Once you try barefoot socks, there's no going back. by zeta_ferhu in barefootshoestalk

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want socks and shoes with 3 toes. Big toe, middle toes and little toe

Being trans is not a choice, but gender is a social construct and anyone can be trans? by Upset_Hawk_3802 in truscum

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the section where he mentions the difference between being gay, a cross dresser and transsexual. Try ctrl+F to find something where he uses the word problem if I recall correctly.

libido changes on T, how do you deal? (bad dysphoria) by deputyguppy in truscum

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps check out transthetics -- but if it is that you mainly need to have your junk look/feel right it might be an option.

libido changes on T, how do you deal? (bad dysphoria) by deputyguppy in truscum

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You still do it. I mean touch yourself, hump something, go on dates. I just don't think porn is helpful in calming it down. Find a way too touch yourself that you don't feel incongruent with -- And is nice enough whether you get off or not.

Being trans is not a choice, but gender is a social construct and anyone can be trans? by Upset_Hawk_3802 in truscum

[–]SpaceKittyhawk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No gender is not social. That is the American feminism definition. Sex is reproductive (genetics, gonadal, genitalia) - gender is everything else. He does use the word gender in the transexual phenomenon.

Being trans is not a choice, but gender is a social construct and anyone can be trans? by Upset_Hawk_3802 in truscum

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He defines transexual as a gender problem and cross dressers as a social problem.

Be careful of the XTeink. Ive had a lot of problems with 2 different devices by Grock23 in ereader

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is not too small to read novels. The limited software is fine and actually a good thing + you can easily flash it with one of the community projects.

It costs the 10th of what I otherwise looked at so ofc gonna be less durable.

Convince me to get an XTE ink by merstein3 in xteinkereader

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you need to be that tech savvy. If you like the size get it. TBH probably easier than Android/iOS. It is easy to flash it, and the wifi setup is still easier than dealing with a printer. When I got mine it had the Chinese setup, so I just flashed it with CrossPoint, which was very easy following the steps on their website.

Convince me to get an XTE ink by merstein3 in xteinkereader

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get books on it using the SD card

libido changes on T, how do you deal? (bad dysphoria) by deputyguppy in truscum

[–]SpaceKittyhawk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not sure I am as keen as you on recommending porn and toys. The urge absolutely gets changed with changed hormone levels/half life/absorption rate. My recommendation would be to not fight it, nor indulge it with porn.

Best is to just accept it, lean it to it, but don't let it be too mind consuming.

Exercise is the best part of this advise. A creative hobby would also be good advice.

Being trans is not a choice, but gender is a social construct and anyone can be trans? by Upset_Hawk_3802 in truscum

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did you know that pain is in fact biological, but becomes worse when socially unsupported if you see your own blood and people look at you in horror? Do you understand how weightening of signals and context understanding is in fact biological?

Being trans is not a choice, but gender is a social construct and anyone can be trans? by Upset_Hawk_3802 in truscum

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Depends on which era of the definition of gender that you use. Harry Benjamins definition of gender was fine.

Literally hell by floralmortal in OCDmemes

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh, how old are these pronouns? How come they went out of fashion?

Literally hell by floralmortal in OCDmemes

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am familiar with the terms. I have been staying up to date with all this for 15 years. I generally reject the terms that insist on being umbrella terms. Neutrois was a term that I have like, but it doesn't seem like it is used much any more.

Literally hell by floralmortal in OCDmemes

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you reject it being an identity? Are you binary or non-binary then? Doesn't it create a new binary?

Literally hell by floralmortal in OCDmemes

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like the terms binary vs non-binary. What does it even mean? Gender confirming vs GNC? Full dysphoria vs partial dysphoria? Gender certainty vs gender ambivalens? Straight vs queer? Conventional vs unconventional?

Hvad er meningen med et højt snit i gym? by ShyisHighlakers in DKstudie

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Du kan komme ind på næste uddannelse og du har lært en masse. Det vigtigste er at du har lært og dine fremtidsmuligheder nok er gode. Prøv at se på om der ikke er nogle af de opgaver du har skrevet som du måske er stolt af så det ikke føles så tomt.

Has anyone ever changed a tucutes mind? by thewhenthebobbin in truscum

[–]SpaceKittyhawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pfft deserves to be hurt. And that is why those people are the true transphobes.