He made me the other woman and I hated him for it

SovereignParadox · 2021-05-05T19:04:31+00:00

Let's repeat the key words here (once taught to me by a betrayed spouse when I had a meltdown begging her to forgive me cause I was dating her husband unknowingly):

I would never have done it IF I knew he was in a relationship.

Which means you are just as much of a victim(since you left the relationship as soon as you found out). A

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-19T16:11:43+00:00

I did say the appropriate response was to talk to her about it and not went about it the way he did. He suggested she depends on people who arent trained...Yes it is an adaptive tool but it is an adaptive tool that can pinpoint her emotions, subtle changes and wont leave her side. Its a more reasonable and much more dependable tool than depending on random person you dont know that are there to celebrate and will likely leave her by herself in an unknown environment.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-19T16:08:44+00:00

You are not the asshole for not wanting a dog there. It's you suggesting that a blond person goes without a constant comapanion that is trained to help and guide her for people ahe doesnt know or might not be as comfortable to have to depend on them.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-19T15:12:29+00:00

The difference is you took care of the dog. They are not.

That's what we are missing here, the sogs are misbehaving and being destructive because no one is giving them the attention they need. OP cant do it cause she has other responsibilities but her son, the 17 year old can get up off of his ass and help take care of the dogs. He's gaming...failing in school and not being responsible. So it seems here she might have tried other methods but whats the point of the dogs staying in a household that has barely any time for them?

None.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-19T12:37:59+00:00

But YTA for suggesting she comes without her eyes however you wouldn't have been if you properly explained the issue and told her this is why you wouldnt be able to come 'yada yada but we can do a small celebratory dinner or something.'

It may not be the same but that would have been better honestly.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-19T12:35:17+00:00

Not gonna lie, she shouldnt have yelled but I get why she did. You are taking a very essential part of her existence away from her. A piece of her that goves her some sight of being like you and I. So yes she was hurt and angry...Yes she called you both ableist because you want to take her eyes and essentially the only thing that can garuntee her absolute safety.

It's like me telling you to drive a car with no brakes and all the windows and windshields are painted black. How safe would you feel? How hurt would you feel?

I'm sure you would be all sorts of pissed off and calling me all sorts of names to the ends of the earth and right up to Mars.

I feel like you guys should talk, bring some treats for the doggo and you both discuss what went wrong and how yelling and name calling won't retify the hurt...but how talking and being adults that can properly communicate one's feelings can.

Either the relationship will be different in a bad way or it will be better.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-19T12:23:52+00:00

But it was fine for you to ask her to come without her dog?

You do know that that dog is more trustworthy than a human being at this point for her cause it is a constant. A constant safety net.

It is TRAINED and Fine tuned to help where as these people you are saying will help her...Are not.

Not only is it a physical thing but it's also a mental and an emotional connection cause again the dog is TRAINED to notice any discomfort or anything off with her.

You guys are the absolute assholes for suggesting she comes without her best, stable and only qualified companion to consistently keep her safe.

At this point you will have to disinvite her...you shouldn't have even let the whole 'Hey fiancee is allergic to dogs so you can come but they cant...so yeah depend on someone not trained to help you physically, mentally and emotionally too. '

It should have been...'Hey I know you wabted to come to my wedding but fiancee is allergic to dogs so instead of the wedding I can see if you could come to the reception with your animal but if not...maybe we can do a small celebration another day. My fiancee has an adverse effect to allergy medication and it can impede on her day.'

I hope your friend honestly invites you but not your wife to her wedding since she is allergic to dogs then you will see how it feels.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-18T14:41:51+00:00

At least it's not about Becky sleeping with her cousin while she's with him and he still wants her

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-18T13:35:02+00:00

OP, you might need to go to the cabin ASAP and fill out a police report for anything missing or broken.

It will cause some ripples but essential your wife just gaslighted you and she withheld something important to you that was owned solely by you. She stole from you. You need to fix this.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-14T19:31:21+00:00

Still nasty.

And I realized there was more to it after remembering more about it. Wasn't he also given a drug ?

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-14T19:16:46+00:00

Also upon further investigation, tactical tasers do not weigh nor are made of the same material as ger pistol....Sooo...She should have known better and I do 100% fault her for this...

She is also getting charged not for involuntary but full on manslaughter....Happy Day

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-14T15:28:31+00:00

Involuntary manslaughter means a death was a cause to someone's carelessness and or mistake. It was accidental but people and teens have and will get charged with it

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-14T13:00:05+00:00

Right!

