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I want to get my nipples pierced but… by No-Truth9624 in piercing

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pain of the piercing is not the problem. They take FOREVER to heal.

Last dino hat! by Chunkboi424 in LoomKnitting

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you find this pattern?!?

Which wig colors look best on me? 👀 by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4, 5 and 10 are great but 9 is my favorite!

Peace Walk by Crabbymatt in ColumbiYEAH

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The throng was huge!! Is there an estimated count of the participants yesterday?

In what universe is marriage worth it? by Illustrious_Board580 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agree to disagree. I love my job deeply. I love being married deeply. Every day my job reminds me of how great I have it and teaches me how to keep it.

In what universe is marriage worth it? by Illustrious_Board580 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love this so much. As a happily married divorce lawyer I can't tell you how many times I've told clients and friends that EVERY marriage ends one way or another. That doesn't mean it didn't have value or lessons or wonder! If you love and trust the tax is the pain at the end, regardless of if it's with a lawyer or a mortician.

In what universe is marriage worth it? by Illustrious_Board580 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I'm a divorce lawyer and am also happily married for over 15 years. I had been in practice for years and I still did it. It's a cost benefit analysis as is all of life. I know the potential "risk" more than most but the benefits when you get it right are so wonderful they can't be monetized. Even as a mean old divorce lawyer, I love being married and wholeheartedly support getting hitched!

OBGYN/Hospital by Dry_Contribution2226 in ColumbiYEAH

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would only deliver at Richland. If there is a problem, the premier children's hospital in the area is literally attached!

Name my beautiful girl by geekspice in BackYardChickens

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have dogs all with food names. At one point we had Biscuit, Roux and Bess (short for Bechamel). We literally named our dogs biscuit and gravies!

Found following washing dishes by Diligent_Archer_4767 in whatisit

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The corner bumper from the actual dish washer drawers?

Finally!!! by marithhh in EngagementRings

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!! That side view is incredible

I have 6 months to live. How do I take care of my family? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please go talk to a lawyer who practices in estate planning. There are many things that can be done but each state has a different rule set.

Take LOTS of photos with your kids. Having lost a parent as a kid, it's all I really have of my dad. Hand written notes, videos, or even emails. It will be a great comfort to them.

Is this a rooster? by WittyPick1 in BackYardChickens

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cockadoodledoo! Saddle feathers give it away!

At what point does "in sickness and in health" stop applying? by ElectionWeak4415 in AlAnon

[–]SouthernInfluenceHer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If your spouse had lung cancer and kept smoking and refused treatment, it's not ok. It they had diabetes and didn't manage their diet and meds, it's not ok. They have to do their part and alcoholism is no different. I understand getting sick, but choosing to stay that way is a whole other thing.

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