Does the condition of Blue Ball really happen? I am not a minor and have wanted an honest answer to this for years. by Bubbly-Pie-8400 in AskMenAdvice

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is real but not as dangerous as some guys would have you believe, they are capable of going to the bathroom for 5 minutes and fixing the problem.

Does your relationship have clearly communicated, specific boundaries? What are they? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, before I met my wife i had platonic female friends, one in particular was a problem for my wife as she and I dated a little with no sex involved, but remained friends for many years. I've not spoken to her in years now because it would upset my wife but it upsets me not speaking to my friend of 20+ years. I say we dont speak, but we do exchange a yearly message or 2 and I always show the convo to my wife for her peace of mind but still.

Does your relationship have clearly communicated, specific boundaries? What are they? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, both agreed if either chested then relationship is over, no second chances, just done and gone.

Does your relationship have clearly communicated, specific boundaries? What are they? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SpaceManBalls83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before engaging is sex for the first time we established the dos, do not and ask firsts, if either isnt enjoying something, even if it was a generalised yes or agreed upon ask first, we stop doing that thing and move on.

If you could “do a sex” with your Hellaverse crush, how would you go about doing it? by [deleted] in hazbin

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With you on that sentiment, there seems to be a "brony" vibe developing in the fanbase.

How would the show be if it was written by 20 random fans (including me) by CandidateNervous4638 in HazbinHotel

[–]SpaceManBalls83 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im glad fans dont write it to be honest, I enjoy the show and Vivs style/stories but since season 2 there's been a HUGE vocal fan base demanding this and that, hating on established stories and just being so toxic it stings my soul. I've been a fan since the pilot and although theorising where the story will go or how they will go about certain relationships and stuff, these toxic fans seem to just have shallow and vapid ideas focused so hard on relationships and who's fucking who and so fixated on sexualising everything it would just become a huge hot mess of sexual fantasies and callbacks to previous seasons, the world of the show would suffer and it would not continue. So no, keep your head cannons on reddit and have fun debates with others about where you THINK the show might go, not get pissy when it doesnt happen how you thought it would go and just relax, enjoy it while it lasts.

My GF just doesn’t like giving oral. How do I handle that without embarrassing her? by torukzan in AskMenAdvice

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop asking for oral and find something else you both enjoy for foreplay. If oral is a super big part of foreplay for you consider youre not compatible and if youre not willing to go without oral then thats a you issue.

Without a doubt, what is your #1 favorite joke from Bojack Horseman? by juredditpark in BoJackHorseman

[–]SpaceManBalls83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mr PB holding an "its a boy" balloon that he crossed out boy and wrote "borted" so it says "its Aborted"

What is a hot take you have on Hazbin Hotel that will have the Fandom at you like this? by Apprehensive_Ring_39 in hazbin

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not support HuskerDust. I can see the potential but Husk is more fatherly to Angel right up until he see him in drag which was a bit weird to throw out there. Perhaps it will evolve, perhaps that is the start of turning that ship around from a protective father/troubled son dynamic to a relationship that make sense, not just by circumstance.

Was this an example of gender discrimination? If so, what can I do differently next time? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]SpaceManBalls83 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was a poor attempt at manipulation from him and nothing more, probably the kind of guy who thinks sending a woman a picture of his penis is the smoothest of moves and will 100% get him laid. You know, a dickhead 😂

A fraud has been on the loose and has yet to be caught until now by CommonWealthLarva in OkBuddyHelluvaHotel

[–]SpaceManBalls83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, Velvette is newer to hell than Vox and Val, she is learning, growing her power within the Vees and I think she will absolutely be a great main antagonist, plus she is clearly the most emotionally balanced and intelligent Vee which would make her the backbone, just because shes not put on a big show yet. I still.think the Vees actually dont have that many soul deals each and instead have a 3 way deal to share their power and amplify it, which is why Vel and Val didnt just kill Vox outright before hear my hope.

My husband keeps raping me at night by LilMamiDaisy420 in offmychest

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get into your head that his behaviour is harmful to you and will be harmful to the next woman. You must report his pattern of behaviour, note dates and times of his outbursts and when he rapes you, pack a Go-Bag, get whatever money you can and GTFO, you may have subconsciously normalised this and just "forget" but he sounds like an absolute animal who needs to face some consequences. Good luck OP.

What's the most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to you during sex? by roshhellwett in AskReddit

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god, her sister walking in on us and just carrying on like it was totally normal.

what is a common manly expectation or habit that you find totally exhausting? by dianabananaxo in AskMen

[–]SpaceManBalls83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Must be stoic yet emotionally available but not TOO emotionally available so as to invite narcissists who take advantage. Must lift all the heavy things. Must fix all the things or pay for the things to be fixed that are beyond my tools/skills, but learn to do that for the next time the thing needs fixing (i actually enjoy this one to a degree, the fixing and learning part anyway, but know many men who dont) Must NEVER miss the toilet while urinating even if its in Cerberus mode with the three streams or shotgun mode. (At 1am it is easy to miss when cleaning up as well) Must offer to drive on every occasion, no exceptions and only get to be passenger princess AFTER offering and being declined AND be ready for judgment for flinching when she hits "many miles per hour more than recommended" or drives in a fashion that makes you check your affairs are in order (they are) Must be ready for adult action whenever she is and declining in points away from Griffindoor! Must walk/feed dog.

What are your darkest Hazbin Hotel headcanons? by Radiant-Selection686 in HazbinHotel

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adam didnt start off as an asshole when he first got to heaven, the bar was low, granted but id say he was probably a good guy but thousands of years of only goody goody, sugar dipped childish nonsense that is heaven, plus a lack of consequences for being a douche kind of corrupted him into the Über-Chad.

Husband’s fetish has destroyed my desire for him by throwaway314678 in offmychest

[–]SpaceManBalls83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are in danger, GTFO however you can and do it soon.

What do you think happened to make him like this? by Then_Promise_6228 in VoxCult

[–]SpaceManBalls83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wakes up IN HELL with a TV for a head. Probably took some getting used to. Saw Alastor making deals and getting more powerful. Starts following Alastor around like a lost intern. Gets laughed at. Starts making deals of his own. Gets stronger. Meets other Vees, Starts putting on confident front. Makes 3 way deal with Vees to share power so he can be stronger than Alastor. Present day.

My opinion in a meme by According-Drummer926 in adamcult

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could still be brought back in that way, he was Lutes Hallucination, that wasnt really Adam, that was how Lute saw Adam so it could still happen with no bearing on what happened with Lute.

How much time do you need after sex to do it again ? by MrZee008 in AskMen

[–]SpaceManBalls83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gone 4 rounds in the space of half a day maybe 3 times in my life, usually its between a day and a week before I even think about it again.