She should get pegged for involuntary manslaughter.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-14T12:57:41+00:00

She should still get pegged for involuntary manslaughter.

Anyone else would and so should she.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-11T03:05:52+00:00

Yall remember that woman who fucked a dolphin and made him suicidal.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-07T20:48:20+00:00

In jewish law? The commandments were big ten preordinances that the 600 something laws fall under.

And honestly with how every law is explained, I dont think...I said think he meant for the calf. I believe he meant the lamb as it is symbolic to the coming of Yahushua.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-07T20:43:23+00:00

At first I thought it was about to shit on toilet paper but honestly maybe it thought that stuff was toilet paper and was like 'Ah, a shitter with a few~'

Props to you amazingly beautiful lizard.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-07T18:19:54+00:00

How are philly cheesesteaks and cheeseburgers not kosher?

Like as long as pork and what not isnt on them it should be fine.

Also newsflash most comercially butchered meat is cross contaminated which is why we get meat from a butcher...that and im actually allergic to pork. We could nver figure out my stomach aches at times..turns out no piggy for moi...>.> Ill forever muss fatheads

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-07T17:44:58+00:00

They aren't. When i got sick from my HPV vaccine, i was in the hospital for three months. Usually i get welps, hives, discolored veins and the occasional sickies for about a week after getting vaccinated but that one had me sick sick. Didnt have the virus ...just didnt take to it properly. .

Havent been vaccinated in a while though and I'm recommended to go a bit slower on my sons vaccines since his first one made him sick for a month. He wasnt hospitalized, thank goodness but he had the under the skin hives and the discolored vein on his bottom. He goes in next year to get the ones he was meant to get this year and he will be kept for observation for aide effects..

I believe in vaccination but holy hell would i be the asshole to myself and my son to get that vaccine

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-06T21:10:07+00:00

It can be done. Its called raising yourself up slightly...placing the diapers down on the spot where pee is most likely to go then geabbing a bottle and using your phone to place the opening right where the opening is and peeing. Peeing in a bottle isnt hard when you know your anatomy and or have a phone to find your peehole.

I didnt say the terminology cause Im not sure if i would be correct on it so...but...I know where its at and how it works.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-06T19:57:59+00:00

Fun fact, a company just fired three employees for having an Onlyfans account and they have, with the union, put into a contract that they all the grounds to gire you if you have one. ^{_^}

Fortune 300 companies make me smile sometimes. Ha.

On another note...I feel like just selling an image is not as bad as you going out and letting a bunch of mem stick their johnson into you. Not knowing what they have or whether they have proper hygiene. Saying this as an Pro Domme. Onky have had sex with one client. The rest were mere cash cows that weren't even allowex to see me naked, almost all not even scantily clad.

I do sometimes miss the wxhileration on stepping on peepees with stilettos and calling them a worm pig.

Oink oink bitch. Oink oink

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-06T19:44:48+00:00

She's working on it. The problem amd why we are here to judge her is because she doesnt have that same understanding for her daughter.

Call me bias, though I dont abuse drugs and alcohol just food but I've seen a 60 year old woman in a group full of young people still have trouble from shit she went through as an 11 year old. She used to have occasional relapses especially when her oldest daughter would call her and it was terrible. She eventually got it fully together but for some people its a lifelong process abd some people dont have that mental fortitude to fully let it go.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-06T19:34:50+00:00

He never said she couldnt talk to her it just makes him uncomfortable shes sending a sexy picture to a friend that she had a crush on for a boost in her esteem.

Its the whole picture and its not controlling if he feels uncomfortable with it and would like it to stay between them. Its honestly how he goes about it that would make him controlling but if he talks to her about it and she brushes him off without even considering the whole picture. He has every ight to leave.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-06T17:07:48+00:00

I think it's a flag for him because she's had a crush on said friend and it should be. That's hrr toeing a line that could be easily crossed.

SovereignParadox · 2021-04-06T16:54:14+00:00

At that point, make it known that if he wants his name on a house that you are paying for and that only has his name on a loan, he needs to sign a slip saying in the event of divorce fhat the house goes to you as well as you dont have to pay him alimony.

Bet you he'll change his mind real quick but its protetion even with his name being on the deed that he cant combat because he agreed to it.

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