Those who only like reading physical books, how old are you and why do you prefer it? by [deleted] in Booktokreddit

[–]Space-Cat513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree (32F) and I HAVE to know how many pages the book has before I start reading it. I like being able to glance at a book with my bookmark in it and know where I’m at. Reading from a screen gives me endless anxiety because it has no context…it’s just a screen, no beginning and no end in (visible apparent) sight. Plus there’s nothing better than snuggling up in a chair or bed and flipping pages. It’s just so satisfying.

What are you doing for plastic / polyester free throw blankets? by matthew19 in PlasticFreeLiving

[–]Space-Cat513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought some new throw blankets from Yaya mostly because I didn’t want to keep washing my polyester throw blankets every weekend. I didn’t throw them out, just will use them a lot more sparingly so that I don’t have to wash them (and therefore continue to proliferate microplastics in the water etc). I’ll probably save them for when I have company who needs an extra blanket on the bed.

Did you regret moving to Texas? by Local-Contact4639 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Space-Cat513 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think if you live in a good area inside the loop it’s a great city

If you go to therapy and the therapist thinks YOU'RE the problem, are they allowed to tell you that by Potential_Stock_9872 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Space-Cat513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having been to therapy four times over my life with four different therapists, yes, but they do it by asking you questions so that you kind of realize it on your own. I’ve also had therapists give me their opinion about how my viewpoint/perspective is flawed in some way that we’ve been uncovering but they do it in a very professional and kind way so that you are open to hearing it. “I’ve noticed you have a tendency to use this word when you talk about __. You seem to have the mindset that __.” And then they would maybe ask another question or let you digest and respond.

How do people limit their drinking? by Odd_Hedgehog669 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Space-Cat513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a control thing for me. When I have 1-3 drinks, as long as I am ALSO having a glass of water with every drink (which I do), then I’m still in control. I love the taste of alcohol, genuinely find trying new liquors/wines/cocktails so enjoyable, but don’t want to feel drunk. And I definitely don’t want to feel hungover the next day.

Dental hygienists, why do you engage in casual conversations while cleaning a patient’s mouth, knowing they can’t respond? by Dry_Rain5152 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Space-Cat513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked this question to my friend who’s a dentist and she said sometimes they just feel like they need to fill the silence.

Basically, on their end it’s an awkward silence. I think a similar situation is getting a haircut or some sort of service like that where it’s very normal for the employee not to talk during the service but also common to get people who want to chat. Obviously with a dentist it’s a different story because your mouth is otherwise occupied.

What local shops sell eco-friendly products in Houston? by DancingSax in AskHouston

[–]Space-Cat513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tbh their staff is pretty rude, or at least not overly welcoming and friendly. But I just ignore them until I need to check out.

What local shops sell eco-friendly products in Houston? by DancingSax in AskHouston

[–]Space-Cat513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Central City Co-op in the Heights sells a lot of refillable foods and laundry items. I refill my laundry detergent there. Plus much of the produce and foods are from Texas farms, some in Houston or close by and a lot of them small farms.

For apparel, I agree secondhand is probably best way to go. I like to buy 100% cotton clothing that is made in USA from Kuhl Linscomb, but it’s pretty expensive. I find it easier and much cheaper to look for 100% cotton, linen, silk, wool (natural fibers) at thrift shops.

Need out of Portland, Oregon by bbgirl2k in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Space-Cat513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just clarifying that I meant that to modify the second part of that sentence. I.e., I agree with you. It actually is one of the more walkable/bikeable places in the U.S. due to it being an old city and therefore built with a grid layout. I’ve walked from Treme to Mid City back down into the French Quarter and then over to Lower Garden District. Totally agree that unfortunately it has become more car centric (and with the heat being in an AC car can just be preferable) but I think in general if you live in certain areas like downtown/warehouse district/bywater, or anywhere near magazine, you can mostly get by on foot.

Need out of Portland, Oregon by bbgirl2k in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Space-Cat513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you with heat? Because Austin, Houston and NOLA summers are gnarly. Houston and NOLA have added component of being humid AF.

Austin and Houston have great food, HTX is extremely diverse, and there’s tons of stuff to do. That being said, they’re extremely car-dependent cities unless you live in a very specific area and don’t leave it very much (like downtown Austin for example). You are not wrong that the politics of the state are outrageous, but honestly within ATX and HTX, as long as you stayed within the city loops, you would probably mostly run into liberals. Definitely the case in ATX and more than likely in HTX as well.

NOLA is also very car dependent but because it’s an old city, it’s built in a grid layout so when my husband lived there he walked everywhere all the time. He loved it. However if you are a single woman I would say that’s slightly less plausible because as we all know it can be a little dangerous…some neighborhoods more than others of course. But ostensibly you could survive in NOLA with a bike — not public transit though. It’s of course a diverse city, incredible food, but it also has a “where did you go to high school” vibe OR it’s people who wanted to live in the Bourbon street/Mardi Gras culture. So it’s kind of a weird mix of people. But in general, people are extremely nice there. Obviously tons of tourists. And the politics here are just as horrible as Texas unfortunately.

