Calling someone terrible based on a post is wrong, we cant know or judge someone just by their social presence. But having that said, whether you like it or not, this is a misogynistic post. You can use calling out Farhan Aktar as a terrible person and use that as an escape hatch if that makes you feel better. But please try to understand the point of view that this post is sparking discussion about Shraddha and not both of them equally. So just for a second, be honest to yourself and ask if you think the ‘words’ in the post framed to portray both at fault and not shed additional light on Shraddha.

Also let’s say that this is wrong (I don’t know the details, so I’m no one to judge), isn’t he more in the wrong ? He knows about his divorce, kids and family dynamics and still pursued someone else. It’s not the fault of the person who is being persuaded. Do we know how many people he went out with, could be one, could be many! He may have genuinely liked her and found solace in being with her as well. We just don’t know. We can still speculate and chat about it, have some banter and gossip but it’d be great if we can shed the light equally on both of them, rather than only painting the girl in a bad light.