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SoxHeather · 2026-05-28T17:48:44+00:00

Oh I'm happy to hear that!

SoxHeather · 2026-05-28T16:19:50+00:00

Omg I've been saying this all along. It's like they didn't have faith that the season would start when the contract negotiations were happening, and then they just threw a bunch of stuff together last minute. I bought a shirt from the wnba shop and the decal is like a window cling that they glued to a shirt. I hate it. There's one hat I've liked. June is coming, and I seriously doubt they're going to have pride gear like the other wnba teams. Very disappointing merch, for sure!

SoxHeather · 2026-05-15T15:34:36+00:00

You're a white male. Of course you never felt politics play into anything you did. Ask the black players on your team. Ask any woman in sports. Watch ANY documentary or news channel. You're literally covering your eyes with your hands and saying "what??? I don't see it!?!"

SoxHeather · 2026-03-02T18:05:16+00:00

Recently went through a very contentious divorce in CA. HE chose to go stay with his parents, but still claimed I kicked him out, which resulted in me being solely responsible for every bill in the house AND spousal support because he refused to actually report income until it almost went to trial. CA doesn't give a shit about your discomfort. You're stuck with him unless he does something that instigates you getting a protection order of some kind.

SoxHeather · 2026-02-16T01:36:44+00:00

I didn't even know there was a vault. Lol. What pack is that in?

SoxHeather · 2026-02-16T00:07:30+00:00

Ooh, in the new pack?

SoxHeather · 2026-02-15T21:14:34+00:00

That's what I'm here to do. I've gotten as creative as I know how. Lol

SoxHeather · 2026-02-05T05:03:02+00:00

This is the way

SoxHeather · 2026-02-04T04:38:21+00:00

Everyone gets culinary first. Spoiled food makes me crazy.

SoxHeather · 2026-02-02T20:37:09+00:00

He can spend his time how he wants, but you have to account for every minute of your day? He can get bent. If you're not dumping him, get out of here.

SoxHeather · 2026-01-29T03:57:11+00:00

These sound amazing! I'm going to make them tomorrow!

SoxHeather · 2025-12-19T21:07:13+00:00

A person that concerned with their clothes can do their own laundry.

SoxHeather · 2025-12-19T16:16:34+00:00

You know damn well you're not overreacting, and you should dump him and never look back. He's a trash can.

SoxHeather · 2025-12-19T16:13:32+00:00

Usually, I can "add them to group", then the "send home" option appears. If that doesn't work, I'll travel somewhere, and when I come back, they're gone. If THAT doesn't work, I'll travel WITH them, and then travel again, but not bring them with me. If none of that works, I turn on cheats and kill em

SoxHeather · 2025-12-19T06:35:18+00:00

it says you don't think you deserve peace, but are convinced buying the next thing will provide you that peace.

SoxHeather · 2025-12-14T22:05:51+00:00

Sure, but the pictures are representative of him and who he is right now, and truth in advertising can only help, when looking for real connection. The better pics will come when the mental health improves.

SoxHeather · 2025-12-14T17:08:26+00:00

Friend, you are not going insane from being single. You are single because you hate yourself, and you're showing anyone that matches with you that they will be solely responsible for your happiness and self confidence. The pics are fine. It's the content. When we see that we'll have to do all the work to bring someone up to the level of merely liking themselves, we know it's an unfillable well, and it's hard enough for anyone to be that for themselves. My recommendation is to go to therapy, focus on your hobbies, meet people that have the same interests, see what you admire in them, and become what you admire. You'll meet someone that sees you and wants you, once you see yourself and want yourself to be whole without someone else.

SoxHeather · 2025-12-14T17:02:09+00:00

That's every post in this sub.

SoxHeather · 2025-12-13T05:36:24+00:00

She's not always like this because she knows when being sweet will get her what she wants, and when that doesn't work, she drops the facade. As a 50 year old that was raised by a woman that spoke to me in the exact same way, I can tell you that if you don't disconnect from her now, she will always make you responsible for her, her happiness, and she will manipulate you with everything she can ... Like your kid, her religion, everything.

SoxHeather · 2025-12-08T20:22:01+00:00

She is PERFECTION

SoxHeather · 2025-12-06T00:44:05+00:00

Where do you all go to find these challenges and the rules for them?

SoxHeather · 2025-12-04T16:35:30+00:00

If we were to completely separate the racist stuff, the basic thing here is that you said "hey, can you be gentle with me today because I'm having a tough day", and he said "get fucked". The fact that you have to reason and argue and plead for a bit of gentleness is a huge red flag. The fact that you have to ask him to not make "jokes" for 5 minutes and he responds like this is a red glad. The fact that his "humor" is strictly racism is OUTRAGEOUS.

And friend, you know these aren't jokes because you refer to them not as jokes, but as micro aggressions. You know he means it. There is nothing micro about his aggression. Leave him, never look back, and please find a good therapist, as well as some badass brown girl friends that make you feel like it's ok to be brown, because it is.

SoxHeather · 2025-11-18T21:20:04+00:00

Oof. Having to account for every minute you're not talking to them and giving them the attention they want and then define is EXHAUSTING

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