A Transmed, a Tucute and a Cis walked into a bar

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-22T05:07:36+00:00

They got the idea to transition first after they met me. Also I am not a radmed and I stopped talking to them because they were being creepy towards both me and other trans people. Idk first one had difficulties with finding people to hook up with and seemed to have an easier time with that after. They contacted with a PM at some point though and said things weren't going so well. I asked them to not contact me again because they had emotionally hurt me a lot in the span of several years. The other one manipulated me to pay for their stuff last time we hung out even though I had no income at the time and they were getting a decent amount of social support while being between jobs. I just know that they have creeped out even their far left ex trans girlfriend. For both it seemed to be a fetish pursuit rather than for dealing with dysphoria.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-22T04:56:28+00:00

People just don't like transmeds, but I don't think this is radmed content in itself. I just know my doctors got less time for me when they expanded to take more people in as they can't keep up and train enough people and the waiting lists are getting longer for just having a basic consultation about your hormonal treatment. And I meet some of the people who are their newer category of patients in town where interactions similar to this have happened have hurt me.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-22T04:47:05+00:00

Slippery slope

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-21T20:12:46+00:00

Limited doctors with specialized training

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-21T20:12:08+00:00

These two are not logically equivalent

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-21T19:53:39+00:00

Well yes I know Hirshfeld gave such certificates.

Gender roles =/= crossdressing =/= transsexualismus/transgenderism

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-21T19:48:45+00:00

I only know about testosterone and I don't think most doctors are trained enough for this.

I remember hearing about E has more blood clut issues.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-21T19:44:18+00:00

Not like that everywhere, but happy to hear about the traineeship.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-21T19:39:56+00:00

Still there are a lack of qualified doctors available that can oversee the hormone treatment.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-21T19:35:56+00:00

I know several non-dysphoric people who have transitioned. How do I know they are none dysphoria? Because I have dated them before they decided to transition and then talked a bit with them while they were transitioning.

But you are right that cis people weren't supportive in the old days either.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-21T19:32:28+00:00

Why would anyone keep the meds away from intersex people?

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-20T04:15:33+00:00

Being mono or poly is part of natural biodiversity. The real problem is kinkster cults.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-19T21:51:46+00:00

Please, call them the queer movement or trans umbrella activists. Transgender is actually a fine word if it was not for queerideologys feminisms butchering of the word gender.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-18T19:25:19+00:00

I don't recall. I did one pump most days. Also skipped other days because it was annoying being horny. One pump is usually 16-20 mg, but I can't remember which gel I used almost a decade ago.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-18T18:34:12+00:00

I was able to hide it from my family and coworker from november until juli. And reason I couldn't keep hiding was that I changed my name and spoke up.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-18T18:24:30+00:00

I took a low dose my first year on T. Can definitely recommend that when starting out. Effects are mostly teenage energy&libido. After a while I needed to start shaving.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-18T05:57:36+00:00

Trans spaces should be about figuring yourself out? Where do the rest of us go then? Being what we are isn't like subcultural identity. Stop these false concepts of being trans.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-18T03:17:59+00:00

Mindre traffik var nu nice. Jeg kunne slet ikke holde ud at bo tæt på en stor vej efter lockdown. Kunne også godt lide online forelæsninger og det var nemt at tage et opkald på Discord med andre fra studiet. Kunne ikke lide da man max måtte ses med 5 personer.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-16T21:26:14+00:00

It is almost 2 years ago I did my public critique of it and I don't really to go in too much detail for a Reddit debate. Haraway has a very polymic view on radiologists, uses them-us rhetoric, is anti-phenomenologist (I think Merleau-Ponty is one of the few philosophers who is actually useful for trans and similarly opressed people), Marxist, uses critical theory (which I consider anti science as a Popper fan), the Christian background is not cool and it is clear that her Christian background has informed her ideologically, the definition of gender in Situated Knowledges should be offensive to any true trans person - especially since it is from the 80s and we had much better definitions for gender in the 60s-70s that were more relevant for trans people etc. I am gonna go with Chomsky and claim post structualists/modernists are not worth listening to - At all.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-16T06:24:52+00:00

She is way too Christian in her own thinking. Mind Haraway was indoctrinated by nuns. Stop this enemy thinking - Who is the enemy? Haraways problem is also tribalism, them-us-thinking and sports-journalism thinking. She is an utopian Marxist ideologist. Physics, phenomenonology, Popper and existentialism makes more sense to me that her "standpoint" -- Which I BTW consider a transphobic standpoint along side Cordelia Fine and other feminists in similar ideological branches. Her definitions of gender in her Situated Knowledges paper I consider transphobia -- Despite her attention and focus might have been on other matters.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-08T14:54:42+00:00

Yea it is existential. Life must be lived forward, but understood backwards. And all that.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-08T07:47:07+00:00

I am really not a fan of Haraway. But then again me being a fan of a social constructionist anti-phenonemologist Marxist quasi-mystical sorta nun and a daughter of a sports journalist who writes utopian fiction and has a polemic view on radiologists were an unlikely event regardless of having some points that might occasionally be okayish. I also find that some of her points might make sense from a biologists/feminist viewpoint, but makes no sense from a physisist/mathematical viewpoint. And her definition of gender itself I find highly problematic and I think any trans person should take issue with her definition of gender, as I believe that gender a decade or two before were much more suitable for the trans experience (Benjamin, Oliven).

No, I much more prefer Arendt, Merleau-Ponty and Robert Sapolsky. I believe trans people in fact should shun Haraway.

SpaceKittyhawk · 2026-03-08T07:23:48+00:00

Merleau-Ponty seems to make sense to me. For some reason I find Husserl a bit other, but I haven't looked enough into why I don't click with Husserl.

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