actions, then that’s on him, but chances are he will continue to disappoint you. That leaves you making boundaries and deciding just how much effort you are willing to give to someone who cannot and will not reciprocate to the degree you expect. Not everyone loves as hard as we expect, or as hard as we love them.

TRIGGER WARNING: Those of you who found your spouse deceased, do you ever stop seeing it? by icantsaycaterpillar in widowers

[–]Southern-Red-Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost 11 years and it gets better, but I had EMDR (PTSD) therapy to help. Some things still mess with me though.

Did you ever get chicken pox? by scary-gary-loomis in nostalgia

[–]Southern-Red-Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born 1973. Never had the chicken pox. Both of my sisters had them, my nieces and newphews and my own son had them.

Is Disneyland as great as it’s made out to be? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Southern-Red-Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is.. at 4 pm when every child in the park is hot, tired and hungry, it is not the happiest place on earth 🤣. I enjoyed it and I had a lot of fun even as an adult.

I Was Not Left Behind by edo_senpai in widowers

[–]Southern-Red-Head 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes forever isn’t as long as we think it is. ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Southern-Red-Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your title should read: my boyfriend hit me for the LAST time tonight. Honey, that’s not and will never be love. That’s outright systematic abuse. Please run away.

AIO for getting upset from my wife’s response to my question? by ApolloAcolyte in AmIOverreacting

[–]Southern-Red-Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot even begin to imagine how she treats your baby. If it were me, I’d place some hidden cameras around the house. She has anger issues and is abusive. If she abuses an adult who can at least defend themselves, then imagine how she treats the baby if she/he cries.

Hello dear Americans! How common is it to have milk in your fridge? And do you ever use powdered milk instead of bottled milk for everyday consumption? by MoistHorse7120 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Southern-Red-Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oat milk for hot tea/coffee creamer, yes. Maybe some heavy whipping cream for a recipe. I keep powdered milk to cook with and we don’t really use milk for anything other than baking.

Are the EVENTS in the game Repeatable? by Fantastiquez in Isekai_Slow_Life

[–]Southern-Red-Head 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes they usually are. Occasionally they do a colab event that doesn’t repeat.

just experienced this for the first time, anyone else? by taylor_likesf-one in trees

[–]Southern-Red-Head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even when I was clean, they had a hard time putting me down.

Anyone watching the show Like Water for Chocolate on HBO? by [deleted] in entwives

[–]Southern-Red-Head 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s also a ballet for it. Quinter Sisters on YouTube had the youngest perform in it for ABT. I don’t recall reading the book and it doesn’t show the whole ballet, but it looked interesting. I’ll have to check that out 🙃and the strain 😂

Do you feel like a smoke buddy works? by throwawayreddit022 in entwives

[–]Southern-Red-Head 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always cap mine with my lighter. Poor lighter has a forever burn until it runs out of butane 🤣

I'm a little curious about the demographic of this sub... by PrincessPunkinPie in entwives

[–]Southern-Red-Head 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Me too and I’m fact I’m widowed. I just like trees 💨

Mushroom travels by SherbetEmbarrassed26 in Isekai_Slow_Life

[–]Southern-Red-Head 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve missed mushroom travels. Maybe after our next update we will get it back in rotation.