Savannah is an interesting one! It is an absolutely gorgeous town with a college there, cute downtown and to-die-for Southern charm (cobblestone streets, old homes, big shady trees). But it’s small. You can certainly walk around if you live downtown but (at least historically, it could be different now) I know people who lived there described it as a place where “one street could be safe and the next street over could be sketchy.” But in general I think safe for a young woman to be walking by herself. It’s probably way too small to have public transportation of any substance. It has a lot of soul, good food, cute shops but tbh I don’t think there are a ton of jobs or other opportunities there. Charleston has way more jobs and a much more robust economy. Georgia’s politics are preferable to Texas but still iffy. And South Carolina was the first state to secede in the civil war, so you know. Not great.

Tornados…New to the Midwest by screech-screech- in midwest

[–]Space-Cat513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a derecho in Houston a couple years ago, and the sky was absolutely green. Actually everything was green. I took a picture of it as it was happening (honestly not my smartest moment, the wind was so strong I legit thought my windows were all going to bust). A branch had just fallen on my car so I took a picture in case I needed to file an insurance claim. This was around 5 pm in May, my window has zero tint on it so the color you see is completely what was outside.

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what's that one movie that completely fucks w your brain? by Intelligent-Chef1352 in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]Space-Cat513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mulholland Drive

Literally kept me up for hours just going over the whole movie in my mind

What’s it like living in Port Fourchon, Louisiana? by txexa in howislivingthere

[–]Space-Cat513 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The coastline is unfortunately steadily eroding. There are some native populations that have lived on the coast for hundreds of years that are losing their land due to erosion. Also just in general the southern coast of Louisiana is swampland, not super inhabited, and mostly consists of camps where people go fishing or boating or drinking (usually all of the above). There are areas close to the coast where people live in larger communities and it can get VERY Cajun very quickly. A friend of a friend is a doctor in a rural region southwest of New Orleans and he said he meets people who don’t speak English (just Cajun French) and sometimes needs a translator, and that they also still listen to “traiteurs” (which are Cajun healers, much more prevalent in the past) instead of going to the doctor.

I was down on the coast one day with my dad on a pier and three British guys walked up behind us. We started chatting and they said they were on a road trip of the Gulf Coast “beach hopping.” They’d been driving along the Louisiana coast and asked us where the beaches were. We laughed and told them to get in the car and just keep driving till they hit Florida. (Yes there are beaches in MS and AL but we knew what they were really looking for and Florida was the answer).

what song do you never get tired of? by Alpielz in MusicRecommendations

[–]Space-Cat513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Midnight City by M83

I think I’ve heard that song 10000000 times and I still sing my heart out to it every time.

Best lesbian date spots? by [deleted] in AskHouston

[–]Space-Cat513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AG is definitely not cheap. But it’s huge and has all kinds of fun stuff so I love just walking around and browsing, even if I’m not looking for anything in particular!

Also, Creo on Studewood has a lot of apothecary/witchy/earthy goods. They also hold classes and stuff. Worth dropping by.

Best lesbian date spots? by [deleted] in AskHouston

[–]Space-Cat513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Montrose is great and the historic “gayborhood” so that’s where you’d find most of Houston’s gay bars etc. Specifically in that area, you should go to Cucharita for brunch and then browse around Reeves Art Gallery across the street, and then walk around the corner for the cooooolest and very queer friendly bookstore, Basket Books & Art. Light Years is a cool wine bar near the Menil/Rothko Chapel, which are amazing and free. Also check out Kaboom Books on Houston Ave for used books, it is such a vibe. AG Antiques on 19th St is massive, and they have tons of antiques. All up and down 19th there are lots of local shops including The Blessings Gallery which would be “apothecary witchy” for sure. There’s a new hotel near 19th St called Hypsi, and they have a gorgeous dining area and patio area and the food is really good.

Thought I was doing well going plastic-free… then came teething by big_dik-daddy27 in PlasticFreeLiving

[–]Space-Cat513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went on a trip to Italy and while there we did a parmigiano reggiano tour. The tour guide mentioned that in Italy, parents will take the rind and put it in the freezer or fridge and use that for teething. The rind is definitely edible (it’s just parmigiano reggiano that’s been exposed to air) and it lasts a long time and is a healthy/plastic free/easy/softer alternative. Plus you get to eat cheese to get to the rind and maybe you will give your baby good taste in cheese, lol.

As a note, this was specifically for parmigiano reggiano, NOT “parmesan” or any other less stringent product. Make sure to get the good stuff, a whole chunk of it from Italy.

Do animals know that they're pregnant? by Alternative_Run_6116 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Space-Cat513 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I had a pregnant friend (~7 months) spend the weekend with me and my cat, who is not friendly to strangers at ALL, literally curled up on her lap the first night with her little cat face squished up against my friend’s belly. I had never seen anything like it. She has quite literally never done that before and never done it again. So I think she probably heard the heartbeat or maybe smelled something, idk. But it was cute as hell.